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Q: ok
im 13/f and im gonna be going into 8th grade.
with not ever having a boyfriend, no first kiss no nothing!
and it sucks.
my love life better get better before i get to highschool
any ways i could maybe get a boyfriend or have boys get to like me more?!

Well try to talk to lot of guys be nice, be your self, and see where it goes from there. But I wouldn`t really rush your just gonna get heart broken that`s how guys are at that age.

Q: Some people say that money isn't everything. But is this really true? If a person makes minimum wage and can barely afford food, can that person still be happy?

Well it`s kind of like you don`t need money to be happy. Of course you need money to survive but some people think money is everything. And they think money can buy happyness but that`s not true so it really depends on the person.

Q: okay if i eat breakfast, little lunch and dinner, would that help me lose wieght and also exercise like walking?

It depends what you eat? If your eating healthy then probebly. & also you might want to try and do other exercise other then walking it would help a lot.

Q: there is this boy that sumtimes stare at me i want to know if he likes me

Hmm .. well that could mean anything maybe he does like you but you never know. Try talking to him and get to know him then you`ll find out sooner or later.

Q: hey does anyone know what the hollister shirt that says "yeah? bfd" means?

It means "big fricken deal".

Q: Ok, this might be alittle long but I just want you to understand my question alittle better.

So, one of my old friends had a Suprise Party tonight. I was invited along with my Boyfriend. I didnt plan on going to tell you the truth, when I was first invited I was ALL for it. But then I realized, yeah were friends but thats not a point in going. So I didnt go. My boyfriend called me about 30 minutes before it started and asked if I was goin. I simple told him No that I didnt feel like being there. So he said Fine then I was gonna come get you and we were gonna go but whatever. So I alittle upset but didnt say much about it. He called me back afew hours later and Was being a plain out smarta**. It was seriously upsetting me and he asked what I was doing, I told him I dont know. and he said Oh your doin Beau? (an old friend who I use to "talk" with before me and my boyfriend got together) And I was like why are you acting like this? Are you trying to be cute infront of everyone or what Kyle? and he just laughed at me. So obviously I called my Best Friend and cried to her over it. But thats not all, Kyle called me again and did the same thing. I told him that you know, if you plan on having a Girlfriend in the Morning Id grow up if I were you. But he simply doesnt care.. Does he? He finally said Well were not getting along tonight so Ill call you tomorrow and I just hung up on him. I mean honestly, I love the boy to death. But I just dont know what to do. With him laughing the whole time were talking kinda makes me think He doesnt wanna be together. But what do you think?

I know this isnt really a Question but I just wanna know what you think about it? Like does he wanna be with me or not? Like, whats going on? Cause I DONT wanna lose him. =\

Well what I think you should do is talk to him about it. It`s the best thing to do before you jump into conclusion. I`m usually like that I jump into concluasion and think about all this stuff and then when I talk to my boyfriend or who ever it`s about they tell me somthing totaly diffrent and I relize theat I was just worried for no reason. So just have a talk with him and if that doesn`t work then I really don`t know what you can do. Sorry if that was no help. =/

Q: what is the best product or method for removing leg hair besides shaving with a razor? any bladeless kits or anything that works good with little burning?

Try nair. It works great and it takes like 4-5 minutes and your done!

Q: Oook, I know I sound like a foolish idiot by asking this but what does "fo shizzle my nizzle" mean? People say it all the time and I say it too, and I know people say it to "try" to act gangster but thats about it. Help ?

It means "for sure my nigger".

Q: okay, so i'm 14/m and she's 14/f and i really like her but i don't know where i should take her on our first date (if she'll go out with me) if you live in st. louis area, (or anyware) got any advice?

Movies, dinner, or anything really you don`t really have to do anything to big she`ll probebly like it if you guys just sit somehwere and be together yah know?

Q: i have a cell phone & i was wondering if i can block people's phone number?? i know they can block theirs if they call, but is there anyway i can block theirs if they do call??

thanks!!

I don`t think you can do that, sorry.

Q: when your pregnant do you still discharge?

Yes you do.

http://www.steadyhealth.com/cervical_discharge_if_you_are_pregnant_t65168.html

Q: i dont really like thongs, but where could i buy underwear that is kind of like a thong, but doesnt go up your but crack. basically like are a bit thicker. any website/stores (NOT victoria's secret, i already know that one)

Have you tryed the thicker kind of thong I personaly think they are more confurtable.

Q:

ive known seann since 8th grade(im going to be a jr in highschool now) we stopped being friends in 9th grade because he went to a diff school. im really good friends with this girl christine. christine is like best friends with sean. i know she doesnt like him or anything but mike and i have been sort of talking over the last few weeks. he texts be, told me he liked me and we hungout and hookedup. christine was there but i dont think she saw. idont know what to do or how to tell her idk if she`ll be mad. whats the best thing to do

Well I don`t really see the problem here. Does Christine like Mike if not then there shouldn`t be a problem telling her about it but then you don`t have to tell her because maybe you just wanted to keep it personal. Hope I helped at all.

Q: i havent had my period in a about a month is a half or so? so and im 13 and im a virgin. i was wondering if thats just normal.. like i could we getting it really late or maybe its a skip month? could someone help me!

