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im 13/female...im about to start eighth grade...and i really liked this guy (he was in my group of school friends) in the beggining of last year. and i ended up asking him out...and he turned me down. so from then on he was being an asshole and everything i would say at lunch, he would shoot down. and he was just being really mean. so all of last year, i was really depressed because all the time i got to spend with my friends was hell. im worried that the same thing will happen this school year. what should i do???

Never let a guy get you depressed or let you down..I have learned my lesson from that.Act like he is nothing or like you never met him before if he says anything pretend you didn't hear it..and just let what ever he says or does go. Have fun with your friends.The more he knows your sad or mad the more he will want to piss you off so don't let him get to you. ♥

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My girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago (reason cited: my arrogance was getting in the way of our relationship). We are involved in a lot of the same clubs (both officers) and so forth at school and so somehow or another, we will need to get along.

Recently I IMed her just to ask how she was doing and what she's been up to. (Have to start somewhere, right?) "I'd rather not talk about it with you," was her reply. Ouch. Cold.

So anyway, ideas? I really don't want to fight her on commitees and such all year. I mean should I just ask her how she's doing until she answers? Should I give her (some more?) space?

Aw.. well what she said was a little mean but maybe she has a reason to say that.You can see that your the better person in this so what you should do is not talk to her on internet it just screws things up.. so at school talk to her person to person is always better.Tell her your really are sorry about the past and you can't fix it but you don't want to fight all year.If you are nice to her she most likely will realize that your right.If not then she is going to missing out. ♥

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i love my mom but she needs to give me privacy. i'm always paranoid about will she read this, will she read that? i've told her a million times to stop. she says she will. but, never stops. can you give me some advice?

Just get a password on your computer. Also just tell her to back off a little in a nice way tell her you want your own privacy. If she still does it don't talk to her then when she asks what's wrong tell her. ♥

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ok how do you get over a guy?

Just find someone new and go out with friends and do stuff just to get your mind off him. If anything in your room or anything reminds you of him take it down.Also don't call him if he calls ignore calls. After a while if you do that you'll be over him. Good luck ♥

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My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think?

DUMP HIS ASS. Doinf 30 girls , cheating on you , getting in all this trouble. Yeah you don't need him let him go.Get rid of him asap he's such a fag to you. ♥

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Is the brand Coriolis a good hair straightner? I bought one on ebay and I'm getting it on Wednesday. Does it do a good job? Does it damage your hair? Sorry for all the questions =)

I never heard of it but most straightners do a good job but they all sooner or later damage your hair. So you should get this stuff at hair places that you put on before you striaghtner your hair so you don't damage it. ♥

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The question is simple but the answer might be abit more complex! "Is life fair"? And please no answers lile "it's as fair as you make it"!!

No..I don't think life is fair because it's not as easy as some people think & stuff doesn't always go the way you want it to..♥

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i met a boy about a year ago.
and he was really nice
then he was really mean and cocky to me on myspace.
then he broke up with me horribly.
and i cried for three monthes about it.
all though i have only met him twice
now about a year later he wants to meet up again and possibly go out and be boyfreind and girlfreind.
i dont know if he has changed or not
i like him now
should i take the risk?

First off never cry over a guy I learned my listen over that..but anyways I don't think you should take the risk if he liked you in the first place he wouldn't of broke up with you.If your a teenager relationships don't really last long so sooner or later he's going to hurt you again. ♥

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Is it possable to seperate sex from love and feelings. I really love this guy alot he is my ex boyfriend and i want to have sex with him but i never have because he broke up with me. I want to have sex with him but im afraid that if i do i will only fall for him more and it will only hurt me more

Yes it's possible..but I honestly don't think you should have sex with him because once you do you'll want to be with him & it will make you situation even worse.♥

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Well I really like this guy and it seems like he likes me too. Should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me out?

Usually girls don't ask guys out but if you really like him I guess you should..what ever you do don't wait around. ♥

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umm this may be a stupid question, but how do you kiss? i mean do you just go for it? what do guys expect out of a 13 year old? closed mouth open-mouthed? please help!

It just happens..kinda naturally you don't plan it..♥

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how do i tell my new guy friend who has a crapload of girls i like him

Just because he has alot of girls don't mean that you don't have a chance with him.Just be open about it and tell him straight up.I know it's kinda of hard but it's the best thing you can do..♥

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there is this guy...his name is max and he lives a few streets away from me and i really like him. I have a feeling he likes me too because he always talks to me, and is so sweet and generous to me. I need some advise on how to make him notice and how to get him to ask me out. HELP!!!

Just be yourself. If you want him to ask you out I think you should talk to him and be like soo who do you like & flirt with him alot.The more you hang out with him/talk to him, the more he will probly like you. ♥

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i was just wondering if having sexual intercourse "feel" the same as masterbating?

is it better or worse?

thanks

..It usually feels better ♥

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Is the hole the tampon goes in the same one the penis goes in during sex?

Haha yupp. ♥

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Ohkay, so I like this guy. We have been really good friends all through middle school. He was going out with my best friend for awhile, and I was really mad about it at first. Then, I figured if he's happy, I'm happy. But they just broke up, and I still REALLY like him. She broke up with him, and he still isnt over her. He gets high almost every ngiht because he says it takes away the pain. How can I get through to him that this isn't the right way to handle his problems?

You just need to sit down and talk to him or call him and some how bring it up that instead he can talk to you or do something else.That's kind of a hard question because if he does every every night most likly he won't stop , but just talk to him everyday about it and remind him and you never know he might stop. ♥

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Hey! I'm not shure if this goes in this category but - does anyone know how to get good karma?

Thank yoU!

Just don't talk about people and be nice to everyone. ♥

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hey my boyfreind and i want to have sex..
but we never talk.
its like getting sexual is an exuse not to talk because its awkward so we do that instead..
should i dump him?

If you don't even talk to him don't have sex with him , that makes no sence.Don't dump him just yet first talk to him about not talking then see if he starts talking if not then dump him. ♥

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How do you know when you should go out with someone?

When you like someone & they like you too. ♥

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16/f

hey! what are some cute love songs that i could use for myspace or just download! im really going through a hard time right now im trying to get over this boy that has a girlfriend but i just cant stop thinking about him..

well right now i have i dont want to miss a thing by aerosmith on my myspace.

but i was just wondering if there are any cute songs or anything that could relate to me!?

Don't listen to love songs, they will make you sadder.But some good ones are What hurts the Most & My Wish by Rascal Flatts,Say Goodbye by Chris Brown,Counting Stars by Sugarcult, and On My Own by The Used. ♥

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