cuddlemonster answered Tuesday June 9 2009, 6:31 pm: Some guys think it's sophisticated, while some guys look at it like it's just messy and easy. Guys just like it when a girl takes care of herself. If you put it up nicely, then that's cool, but when you just throw it up, guys don't like that much. [ cuddlemonster's advice column | Ask cuddlemonster A Question ]
Darby answered Tuesday June 9 2009, 5:59 pm: Every single person is different. The same way girls like different hairstyles/clothes on guy, guys like different hairstyles/clothes on girls. There is no real answer to the questions you are asking since guys have different preferences. You could get 4 guys that say they like long hair in ponytails, 5 that say that like short hair that is kept down, 3 guys that say they like medium length hair. It all depends on the guy.
Honestly, I don't even think guys worry that much about what girls wear or how they do their hair. As long as you look like you take care of yourself to some extent, I'm sure it will be fine. I have all guy friends and they very rarely discuss whether or not they like girls to wear ponytails.
Just be comfortable and confident in yourself and guys will see that you are confident and will find that attractive. You can't possibly dress and wear your hair in a way that will be attractive to every guy, or even most of them, because guys have different taste and styles.
They are just like girls. How some girls like guys with long hair, other like guys with short hair. Some like preppy guys, some like rocker guys. It literally all depends on the specific person. But if a guy really likes you, he's not going to say, "Oh, crap. I really like her, but she wears skinny jeans and sometimes where's ponytails. Oh well."
He's just going to like you for you and your personality. Don't put so much thought into your appearance. Just take care of yourself, hygiene-wise. Bathe, wear deodorant, brush your hair, brush your teeth. Other than that, wear what you like wearing. Do your hair how you like it. Guys will either like it or they won't. And there is no style that every guy will be attracted to. It's just not possible. Just do what you like doing.
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