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One big mess!!!!
Well i kinda got two situations here the first one is about my friend. You see she has this class with this boy that ive been liking for awhile and so do i we all are in the same classroom. But anyways latley they been kinda getting close you know and like i try not to get mad about it because she knows i like him and stuff and i kno she wouldnt do nothing to interferr with that. So about few weeks later she wa tellling stuff on what my crush been saying to her like asking her to the prom and stuff and i figure he was just playing because he just that kind of guy that plays like that. And then few weeks later after that he had ask her what would she do if he ask her out and she said no because she knew i like him and she told him that. But you see my point is this they be talking and flirting alot in class. And like at first i didnt really care but then it started to bother me. She saying she dont like him like that but if she dont then why she keeps doin the things she doing to him. I mean i dont care if they talk like friends or whatever but its like they getting closer by the min. And she does this right in fron of me both of them. And by the way the boy knows i like him and stuff. Whic leads to another situation. This boy that i like ive been liking him for awhile now and like he knows i like him and ever since he found out he be flirting with me and stuff. Which made me believe that he may like me to but then again i dont know cuz he likes this one girl or watever. ANd i was told that he dont like me. But if he dont why is he talking to me and flirting with me and stuff. Its just the things he does and say that make me believe he likes me. And whats going on between him and my friend am i over reacting or is somthing really going between them. And if he dont like me and knows i like him why does he send all the signals that make me believe he does. Im just confuse with it all.
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First of all you need to seriously cool down. Don't give a guy any attention. Try one of his friends. Think about it. He's with your friends. What about his friend that maybe in your class.
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hey there =]
okay in my opinion this boy is loving the attnetion he is getting,its what guys do they find out a girl likes them and they flirt away like crazy and might not even like you back.
I think your friend might secretly like him but doesnt want to hurt your feelings,but what shes doing in front of you isnt fair its hurting your feelings although she may not even realise shes doing it,it might not be intentional you should ask her straight out to just tell you the truth that way you can know for sure.
by the sounds of it I think your both better off without this guy like he flirts with your friend,knows you like him and flirts with you too it looks to me like hes only going to cause trouble between you.which would you rather loose a potential boyfriend for a few weeks months whatever,or a good friend?
if the two of them genuinely like each other and want to go out then you shouldnt stand in the way as hard as it would be to see that.I understand though trust me ive seen my friend and the guy i liked kiss infront of me(they didnt know i was there) anyway if this happens all you can do is just stand back and do your best to be happy for both,but ask them to respect your feelings while your around until you are over him and defenatley tell the guy thats its not appropriate to keep flirting with you like that.
good luck with this situation I know its a really tough one to be in and it sucks, i know everyonee hates hearing this but there is plenty more guys out there and youl realise that =]
I hope I helped in anyway!
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Jess
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