This is getting me frustrated. Everytime I say something when my family doesnt hear it. They react like I had said something bad when they say what. That gets me so scared cause its like they snapped before I could even react. NO what I mean. Its like they dont want me around anymore and that I am wasting my time with them. I just feel so misunderstood. No one wants to help me go get counseling. I dont even have a job. And dont tell me to get a job and move out cause I really can not get a job right now. I hate my family so much its all about me that is why the reason their life is hard. Uuhhggg I need to move the hell out.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Sima answered Tuesday June 9 2009, 6:28 pm: I completely agree with Christina. If you are going to complain and not take the action to get yourself out of the situation, then what's the use? I feel the same way as you do all the time. When I feel like this, I just call my best friend and go hang out with her. I try to avoid my house sometimes because it seems like I'm always getting in trouble. It's a little hard to do that since I can't drive, though.
Besides getting a job you can
- Spend time with friends.
- Volunteer (retirement homes, animal shelters, library, etc.).
I don't know what your situation is (where you live, how old you are, whether or not you can drive, things like that), so I can't give you specific answers. [ Sima's advice column | Ask Sima A Question ]
christina answered Tuesday June 9 2009, 2:54 am: There are probably clinics you can go to that will get you counseling for free. I'm not completely sure though, so do not quote me on that because it isn't a sure thing.
Also, why can't you get a job right now? If that's the only way that you can work your way to getting out of your house, then it's something you should be willing do.
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