Gender: Female
Age: 17
Member Since: June 8, 2009
Answers: 8
Last Update: June 10, 2009
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I never thought to ignore him! Good idea! Thanks for y our answer you are right. It just sucks. I know he will text me some dirty stuff on my phone sometimes on how he wants to do stuff. How do I ignore that and not look like Im blowing him off?? (link)
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hmmmm well since you wrote me i decided i would tell you my name. my name is kim...you can call me Kimmy if you want its a nickname but anyways if i was you i would say simple answers back like "mhhhm and ok"...short stuff like that or say "well thats good..but that would include someone who will treat me the way i want to be treated" that is if you want him back
idk if that will work for sure but i am trying my very best i hope you work things out and i really hope you are happy speakin of i actually am havin guy problems myself but thats a long story but i appreciate you writing me....anytime because i know how it feels to be hurt and used and i just don't want any gurl to go through that but thank you
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i wanted to take some pictures for my fiance....like you half nude and stuff. i got a disposable camera and i= started to take some pictures well its hard to do a whole lot when im the only one holding the camera so i was wondering if someone could give me some ideas so i could finish off the roll of film.....like different positions or outfits or expresions......i just need some ideas
thanx (link)
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hahha funny...well take some facial expressions of you biting your lip or biting your finger that would be cute..or maybe lay on a bed and if you have long hair move your hair around your face and on the bed and have one hand holding a sheet above your chest lol sounds weird saying this but i have done something like this before ....i know i have a lot of time on my hands but i hope you have fun with that =)
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i stay with my babydaddy but we not together.he broke up with me on my birthday last year cause he though i was mad cause he work that day.which was sad cause that was not true.nut he was my first or everything including virginity.but i feel like he using me.lik if i say i won't give him money he would kick me out.and othe girls he talk to they don't give him money and he respect them more then me and im the mother of his chilld.he call me stupid slow.one day he love me the next he say he can't wait till i get out his life.then i found out he guve girls money.and im working hard giving him money and he don't help me out.he not even working.and when he go out of town i let him stay at my mom place.and he let gurls pick him up over there.and he tell me oh we ain;t together.i no we not together but y u doing that.and we have sex i give him a blow job.and i found out he having unprotected sex and he laugh and says we not togetther why u geeting mad for.i mean you my first that took my virginity why he doing this to me.its lik every time i stand up 4 myself he want to kick me out or something.ploease help me (link)
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I don't know if you love him or not and i am sorry but i would cut the connection...it seems that he is using you and you are too nice of a gurl you don't deserve that... he calls you stupid and slow and ASKS YOU FOR MONEY OR HE KICKS YOU OUT!!!!! that is soooo disrespectful he doesn't care how you feel thats what i am getting outta this......i mean that just makes me sad because you deserve someone who will take care of you and your child....make him suffer and go put on cute outfits and make him want you but show him that you are too good for him tell him you need a man that can be there for you and most importantly your child.......you really deserve better.....=/
i hope this helps and if you need help or you have questions i'm here for you and i wish you the best of luck!! take care of your baby :)
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I really want to get over this guy but i cant. were going ut for almost a month but then we got into a fight and he broke up with me. hoe do i get over this perso, i really did like him and i still do. but i dont want to. its hard for me because hes always around my friends. i just want to stop. any ideas for how to?
sign,
confussed and hurt:( (link)
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well i will let you know that i am not going to tell that you have many years ahead of you to find a guy to be with because when i was younger i=people told me that but it wasn't exactly the perfect band-aid for my hurting. I will say that you could just givehim space and that includes giving yourself space from him even if it means not hanging out with your friends let them know why you are not hanging around them sooo much and if they are good friends they will understand. Or if you really want to get with him that bad then hang out with your friends but when you go around them put on a cute lil outfit and look at everyone in the group except him, give everyone a hug except him and show him you don't need him and sooner or later he should want your attention....
