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What should I do with my best friend?
He's being really weird around my girlfriend, and she doesn't know it, but he flirts with her all the time. I am afraid if I say something about it, my girl will get mad at me. What should I say without making my problem worse?
I am 16/m
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Just talk to him about it. Tell him that he's flirting with your girlfriend & though she doesn't notice it, you do and you want it to stop. If he wants a girlfriend, then see if your girlfriend has a friend she can set him up with. Bringing it up won't make it worse, it could actually help so don't be afraid to say what you feel.
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Don't talk to your girlfriend about it. She's not the problem. If she doesn't recognize it, it's not considered a threat. It depends if he acts like that around other girls too. Maybe he's just like that. You can tell him to stop by doing a few things like holding her hands or being somewhat closer to her when he's around. If he's not taking the hint, speak up.
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Rather than talking to your girlfriend about it, considering she doesn't realize he's flirting with her so much, then I would suggest talking to your friend about this problem, as I can definitely understand where you're coming from.
Talk to him (calmly) and let him know that you feel he's being overly flirty with your girlfriend and it is bothering you, and ask him to not do it and take things from there.
Best of luck, my friend.
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I agree, dude should not be messing with your girlfriend. talk to him, or take him out behind the barn and slap him around. buy brass knuckles if he's bigger than you.
-gunner
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trust me talk to her your girlfriend about it and your friend thats not right and needs to stop
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