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age difference
Ok. so i've been texting and talking to t his guy... lets call him T. well, he's 17! and i'm fourteen. he knows how old i am though. Well, i think i like him. and we 're supose to be haning out sometime. but he thinks i'm hot and whatnot. but geeze. Even though he freaks out about age/
do you think that after we hangout, if he likes me enough... we'll settle something, and maybe date?
ps. DON'T TELL ME I'M TO YOUNG TO DATE/ HE'S TO OLD FOR YOU/ HE'LL GET YOU INTO TROUBLE.
please.
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No worries, I wasn't going to tell you any of those things. :)
There is a possibility that, yes, he may change his mind and decide to date you after you two begin hanging out more and he gets to know you more. However, there is also a possibility that he will only want to be friends, as he may be worried because he could get into trouble (I'm looking at his point of view here, since you are younger than him, if you were to say he did something to you, he's be in jail in a second) or afraid of what others might be saying or do to get him into trouble.
Hangout with him and see how things go; keep an open mind, and know that if you do not become more than friends, at least you have a good friend.
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alright there are two possibilities here:
1. he actually likes you and he wants to get to know you. after a few times of hangin out with him you guys might get to that point, but just wait til you get to know the guy.
2. he may just wanna get into your pants. im friends with a lot of guys that are 17/18 and if they ever go for a girl that young its because they know they can take advantage of her. so just be careful and dont do anythin stupid with him, and dont feel the pressure to do anythin.
x sweeethoney
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Oh yea, it's def possible for him to date you after he gets to know you. There's many guys out there that want to get to know a girl before they date her, especially with a fourteen year old girl. Now, you may look old for your age for a seventeen year old to be dating you, but he still wants to get to know you to make sure if he wants to settle something.. so don't get offended by this. Just act cool and relax and show him the real you :)
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It's possible that he could ask you out after you guys hang out, but if he's someone who likes to wait, he may want to hang out a few more times before he does.
Chances are you probably won't date for long especially if he's turning 18 soon, though. After he turns 18, it's illegal for you guys to be dating. So, kissing & whatnot would be illegal. :( And if people were to find out, you wouldn't be the one getting in trouble, he would.
Be careful.
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It just depends on what he likes. A lot of guys like younger girls and most girls like older guys so the odds are in your favor =]
Talk to him about your age difference and see how he feels but if he didnt like you he wouldnt waste his time texting and hanging out with you.
Hope i helped & Good Luck =]
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