anyways i hope i was able to help you with your problem and i wish you luck, you are welcome to write me or ask more questions
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I like this person and he is all about just having me as a friend with bennifet.. I had sex with him once and he said it was ok. I dont think he is going to come around again. I really do like him but I dont think I am his type because he is into the skinny weman. I am thick.. I would want some type of a relactionship with him. Is there something I can do to get his attenction?? I know by writting this it is very stupid of me to like something like this but I know I would be good for him but he doesnt see it. (link)
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well i went through a similar situation except i didn't have sex with him because of trust issues but even if the guy is nice about it and he may actuallt care about you but i don't know the situation real well but it sounds that if he is into skinny women then why was he gettin with you?....think about it for a second...he probably just wanted to get something out of you but like i said i don't know him as well as you but if thats the case as hard as this may be play hard to get .....put on this cute outfit but pay attention....ignore him all day or night..he might try to get your attention...but i wouldn't suggest taking him back beacsue if you are lookin for love and someone who cares about you the same way as you do for them then he isn't the one
i hope you are not mad at this advice but i don't think you want to get hurt and how is not paying attention to you seems to me that that hurts you already soooo try to look around a lil bit...and you are welcome to write me if you have anymore questions but good luck!!! =)
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seven months pregnant was with the dad but we split up a still love him and want to be with him ut a dont think he feels the same way a feel like am on my own with the pregnancy a just want him to see how much a care for him when am with him a feel like crying cant even talk to him a just feel imbaresd what should a do??? (link)
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Don't cry i know without him you feel like your on your own, but he is probably having a difficult time too i mean YOU ARE HAVING A BABY TOGETHER, but just take care of yourself and help your baby...in time if he can't be there for you and you guys' baby then you have to think about your child first....and even if he leaves you and i know it can hurt to hear that but you will have your hands full by making precious memories with your baby and that baby will need your tender loving care ....then when you are ready find that one that will be there to take care of you and your baby even if it isn't his
i hope i made you feel better and if you ever want write me a message you're more than welcome and gurl don't worry bout your spelling i understood you =)
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So i was dating this girl for like the last 3 weeks right? we went on like ten dates and we got really close. last thursday i took her out to lunch paid the bill, gave her a ride, made small talk and all that good stuff. We went to the park after and she told me that i made her crazy and she was starting to really like me... the next day when i textedd her she responded with the one word text messages, which she normally doesn't do, and like after the third message stopped talking to me. She won't return calls or text me anymore.. she just left today for honduras with her church. i dunno what happened, but maybe you could help? should i get over her and move on? or should i try to like "get her back"
Thanks
btw i'm a 16 y/o dude (link)
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well maybe something came up because even though i don't know the whole situation i don't think she would say she likes you a lot and then stop talking to you so give her some time i know its hard but when she is ready to talk she will...ultimately though the decision is yours and you know her better but don't worry too much it could just be nothin at all so just give it some time
i hope my advice made you feel better and i wish you lots of support
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So this guy who is kind of like an ex boyfriend to me (it's complicated), called me entirely on his own two nights ago. He started the conversation with telling me that he had good news, it was that he had a new girlfriend. After telling me about his new girlfriend, he called to apologize for being such an asshole to me, and that he didn't know how to tell me but that he was a commitmentphobe who was afraid of getting closer to people, since his nanny died when he was 9 years old (he's 19 now, so that was 10 years ago). He also said that he's gotten worse since we stopped talking and hasn't been able to get me off his mind, it was like his new girlfriend didn't even matter to him at all. He said that apparently it would be the last time that we would talk. Which in response, I told him that I'd have to think about it and I'd give him an answer about whether or not I wanted him in my life after I got back from Basic Training in August.
