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who do i choose?!
ok, sorry if this is kinda long. well, i dated this wonderful guy Alex for about 4 months and then he broke up w/ me.. he admitted he had cheated on me and that he didn't think it was right so he ended it. now, i'm dating one of my exes Brian and things are going pretty well but we've had quite a few fights. Alex wants to get back together and so do i.. but what do i about Brian? should i dump him to be with Alex again or stay with him? Please help me! Much appreciation!
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I'd say stay with Brian, 'cause who knows, Alex can be prone to cheating, and can easily do it again.
And every relationship consists of some fighting, it's only normal. Just hold on to Brian and let Alex see what he let go of.
Good luck!
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My advice to you is to NOT go back with Alex. If he cheated on you once, more than likely he'll do it again. I think it's best to stay with Brian, at least he hasn't cheated on you. Every relationship has it's spit-spats, it happens. I mean, unless it's like everyday or extremely often -- I would wait and see how things work out.
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Once a cheater always a cheater
And theres fights in every relationship so don;t use that as an excuse stay with Brian don't go back to a person that hurt you.
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Wait..
You're willing to give some guy who cheated on you a second chance? I mean yes, he did take the decency to break up with you instead of leading you on & lying to you, but who's to stay he won't do it again.
If things are going well with Brian, don't ruin it. Alex could potentionally hurt you again & then Brian won't be there. Alex isn't wonderful. Who you thought he was however, is.
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This will sound so overdone and cliche but never give cheaters a second chance. Sometimes there are circumstances but this doesn't sound like one of them. I mean, if you really like Alex and don't feel anything for Brian I guess it would be wise to let it go but don't give up a good relationship for a cheater.
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