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I'm the other women
I work with a hot guy at work and i want to be more than friends . the only problem is that he has a girlfriend he says there not serious but i want him.
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Stay out of the relationship. Getting involved with him is just asking for trouble & drama.
Either wait until they break up, or move on. Even though they're not serious, that doesn't mean that it won't change.
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If they aren't serious, he wouldn't be in a relationship or he would have ended it by now. Something is keeping him together with her. Whether it's actually her or sex, who knows? It sounds one-sided. Almost like he's picking up or at least flirting with other girls and keeping his girlfriend on the sidelines because he knows she will stay.
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yeah, don't be a douche, be patient and wait it out. if he's not serious about it, it shouldn't take long.
-gunner
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Sounds to me like you came here not for advice, but for someone to tell you what you WANT to hear, which is "to go get 'em!"
Well, I'm not here to tell people what they want to hear. I'm here to tell people what they NEED to hear.
First thing: Why would you want someone who's talking like that about his girlfriend? "Ah us? We're not that serious. I mean, I'm only in a relationship with her." You know who uses that line? Jerks. That's the line guys use when they have a girl on the line, want others, but are too afraid to let the first one go. That other girl has no idea he's saying things like that about their relationship. Because hunny, he's definitely going back to her and telling her something completely different. If you got with him, I guarantee he'd do the same thing to you. And don't think "Oh no, he wouldn't do that to me, this is different." Its not. If it was, he would of already broke up with that other chick and went with you.
Think about it ;)
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