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what shoild I do ??
seven months pregnant was with the dad but we split up a still love him and want to be with him ut a dont think he feels the same way a feel like am on my own with the pregnancy a just want him to see how much a care for him when am with him a feel like crying cant even talk to him a just feel imbaresd what should a do???
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Don't cry i know without him you feel like your on your own, but he is probably having a difficult time too i mean YOU ARE HAVING A BABY TOGETHER, but just take care of yourself and help your baby...in time if he can't be there for you and you guys' baby then you have to think about your child first....and even if he leaves you and i know it can hurt to hear that but you will have your hands full by making precious memories with your baby and that baby will need your tender loving care ....then when you are ready find that one that will be there to take care of you and your baby even if it isn't his
i hope i made you feel better and if you ever want write me a message you're more than welcome and gurl don't worry bout your spelling i understood you =)
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A) would you want your daughter to be with a man who'd walk out on her if she was pregnant? NO. So why are you settling for less? You will be an example to any child you have. If you settle for less, then that's all you're going to get. He left. He doesn't want you or the responsibility of a child. Period. There is not convincing him. Trust me, been there, done that. Better he be gone now than have him wait a few years after the kid has bonded and then have the child's heart REALLY broken.
B) you are by no means going to be a good parent to this child. Although you may love this baby, be honest with yourself. There is no way you're going to be able to get a job with that spelling, not one that is going to pay you much of anything. You can't provide for yourself, much less another human being. You are more concerned about a loser guy than what's best for this baby, that should tell you something in and of it's self. That child deserves to have a mother and a father who both want it and can take care of it. Give the baby up for adoption.
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Honestly you seem really young, and the last thing you need to be worrying about right now is your boyfriend. Obviously you're going to need help but you need to be worrying firstly about your baby and then about yourself. I understand that you're hurting right now, but seriously get over him and move on, or give that baby up for adoption. I know it sounds a bit harsh, but seriously you're spelling like you're 11.
EDIT*I didn't say that I didn't understand her, I'm just saying that she needs to learn how to spell. I understand what she's trying to tell us, but I don't think that she should be raising a baby with a lack of education which she clearly has.
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