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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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i hate being fingered. i can never get past the "need to pee" feeling and make my boyfriend stop. - but i hear that anal is better. does it hurt more for the girl or less?
i'm just curious.

I've heard that anal is really, really painful and the majority of people find that it isn't too enjoyable.

I probably wouldn't recommend it, but if it's the only alternative for you, then try it. Just make sure you use lots of lubrication.

when your bulemic do you throw up after every thing you eat? or just at the end of the day? thankyou

Usually after everything you eat.

If you're planning on becoming bulimic, I would hope you change your mind. Bulimia AND Anorexia can kill.

Okay well my lifes pretty good. except for the fact that my mom is on and off with smoking. how do i get her to stop?! or at least try to stop?!

You cannot make them stop. It is their decision, and you cannot change it. There's really not much you can do.

My family and I are on AT&T and have the 4th plan on this page (Messaging Unlimited for Families):

http://www.wireless.att.com/cell-phone-service/services/services-list.jsp?catId=cat1470003&LOSGId=&catName=Messaging+and+MEdia(TM)+Bundles

My question is, it says that we have unlimited IM, but do you get charged when you go on AIM as a separate charge? Like, do you get charged a separate charge because it's the Internet or what? I know when you use the Internet, it's charged by the kilobyte or whatever, is it the same for AIM since we don't have an Internet package?

My family just got the plan a few months ago, and we've never had one before, so we don't know much about it.

Thanks!

-Laura.

If you have unlimited texting, you have unlimited IM. My boyfriend and I have the same plan, and IMing doesn't cost us anything.

when a girl gets wet, do you think its gross or does it turn you on?

I've said it before and I'll say it again.

If a guy finds it disgusting when a girl gets wet, then he should play for the other team.

Do guys like when girls where guy shorts and a t-shirt or sweatpants once in a while?

Most guys I know like it. They want you to feel comfortable around them. :)

If a guy cares that much about your appearance where you constantly need to be dolled up, obviously he isn't the guy for you.

Do guys not like it when girls wear their hair in a ponytail? How do guys like girls to wear their hair?

Most guys I know prefer that a girl change up her hairstyle. My boyfriend personally likes when I do pig-tails but I don't do them too often.

Try a messy bun, or curling your hair. Maybe even straighten or braid it. :)

This is getting me frustrated. Everytime I say something when my family doesnt hear it. They react like I had said something bad when they say what. That gets me so scared cause its like they snapped before I could even react. NO what I mean. Its like they dont want me around anymore and that I am wasting my time with them. I just feel so misunderstood. No one wants to help me go get counseling. I dont even have a job. And dont tell me to get a job and move out cause I really can not get a job right now. I hate my family so much its all about me that is why the reason their life is hard. Uuhhggg I need to move the hell out.

There are probably clinics you can go to that will get you counseling for free. I'm not completely sure though, so do not quote me on that because it isn't a sure thing.

Also, why can't you get a job right now? If that's the only way that you can work your way to getting out of your house, then it's something you should be willing do.

If you're not willing to work out the situation and do whatever you need to do, then you're shit out of luck.

I saw these commercials for 5 hour energy shots. I think it said the energy drinks had no sugar or carbs. I heard somebody say they were better than the other energy drinks (NOS, RockStar, Monster, etc.) and I want to buy some.

Where can I buy 5 hour energy shots?

You can find them at 7-11, gas stations and convenience stores. :) I've had one before, and they're actually pretty okay. My boyfriend drinks them all the time. I can tell you now they don't taste very good, but that's the price you have to pay for energy sometimes.

Once started how do I stop my period for a weekend away with my man...

You can't.

what does a guy think when he first goes down "there" and fingers you? does he think its gross because it's wet???

Being wet is what's supposed to happen. :|

If a guy finds it gross, he should play for the other team.

i am 19 and pregnant but i am in college only in my first year. i am with the person i love but he does not go to college. i want to have the baby but me and him have no money and no way to provide for the baby? what should i do?

Put it up for adoption. If you keep the baby to raise yourself, it'll more than likely have a shitty life.

Adoption is the best option.

www.adoption.com

Ok well me and my boyfriend just broke up and now I KIND OF like one of his best friends. =/ My exboyfriend says that I like him but I don't know if I should tell him the truth or just tell him that I don't so I won't hurt his feelings... what should I do???

Me & his friend (the one I kinda like) have liked each other before and ALMOST went out.. right before me and my exvboyfriend went out..

Honesty is the best policy. Sometimes you can't save everyone's feelings.

If you like his friend, just say it. It's better than holding back and making yourself unhappy. Sometimes you need to learn to please yourself first rather than others.

what is "being loose" downthere?

I gave my boyfriend a blowjob and swallowed...then shortly after he left I used my spit to lubricate myself when materbating. Can I get pregnant ?

No.

Hi my name is Britney and I am 18 years old and i've a bad odor between my legs. I washed every night and day. When im around others I worry about if they can smell it. When im on my cycle I've an odor what are things I can do to keep that fishy smell away forever.

Start douching. You can find the kits in the feminine aisle at the store. Also, use scented tampons. They smell good & keep you really fresh. I'm sure if you start to do that, you'll see a difference.

i am really depressed. i wanna cut or be anorexic or commit suicide something. i just want the pain to go away. things have gone really wrong with my friends i had a bad experience at my old school and now at my new school i feel like im having a bad experience. and things with my mom are not so great we dont have a great relationship but she loves me and i love her. its just we always get in fight and start yelling at eachother. i really dont know what to do? help please

See a therapist. The things you're wanting to do are not healthy. A therapist can come in and give you an unbiased outlook on your life and can help you overcome the things you find difficult. It could be a little pricey, but it's definitely worth it.

ok, i/m turning 14 in like a few weeks.. and my mom wont let me go out w/ this guy i like alot... i liked him 4 like 4 months n now he stared to like ask me to go to the mall n stuff.... n then when i asked my mom she said yes.. and then me and my best friend n i got in a fight... n when me n my bff went to the mall w. a bunch of pple.. shes like.. u'r gunna get raped.. n i didnt get touched!!(only followed) but then shes like.. i would rather you and anthony(the guy) go together.. i trust him more then maddy (my best friend) soo yesterday he asked me to go bowling w/ him.. n i asked today.. n shes like.."sure you can, but i need to talk to his dad so i know that he's going too..." ITS SO EMBARISING!!! PLeaSe help..

Oh no. It must suck having a parent who cares about you & your well-being.

Suck it up. She doesn't want you dead in a ditch somewhere, so follow her precautions and her rules or stay your ass home.

I work with a hot guy at work and i want to be more than friends . the only problem is that he has a girlfriend he says there not serious but i want him.

Stay out of the relationship. Getting involved with him is just asking for trouble & drama.

Either wait until they break up, or move on. Even though they're not serious, that doesn't mean that it won't change.

so.. i'll keep this hort. im gonna die soon hopefully... any tips? im gonna use any and every method possible.... so yeah. just need linis to previous successful cases... any particular drugs? even prescription.... thats basically it really. if im really unlucky ill still be here till the end of this year. which is about six months, if i get what i need, then ill be outta you hair! thanks in advance.

I hope you realize that no one here is going to help you commit suicide.

I think you need a therapist. You obviously have no one to talk to, and you need someone who is unbiased & can help you. If you talk to someone you know, it doesn't always help. So, if you need to talk to someone, you can e-mail me. My e-mail address is on my column, BUT I highly suggest you see a therapist.

They will help you & hopefully get you to change your life around. Life's what you make it.

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