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What coloured nylons would look better with a white blouse and a dark kilt (school)?
White (not totally whtie though because it kinda stretches and shows a little bit of the colour of my legs)
Navy blue
black (not totally black, stretches through)
any opinions aprrecieated! (link)
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I recommend black, I think it would look totally great. =)
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I have strong feelings for this guy, but I'm worried about dating him because he's younger than I am. What should I do?
(Female, 15 and up) (link)
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If you have strong feelings for him, then it shouldn't matter what his age is. Really, it's just a number (in most cases). Also, don't worry about what others think. If they have a problem with it, then they aren't your true friends.
By the way, in NO WAY am I condoning say, a 50-year-old dating a 14-year-old! I don't mean it like that at all, I'm sure you understand my point. =)
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I'm only 15, but I was wondering if anyone knew a website where I could take a test to see what career would be best for me?
I'm stuck between sooo many different options, I don't know how to choose!
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Here you go =)
http://similarminds.com/career.html
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I need you to tell me some good FREE virus blocks, and virus scanner programs. I have a good paid program..but the year is over, my dad hasn't got round to re-newing it..so I am quite worried about my laptop since there are no virus blocks, and I use LimeWire.
thanks!! (link)
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I recommend AVG, it works wonderfully =)
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There is this boy Lany who I used to like and i just foung out that he liked me last year I wanted to kill him i mean really. So we have a really bad past together and alot has happend bettween us[rummers,fights]so i want to know if i should tell him that I do not want to be friends with him anymore or keep going and just talk to him or anything. so ya hwat should I do. (link)
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I think it'd be best if you break it off with him, because if you continue being his so-called friend, it isn't helping either one of you. I've been where you're at and believe me, it's much better if you talk to him about it (as nicely as possible, of course) and leave it at that.
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Alright, well usually I'll agree 'age is just a number' but this situation...
My friend is a 15 year old girl and she's dating a 12 year old boy. I mean, yeah age is just a number but this is weird. People usually say on here 'Remember someone who is older wants a different kind of relationship' and that's true. A 12 year old boy has just left his "Girls have cooties" stage for gods sake!
Well my question is, do you think it's right that they're dating? Or is just me thinking it's wrong?
Also should I just let her be happy, or should I say something? If so, how should I put it? (link)
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I personally don't believe it's wrong, I say each to their own. I wouldn't date a 12-year-old and I'm fifteen, but if someone else wants to, then I think it's fine. I think the only time you should ever say anything about it to your friend is if he does something to hurt her feelings, but otherwise, I think it'd be best if you stayed out of it.
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okay...so my pores are large && you can see the black heads except they're not exactly blackheads..i dno..i guess it's just dirt.anyway, i would like to make my pores alot smaller.i have no clue of how to do that.i've tried puting on hot water && then putting my face over top && then changing it to cold..i've tried multiple acne creams but i guess it doesn't work.i need something that can help me quickly =).any advice on what i should do? (link)
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This should help you out =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507367
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hey guysss...I have a poetry assignment due thursday. 10 poems. In one day..yeah, I know :p. I'm not asking for any help - don't worry lol.
Mostly for the poetry writers out here -
How do you get inspired to write poetry? Like...do you just look at random things? Or..?
Please...any advice? :) thank you very much
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Hello my fellow poetry writer, here's what I do when I write poetry.
*Take a look at my surroundings. This is a major part of my writing, if I just look around and see different people with their problems or with good things that are happening to them -- I get inspired to write about it.
*The weather inspires me sometimes because it represents different things that I can incorporate with it. Example: If it's sunny outside, I think happy. So it makes me think of something happy that I can include the weather with as well (I tried to explain that the best way I could).
*Relationships: Both good and bad inspire me. If it's bad it gets it off my chest. If it's a good one it feels even better to know that I have or have had it, and it inspires me to write about it and share it with others.
