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I like someone but they dont want a relactionship....
I like this person and he is all about just having me as a friend with bennifet.. I had sex with him once and he said it was ok. I dont think he is going to come around again. I really do like him but I dont think I am his type because he is into the skinny weman. I am thick.. I would want some type of a relactionship with him. Is there something I can do to get his attenction?? I know by writting this it is very stupid of me to like something like this but I know I would be good for him but he doesnt see it.
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well i went through a similar situation except i didn't have sex with him because of trust issues but even if the guy is nice about it and he may actuallt care about you but i don't know the situation real well but it sounds that if he is into skinny women then why was he gettin with you?....think about it for a second...he probably just wanted to get something out of you but like i said i don't know him as well as you but if thats the case as hard as this may be play hard to get .....put on this cute outfit but pay attention....ignore him all day or night..he might try to get your attention...but i wouldn't suggest taking him back beacsue if you are lookin for love and someone who cares about you the same way as you do for them then he isn't the one
i hope you are not mad at this advice but i don't think you want to get hurt and how is not paying attention to you seems to me that that hurts you already soooo try to look around a lil bit...and you are welcome to write me if you have anymore questions but good luck!!! =)
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Never have sex with a man to try to get him to like you. It will never work. He will only grow closer to you if he's already falling in love.
Having sex too soon has given him what he wants out of you and he'll likely keep taking what he can get out of you while giving the least effort possible.
This is a road to heartache. Forget this man.
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This guy is obviously a jerk. Only wanting to be friends with benefits and telling you that the sex was just 'ok.' I'd stay away from him. You don't need to be with a guy who doesn't appreciate you. I was in the same position, the guy I reallly liked only wanted to be friends with benefits and it sucked because I wanted to be more than that. But I had to stop talking to him because I just liked him more and more everytime we hung out. You have to try and stop liking him because you'll end up getting hurt. If he is trying to be friends with benefits to you, he is probably being friends with benefits to other girls and that's just going to hurt you. No girl likes to see the guy they like hang out with other girls and hear about them doing stuff with other girls. So my advice: stay away from him.
Do you really like him or do you just like the fact that he is there, avaiable? There are plenty of other guys out there that will like you for who you are. No matter if you are skinny or thick. That shouldn't matter. If a guy likes you, he will like you, mo matter your size. Hang in there and the right guy will come around. I'd stay away from this jerk.
Don't do friends with benefits with him. You don't want to get pregnant or get an STD or be known as someone who does friends with benefits.
You seem like a beautiful girl on the inside and out and the right guy will come around and notice that. You just got to be true to yourself.
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
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OH OH! Low self esteem alert! STOP RIGHT THERE!
This is where society is messed up sometimes. See, the way the whole dating thing SHOULD work is the man does everything he can to please US ladies. They try to win OUR hearts over.
NOT the other way around. That boy sounds like a punk! Telling you the sex was ok and all he wants is sex with bennifets? What a jerk!
I will not, no one will actually, sit here and try to give you advice on how to get a creep's attention. Its obvious your a sweet girl and care a lot about others and their feelings. Give all your lovable energy to someone who deserves it because he doesn't.
Wanna work on that self esteem, I can help. Message me, its still annoymus ya know.
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