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how do you stop liking a person
I really want to get over this guy but i cant. were going ut for almost a month but then we got into a fight and he broke up with me. hoe do i get over this perso, i really did like him and i still do. but i dont want to. its hard for me because hes always around my friends. i just want to stop. any ideas for how to?
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confussed and hurt:(
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well i will let you know that i am not going to tell that you have many years ahead of you to find a guy to be with because when i was younger i=people told me that but it wasn't exactly the perfect band-aid for my hurting. I will say that you could just givehim space and that includes giving yourself space from him even if it means not hanging out with your friends let them know why you are not hanging around them sooo much and if they are good friends they will understand. Or if you really want to get with him that bad then hang out with your friends but when you go around them put on a cute lil outfit and look at everyone in the group except him, give everyone a hug except him and show him you don't need him and sooner or later he should want your attention....
anyways i hope i was able to help you with your problem and i wish you luck, you are welcome to write me or ask more questions
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A month isn't even that long. It's a bad thing that you were only dating for a month & you were already so attached that the break up hurt.
You need to get over it. You sound really young. I think you should take time to get to know someone before you jump into a relationship because becoming attached within a month is a bad thing.
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i will just give it to you stright im sorry but you probly wont stop likeing him until you meet someone more special
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* First off: I disagree with the person below me. Rushing in to another relationship will not help anything, you'll only end up getting hurt worse.
As far as getting over it:
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I have found, firsthand, that the best way to get over a gut is to do the following:
Step 1: Have a really good cry.
- When my boyfriend and I broke up, I was super upset (like words cannot describe how bad I felt). But I told myself that I wasn't going to let it flip my entire world upside down. So I let myself have one really good cry, and then I told myself I'm going to start moving on. Which brings me to...
Step 2: Friends = lifesavers.
- Go to the mall and buy yourself something nice (don't over spend, though. Just something small, but nice. Like a new outfit or purse!) Or go see a movie, or out to dinner or something! Don't mope around your house all day doing nothing.
Step 3: Talk about it.
- It feels SO good to let it all out. Sit down with somebody you trust (for me, it was my mom) and just spill your heart out. Again, don't let it ruin your life or impact you too much.
Step 4: Move ON!
- Stop talking to him for a while (you need to give yourself time to get OVER him). Don't stalk his Facebook, spend time with other people, and don't even waste time TALKING about him.
Honestly, it's going to take time, and it's going to be hard, but once you get over him you will feel SO much better. I promise you that this guy is NOT worth wasting all of your time on, and that there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Go out and find a new guy that treats you right and is WORTH your time. Forget about this guy ASAP. You're young and have plenty of time for guys. And, as one of my favorite books puts it: The first boy is always the hardest.
Best of luck! :)
-Laura (17-f)
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A good way is finding a new guy to start crushing on or dating. Usually you'll forget all about him. If not try hanging around some of your friends that he doesn't talk with and just try and keep yourself distracted. Eventually you'll forget he even existed.
Hope this helps hun
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stop thinking of him as your former little wanton sex kitten, or whatever you kids call em these days, and just think of him as that dude. the sooner you start thinking of this guy without the posessive attached, the better
-gunner
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