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Did I do the right thing?


Question Posted Wednesday October 17 2007, 6:08 am

I had this boyfriend for 4 years and he dumped me tons of times, then decided we should be friends. After a while, he questioned about getting back together and I said I wanted to. Then bam, he hit me with the news of saying theres another girl and that he can't choose. I told him theres no choice because I'm gone. Did I do the right thing?

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christina answered Saturday October 20 2007, 2:53 am:
Yes.


He's dumped you a trillion times & kept coming back. He sounds like he doesn't know what he wants, and he even admitted to it. Why should you wait around for someone who's confused? You shouldn't.


You're only setting yourself up for heartbreak by waiting & you're going to get bored & lonely. Move on & find someone else.

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LoverButton answered Thursday October 18 2007, 12:14 pm:
YES!!!

i dated a guy for five years and there was ALWAYS this other girl, who was actually my best friend, and i didn't do anything about it.


i know it probably hurts, but you DEFINITELY did the right thing :]]!

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wantstohelp answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 6:29 pm:
Yes I defeinatly think you did the right thing. Him breaking up with you so many times proves he dosnt care about hurting you so you shouldnt put up that.

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Buttacup answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 4:20 pm:
Yes, most definately! If you can't be sure you can trust him, don't even bother, it's not worth a heartache.

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caramella answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 2:41 pm:
HELL YEAH!!!u rock.dont ever get back with this loser cuz if he dont know how make a decision of wether or not he wants to be with you then definetly hes not ready for no realationship.hes a kid and immature as hell.dont ever get back with him cuz you are NOT under his command...dont let him play you!

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gailzyxcore answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 1:40 pm:
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miren2k answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 1:25 pm:
Yes you did the right thing, he was playing you for too long, it took courage to say no like you did - well done for getting yourself out of that mess. There are plenty other guys out there that won't mess you about like he did =]

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mariahwannabe answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 12:13 pm:
I think you TOTALLY did the right thing. He's had his chance too many times and he has been stringing you along . A relationship should be strong and he shouldnt be dumping you tonnes of times. It just shows he dosnt truly have passionate feeling towards you.You did the right thing and all you can do now is not GIVE IN and say yes to him.

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LagunaBabe answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 10:17 am:
You absolutely did the right thing! I would have told him a long time ago to hit the road, and I'm glad that you finally did because you deserve much better than that.

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thelaura answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 8:48 am:
DEFINITELY. Noone deserves to be stringed along like that. Especially after 4 years.

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blackrose13 answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 8:46 am:
wow um yes dude ofcourse you did the right thing..
i mean .. cmon..
he dumped you alot, theres other guys to come
and he keeps hurting YOu
just keep him out of the picture of your life..

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Razhie answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 8:34 am:
Yes you did the right thing!

In fact, you FINALLY did the right thing!

I would have been at the "Goodbye forever jackass!" After the first two or three dumps. At this point, the guy is yanking your chain and playing games with you. He might not realize that is what he is doing, but it is.

Don't speak to him, no matter how much you might want to. He'll only tell you how much he likes this new girl and then slip some comment in about how he sort of misses you too. I promise. He'll do *just* that.

So don't speak to him. He has now made it completely clear that he just isn't that into you. Cry it out and move on.

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x0advice4y3w answered Wednesday October 17 2007, 8:34 am:
Yes! You definitly did the right thing. If he's going to keep dumping and having to choose between you and another girl it's not even worth it. Fuck him, find someone else. What sucks is that you waster four years of your like with that asshole.

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