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i hate being fingered. i can never get past the "need to pee" feeling and make my boyfriend stop. - but i hear that anal is better. does it hurt more for the girl or less?
i'm just curious.
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Personally, I absolutely hate being fingered. I don't think it's even a little pleasureable, it does nothing for me. However, I do occasionally like anal. It all comes down to personal preference, but for me, as long as I relax and use lots of lube, it can be kind of fun. But that's just my perspective :)
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Might just be that he's hitting your g-spot, that can make you feel like that at first. Really don't recommend anal, very painful and not pleasurable at all for the girl.
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From what I've gathered, some girls get that "need to pee" feeling as they're getting close to their climax, and pushing through that feeling makes orgasm possible. That feeling corresponds to the buildup of pressure that comes before the release (orgasm). If you're worried about peeing while you're being fingered, then go to the bathroom beforehand. That way, you'll know that whatever feeling you have has nothing to do with the contents of your bladder, and that drastically improves your experience.
I'm not sure where you heard that anal was better, but it certainly wasn't from a girl who has experienced it. While there are nerve endings (and the potential for pleasure), the concentration is nowhere near what you find in the vagina and you're much more likely to derive pain from the experience than pleasure.
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If you are uncomforatable with being fingered then you will not like the pain that comes with anal. It hurts; it feels okay after a few but its not that feels great. I would not recommend it.
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I've heard that anal is really, really painful and the majority of people find that it isn't too enjoyable.
I probably wouldn't recommend it, but if it's the only alternative for you, then try it. Just make sure you use lots of lubrication.
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