That`s normal. You don`t always get your period every month somtimes it skips so be happy if you do skip some. :]

Q: which movie will make me cry more the movie Click or the moview The lake house?
thanxx

I think Lake house would, because click is more funny then it is sad. :]

Q: what does it mean when someone says they're head over heels for you? and how did they come up with it. it's okay if you can only answer one of the questions. thanks. (i had no idea what category to put this in sorry)

It means that someone is fallen for you and they like you they might even love you but yeah. :]

Q: When you make out is it more normal to close your eyes or keep them open? If I just kept my eyes open would it be weird? What do you guys do?

Most people close their eyes but it`s really all up to you.

Q: Okay…..^_^ this might take a while. Well, at camp, on the second day of the time we were there, Abby and I were sitting on a loveseat during this camp activity thing. Everyone was told that they had to sit in the middle, (which is where we were sitting) So, Mikey gets up from the back and looks around for a place to sit. He looks straight at me and sits down INBETWEEN me and abby. We are sitting there, and my heart was kinda pounding. Anyway, he starts to poke my leg…. and so of course I had to poke him back. So we went on like that for awhile. And then he laid his hand on my leg for like 5 seconds and smirked at me…. almost like a challenge…>.> so I had to do it back of course. So then, we went on like that forEVER and it was almost like the nervous game but I stopped. And then I elbowed him in the side, and it was funny!

Okay! NEXT DAY! WOOOOO…Okay, I was in crafts with abby and kirstie and Marissa. And Mikey was in Ping-Pong, which is in the same room. Then I finished my craft, and he had lost at ping-pong. I walked past him to go talk too abby and he stops me. He’s all….”sit on my lap” and I was all…O_O no! and then he was all…. Please? And I said, No, cause I’m not a slut. So he asked me to sit on the arm of the chair. So I did for like a minute. But then my butt started to ache so I got up and moved into the chair next to him. Then he started to show off, and he rocked back and forth in the chair he was sitting in, and flipped it backwards on purpose. He was sitting like that for a while, but then he was uncomfortable, cause he couldn’t get up. So he asked me to help him. So I tried…. for like 2 seconds, but got bored so I gave up. Then he was whining and whining and stuff. Then he stopped and looked at me and was all, “hold my hand…” And I was all “._.;;;;;” But I did, ^_^ and then he said that I had really soft hands which made me laugh. Then abby and kirstie helped him get the chair up, but he wouldn’t let go of my hand.

THEN, , we had swimming. I went down to the pool, but I didn’t know he was going to be there, and I didn’t want to swim cause I had my cloths on, and I had my period. BUT, he kept threating to push me in and I didn’t wanna get wet so I sat next to the lifeguard. The lifeguard was all, “If you touch her and push her in then I’ll get pushed in to and I WOULD NOT be happy…*glare*” (cause she was holding my hand so he couldn’t get me.) ^_^ Heehee, anyway, so he just stood over me and dripped water on me, and splashed me, AND HE WAS SHIRTLESS! …*Drool* but then I got bored so I wen’t and put my legs into the water in the shallow end with kirstie, and It was nice and we were sitting there and I was all ahhhhh. But of course, he had to come over. So he walks over in all his wet shirtless glory and is holding a Frisbee. He dips the Frisbee under that water and all the sudden splashes me. I sat there very quietly, and he said…”You can hit me if you want…” and I was all…”I’m not going to hit you…. *and then I jumped in the water fully clothed* I’M GOING TO KILL YOOOU!” Lets just say he ran away like a little girl, lol.

Then since my group was with his for the next activity which was ultimate Frisbee, he pretended to be sick and sat on the sidelines and watched kirstie and me. We were doing handstands and stuff and it was fun. After that, we were walking back past the rec hall, and he ran up out of no-where and just grabbed my hand. It was like…*Mikey appears out of no-where* *snatch’s hand* I got very scared, but I let him hold it! ^_^;;;, then some random kid was all, “Hey Mikey! Is that your new girlfriend!” and I looked at Mikey and went “EWWWWWWWWWWW” and walked away. ^_^ Heehee, oopsie? Then after that, there was just random flirting and him throwing stuff at me and being adorable, and stuff

Then when we got back home and stuff, kirstie randomly asked him why he kept hitting on me at camp, and he said its cause he likes me!

Okay,my quistion is, do you think he likes me, and i'm wondering if i should date him, cause he is in rehab right now....and after camp he made out with some other girl. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!?!?!

From what I see he does like you. Maybe he made out with the other girl because you weren`t giving him signals you liked him or somthing so he maybe thought you didn`t. But he does like you, if guys do that much flirting he has to! :] Hope I helped!

Q: This might be stupid but, How can you tell if a boy likes you (besides asking of course)?

Any comments will be appreciated.

Talk to you a lot, flirt with you, nice to you, sometime they can be mean lol, & stuff like that it isn`t hard to notice really.

Q: uhm i am wondering.. how do you know when your breast stop growing?

and i have another question but it is okay if you dont answer it when did your breast stop growing?

Did it hurt when it was growing?

Usually they stop growing at age 18-20 are so.

Mine are still growing lol.

It doesn`t really hurt but at times it does and if you hit your self on it hurts like hell if you haven`t experienced it yet, and at times it tends to ich also.