Well I recently graduated highschool and back in September (when we were first together) I wrote a senior sentiment to him,along with telling him that I kind of missed him but I still needed time to think. He wrote me back telling me that I'm the best person he knows, how the fucked up thing was that now that he thought about it he still loved me, rather or not I believed it, and how he misses what we had and if things could ever be the same to let him know, how he's always there for me, and that he will always love me. I was going to write him back the next morning and I even had a nice letter typed up, it basically said how I could forgive him but he'd have to prove himself to me. Then I saw that his myspace profile had stephy & joey {06/03/2009}, which is kind of how my senior sentiment was (it had our anniversary at the end), and he changed his profile picture back to a picture of him wearing his army uniform in my sentiment I had referred to him as my soldier (by the way, he deleted his army photos and changed his profile picture after he got medically discharged).
I messaged him back saying that I wasn't going to be the other girl, and asked him what and who he wanted. Expecting that he'd keep his promise to me to always be honest about things. He told me that he had feelings for me, but how this new girl was really amazing. Right... like she mattered so much to you that you actually called your ex girlfriend and said those things to her, right... Then, I told him something like, “Then why did you send me that (I forwarded the message that he wrote me)? My brother's right, you and her are perfect for eachother, she's obsessed with you and you have no idea what you want. You're STILL a commitmentphobe. Have a nice life!” I think that I might have intimidated him, and he doesn't know what to say in response because he said nothing to me in return.
I did some exploring, and noticed some really odd things about the girl's myspace. Yes, she was his top myspace friend, and her profile looked legit, unless you looked really closely... I'll add more to that later. Yet she was ugly and not to sound shallow, I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but he likes girls like Taylor Swift, Avril Lavigne and me. Okay that just sounded really conceited, but I've been told many times that I am a really pretty girl and I was even one of the prom princesses at my prom. This girl seriously needed her eye brows done, and she was wearing no makeup, she just really WASN'T pretty at all. My girl friends mentioned to me how ugly she was, my brother whose 25 in July mentioned that she was cute, but.. let's put it this way he's a really nice guy. He also added that he thought that my ex said that only to make me jealous and that I have a lot more to bring to the table than she has (he's not my biological brother, either). I also thought that it was odd how she only had two myspace friends (her top one was still Tom) and she's young, and should have more than that. I also noticed how it was so over done, she's 22 and after 4 days of dating she's obsessed with him and wants to marry him? Like what? He's a commitmentphobe and he let her put down Mrs. D as an alias? Huh? I also saw that they had the same myspace pet... something that a self-respecting guy would not own, it was almost like he slipped up a little bit on that. My brother said that he went to both myspace pages and didn't notice any comments on either page, when I looked at Joe's pictures I saw that she commented to some of them, but it seemed A LOT like he could've commented pictures posed as her. He types A LOT like the way that I saw her type. I wasn't the only one who thought that her page was fake either, two other people agreed with me.
He's played a lot of games before, and I just want to know if I should wait for him to chase after me. From what he's done, it shows that he would. Or if I should just confront him and say that I know that he's just playing games, and that if I didn't know any better it sounds like he really doesn't have a new girlfriend. Honestly, I'm still really pissed. What would you do if you were me? A part of me sees a great person in him, a guy that I have a serious connection with and I still kind of want to be with him, despite the crazy shit.
By the way, I don't know if he stole someone's pictures, she might be a girl whose doing a really big favor for him. He has A LOT of friends that are girls, they might be acting like a couple, so that I'd get jealous, come crying to him, he'd cheer me up (notice how he said that he's always there for me?) and we'd get back together.
(Okay I just noticed that I sounded like one of those ditzy girls in those teen movies, I'm really not like that. I apologize if I pissed anyone off.)
If it makes any difference, I'm an 18 year old girl. (link)
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first off you have two choices. You could just listen to most people and drop him, which isn't a bad thing, but if he is someone you still care about and can't just let go easily then as you said he seems like he is trying to make you jealous...sooo?.. if he wants to play a game of who can make who give in first then play the game with him i mean it can be immature to do that but if you think about it won't hurt you so play the game and if he can't pick you and he has to think about who to choose then he isn't worth it ...but if you do want to give him another chance definately make him work for it because if you get compliments from other guys then you shouldn't have a problem finding a more commited guy
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