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what should i do? srry not sure if it is the right category
i am really depressed. i wanna cut or be anorexic or commit suicide something. i just want the pain to go away. things have gone really wrong with my friends i had a bad experience at my old school and now at my new school i feel like im having a bad experience. and things with my mom are not so great we dont have a great relationship but she loves me and i love her. its just we always get in fight and start yelling at eachother. i really dont know what to do? help please
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You know, I have a close friend like this, too..
And I have been in this situation as well.
First off, don't cut. Although it may "hurt so good" when you do it, everytime you look at it, it reminds you of the depressrion, people will see it and possibly judge you, your parents will see it, etc.
Anorexia is very unhealthy. Although you might not honestly care, your body does. Guys find anorexia unattractive, too. If you want to loose weight, try eating less fats and sugars, and eat more vegetables/fruits in moderation. Only eat when you're hungry, and stop when you're full. Also, 3 meals a day isn't the best diet. Nutritionests say about 7 super-mini meals is the best to do, all throughout the day.
Suicide- Life is short, it's hard for everyone. Although it may seem really tough on you, there's someone out there who has it worse. They're dealing with it, why take the easy way out? Learn to fight through this, and google for a suicide teen hotline if wanted. They really help, and everythings anonymous and confidential.
I hope I helped you!
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i went through a really depressing time in my life where i thought self injury would make the pain go away, contemplated suicide AND tried to become skinnier. it wont help, it just makes physical AND mental pain.
first, sit down with your mom and tell her you love her. i know its a really hard thing to do especially when you disagree with a lot of the things she says. but its your mom, and when shes gone one day youre gomna regret never establishin a relationship with her. and your mom is always goin to be the one who loves you most, so tell her how unhappy you are and what youre goin through.
for the school thing, the only you can do is be yourself. never conform to other peoples standards to get along with them. just be nice, and thats all you can do.
SELF INJURY IS NEVER THE ANSWER. if you feel like you cant control it then i suggest you get help.
good luck hun! message me for anythin
x sweeethoney
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I raised 4 girls and boy do I know what you are going through. I also changed jobs (for the better) and we also moved around. My girls had exactly the same issues just not all at once. But the one thing they never considered was hurting themselves. My wife and I loved them so much we only wanted the best for them. They didn't always agree with what we decided but in the long run they were better off. They are now 32, 26, 24, 22. They thank us for setting some boundaries. You are going through a very important time in your life. You are changing from a child to an adult. Trust your mom as an adult and let her help you through these tough times. One day you will look back and LAUGH at how silly some of this was. Find some common ground and let her inside your inner circle. She probably needs you more than you think!
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I can sympathize with you, but I don't agree with cutting, becoming anorexic or commiting suicide. They will NOT EASE THE PAIN. It's more of a cop out.
If you feel things are at their worst, then the only thing left to happen is them getting better. It takes time, and I know it can seem like a while, but things WILL start going your way.
School friends come and go, whether it's sooner or later. For months at a time I moved from school to school and it was UNBEARABLE. never made and friends because I was shy so EVERYONE decided "the new girl's a freak". I KNOW it's hard, but after a while, they DO GET BETTER, i promise.
There are many ways of dealing with your mom. You can suggest that the two of you see a therapist or counselor, but if you're not into that thing, I suggest telling her you want to spend some time with her and talk. Set the rules that you two can't fight at this time, and see what happens. Go out, whether it be to a park or just a car ride, it'll help to communicate.
I really hope that things get better for you, I'm always here if you need to talk, just message me or IM my screenname. Good Luck.
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I'll agree with the last answer and suggest that you seek some kind of professional help, given the options that you're considering for getting out of your situation. Try to get in with your school guidance counselor to talk about how you feel. You'll be glad you did.
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See a therapist. The things you're wanting to do are not healthy. A therapist can come in and give you an unbiased outlook on your life and can help you overcome the things you find difficult. It could be a little pricey, but it's definitely worth it.
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