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ok, sorry if this is kinda long. well, i dated this wonderful guy Alex for about 4 months and then he broke up w/ me.. he admitted he had cheated on me and that he didn't think it was right so he ended it. now, i'm dating one of my exes Brian and things are going pretty well but we've had quite a few fights. Alex wants to get back together and so do i.. but what do i about Brian? should i dump him to be with Alex again or stay with him? Please help me! Much appreciation! (link)
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My advice to you is to NOT go back with Alex. If he cheated on you once, more than likely he'll do it again. I think it's best to stay with Brian, at least he hasn't cheated on you. Every relationship has it's spit-spats, it happens. I mean, unless it's like everyday or extremely often -- I would wait and see how things work out.
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Are internships only for college students or can high school students get one too? (link)
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Internships are for both college and high school students. However, it depends on the place that you want to intern at -- their preferences.
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hi, i know this might be a little too much information but i AM pretty nervous for some strange reason. First off i NEVER had sex in my life, i have done other things but sex isn't one of them. anyway. i am really nervous because my period the past 3 months has either been on the 7th or 8th day of the month but its now the 14th almost the 15th and i still haven't got it is that normal for a 15 year old girl?
now although i havent had sex im still REALLY nervous like if there is something wrong with me.
please help asap. thank you =]
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Don't worry, it's perfectly normal. I'm the same age as you are and have the same problems. It's normal for us to have irregular periods, even older girls/women have irregular periods sometimes. We just get them more often right now, since we're younger and just starting out.
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When i straighten my hair the hair around the crown of my head sticks all in different directions is there anyway to make them go away? (link)
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I had this problem and I solved it by using gel, then topping it off with maximum-hold hairspray.
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what are some of the good brands to use for whitening stripes? because i don't want to get some random brands that would not guarantee me anything after i have purchased and used it :/ (link)
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Even though they can be quite expensive, I do recommend Crest Whitestips. They work very well, and in good timing, too.
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Can someone give me an honest opinion on what they think of my voice?
http://www.garageband.com/song?|pe1|S8LTM0LdsaSjYFe3a2k
here's a clip of me singing a whole new world. (link)
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I think you've got a good voice, it could use to some work. I recommend taking voice/singing lessons, they really help a lot. And I think you could be better with the lessons.
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Will the Body Peace thing in Seventeen be a monthly thing like the get-fit thing with Jojo? Or is it just a one-time thing? (link)
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As far as I know, it's only a one-time thing. Unless Seventeen decides to change their mind.
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Hi Im 15 and I have 1 or 2 friends that smoke weed and my brother does I am sooo tempted to try it but I know its illegal and wrong I dont care if its wrong but I have soo much stress I cant get rid of my stress any else!! please dont say dont smoke just tell me exactly why I shouldnt do it!!
or why I could!!?? plzzz help (link)
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I'll get right to the point, here's the effects it will have on you.
www.marijuana-info.org/
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I had this boyfriend for 4 years and he dumped me tons of times, then decided we should be friends. After a while, he questioned about getting back together and I said I wanted to. Then bam, he hit me with the news of saying theres another girl and that he can't choose. I told him theres no choice because I'm gone. Did I do the right thing? (link)
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You absolutely did the right thing! I would have told him a long time ago to hit the road, and I'm glad that you finally did because you deserve much better than that.
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i just bought proactiv, it seems to be working but i was wondering if anyone knew where i can buy like the makeup by proactiv and the makeup removing cloths. when i bought proactiv it came with a book with all their other products but doesnt say where to buy it and when i went to the website it doesnt have it.
thanks (link)
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I know they sell Proactiv Solution Makeup at QVC.
http://www.qvc.com/navigationapp/qvcnavigate.aspx?class=4207&type=rightnav&tmp=ddsn&cont=4207
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is it normal for a guy friend to take you out to dinner on your birthday if he's romantically interested in someone else and you and this guy aren't dating?
btw we're both 16 (link)
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Absolutely. I have a guy who's my best friend in the whole world and he would definitely do that for me. And he has a girlfriend, who's also one of my best friends. So yes, it's perfectly ok. =)
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I'm trying to get my nonpurchased music from my iPod onto my computer, and I don't know how. Does anyone know how to do this?
Thanks for the help. (link)
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The only way that I know of (which works for me) is to put in your iPod, go to iTunes, then drag and drop the songs into your music library.
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