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i really need help
people at my boyfriend is going around the school telling my boyfriend friends that im ugly and i really think are relationship is about to end and myboyfriend mom think he need to think about school before he need a girl friend and i really dont want to loose this boy this is my heart and my soul mate i really love him please help
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well, does it matter what people think? i think angekina jolie is hot, but some people have the audacity to say she's a puffer fish. what matters is perspective. if your boyfriend thinks you're hot, then hot you are. be more confident!
btw dont be surprised by the mom's advice. every mom says that. if he loves you as much as you do, he'll stay by you.
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I have a question for you....How are you finding out what his friends think about your looks and what his Mom thinks about his breaking up with you?
If you are hearing it from other people, outside the relationship, it may not be a big deal. I dont know how old you are, but gossip and drama rule school from around the 5th grade through, oh, college really. If he is saying nothing about these things, and his treatment of you is still good, I would try to just enjoy the relationship and your time with him. Nothing is more likely to ruin a relationship than insecurity where it isnt really called for.
On the other hand, if HE is the one telling you what other people and his Mom are saying, I would say that that is probably a warning that he is about to break up with you. In that situation, I would say that he likes you and doesnt want to hurt your feelings, but he doesnt love you, so he is telling you that he HAS to break up with you because of outside pressure, rather than taking responsibility for getting out more honestly.
As others have said, if he really is your soulmate, he wont let you go because of what others say. If he seems like he is letting what other people think change his feelings for you, odds are his feelings were already changing on their own.
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If he truly is your soul mate, you will be his too, and he will defend you from the rumors and not let his mom influence him. If he breaks up with you because of these things, as painful as it will be, he is NOT your soul mate.
What you can do is be honest with him and share with him your fears and your feelings. It is a scary thing to do, but this is all you can do. If this doesn't work, Walk with pride, care about your appearance, smile on the outside until you start smiling on the inside. Let him see your inner beauty. Men do love a woman with confidence.
Know your worth, you are a beautiful woman... Dont let any man make you feel less than that.
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If your boyfriend loves and respects you then he won't give a damn what other people say about you. If he is listening to what other people say then honey he isn't worth your time. Someone who loves someone will see the good in them. There is a whole lot more to a person than just their looks.
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