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Heyyy, I'm Mary:)
I've been on here for over four years--Ask me anything, and I'll try my best to help you out. :)


Alpha female, always tries her hardest, analyzes the situation too much, overthinks what the other person says, tries to please others, stresses easily, high achiever, loooooves to laugh. I'm still learning the facts of life, but I can always share my mistakes and lessons learned. :)


I'm always willing to listen/lend a helping hand. Inbox me and I will be sure to get to you as soon as I can.


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have you ever been to lazy to go to the bathroom i dont thing this is healthy and i ratye good so

Yeah..I think all of us have been really lazy about going to the bathroom one time or another.

It is REALLY unhealthy for the body to be forced to hold in waste..The most common health risk is that you could develop a urinary tract infection.
(so it's really bad for you to hold it in!)

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I've been looking for a new CHI hair straighter, but I'm having a hard time trying to find one.

I would prefer it would not be one from a "no-name" dealer, or off e-bay.

If any one knows any stores or trusted websites where I would be able to get one would you please tell me where I can find one. Also if you have one do you have any complaints about it?

I LOVE CHI!!! You can get yours at Ulta/Trade Secret/ or order one from your local salon. :)

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I am aware that this will not get an award for brevity, but humor me.

Background info: I am someone who is known to have an incredibly individual, crazy, random style. I love uniqueness, and I hate wearing things that I know what 1 million other people are wearing. This goes for anything of the sort, whether it's a studded belt or a short little Hollister skirt- BUT this question is mostly geared towards the latter (to clarify, the clothing that the so-called "pretty people" wear).

I'm really trying to comprehend how people can like clothing like what is sold at Hollister or those type of stores. I guess it's almost humorous since I know the majority of people ask the same question about my outfits a good deal of the time- what could she possibly be thinking with that outfit? But I just don't understand...and I'm honestly trying to be as accepting of others expressions as I wish they would be of my own.

What joy do you get out of wearing these mass manufactured clothes that aren't even worth taking two looks at? They are so BORING and unoriginal and so..lacking in any creativity. Not to mention, those skirts practically show butt cheeks and things I DO NOT WANT TO SEE! EW! Between the false advertising (Feefee's stupid ass coconut shack, etc.) and the atrocious amount of skin shown, I can only wonder what America's "pretty people" are thinking and if they really are so "pretty."

Can someone please help me understand?

It's all about OPINION.

Sometimes, I see people at the mall or at school..and they're wearing something hideous..and I'm thinking, "Oh my God, how can you be wearing something like that?!" I guess I immediately jump to that reaction because it's not something I'm used to..or something that I would wear..However, I tolerate those kind of people..I mean, if they choose to wear something weird, then it's fine with me..It doesn't affect me in any way.

I'm one of those people that wear Abercrombie and Hollister..so I guess you would be the one thinking/criticizing me in your head..but why can't you tolerate it?..It sounds like you're really annoyed of people that wear what's in style (in mine, and in many other's opinion.)

Also, Hollister isn't for "pretty people"...Everything is so overrated..Like there was a question weeks ago..and this person was asking for opinions on the store Abercrombie&Fitch...some people love it..and others HATE it..The people that hate it exaggerate what it really is..Ex: "Bad quality, paper-thin shirts.." They also said that jeans are $120..Some are, but most are like $70ish...They exaggerate it because they don't shop there (probably have never stepped foot in that store) And yes, it is overpriced..but it's worth it.

Your Question is to help you understand why some people choose to wear this type of clothing?..It's all about opinion..If you don't like it, then don't shop there!..Don't pay any attention to the people who wear it..It's not like what they're wearing is going to affect you and the way you dress.

Finally, what you may see is "boring and unoriginal and so..lacking in any creativity", others see it as good quality, cute, and in style.

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OK... When you Are like typing in the big box on profile settings whenever i put enter in to put spaces between like paragraphs it does it in the big box but it doesnt do it on my accually advice column how do i make it work ???

And 1 more... in some ppls paragrah at the top or side they have a link to other peoples advice column(not under favorite columnist) in there accual paragraph How do you do that?!\


Thanks ill rate high

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look at what this guy said to me

*******: guys say youre white trash but ive only seen you like once


what is white trash and why do people think i am that?

Since no one has answered this question, I thought..I might as well..

I looked it up on GOOGLE for you..since I'm so nice :)

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&oi=defmore&defl=en&q=define:white+trash

And for your final question: Why do people think I am that?

..Well, I don't know..because I don't know you!..and most of the people on this site probably don't know you either...so I guess you're going to have to figure that one all by yourself.

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i'm 5'6 and weigh 140...i feel huge....any ideas on how to get a good body...butin a healty way? i odnt want to have to starve....

thanks

I found this website that will tell you how to lose weight..but safely:
http://www.annecollins.com/teen-weight-loss-healthy-eating.htm

There are more links at the top of that page.

I really really recommend Naimee because she gives really really good weight loss/becoming fit advice...(and also many many more!)

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Ok. I recently bought my first pair of Converse. They are Chuck Taylor Premiere All Star, Low, and I was wondering if I am supposed to wear socks with them. If it helps, I'm a girl.

Yeah, wear socks with them (unless you want your feet to start sweating profusely..lol)..but try wearing the really low ankle socks..because I've seen people wear normal/high socks with them, and it looks really tacky.

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17/f

For my boyfriend's birthday, I got him a gag gift.. and then i got him a polo from American Eagle. But I'm having second thoughts as to whether or not he will like it.. do guys like getting clothes as a gift?

I love getting clothes as gifts!!..but I guess that's mainly because I'm a girl.

I think the polo would be a great gift (along with the gag gift..hahah).but maybe get him something else also?..like cologne..( I recommend Hollister OR Abercrombie&Fitch...yummy ;) OR you could surprise him/take him to dinner, etc..

I'm sure he'll like your gift no matter what you get him!

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ok.....i have curly/wavy hair...but i spend 30 mins. everyday straiting it and i'm afraid im straiting it and its frying my hair!! i like it straitened...but its dull and boring...i wish i could wear it curly...but its just frizzy and i try everythign to make it not frizzy...but i cant really find anything...any ideas?

I ALWAYS straighten my hair..and when I first started (I did it for a straight year---every single day!)..so my hair was pretty much DEAD along with hundreds of split ends..Then, I tried this serum thing from Trade Secret/Tony&Guy called Catwalk..and it works really well..I put it in after I take a shower, blowdry, and then straighten..It makes your hair really really really soft and split end-free.

You could also try scrunching your hair with gel or some other kind of product (ex: Aussie Sprunch Spray--you can get it at your local grocery store/walmart/target, etc) Here is a website that will tell you how to scrunch your hair: http://ezinearticles.com/?Curls-for-Girls---How-to-Scrunch-Your-Hair&id=116647

You can tie your hair up into a messy bun..that's always cute.

Or..did you ever think that your curly/wavy hair was already pretty the way it is?

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My father died about 3 years ago and now I am going out with this boy that is a lot like him...is that a bad thing? I mean I love him but he is just...a lot like my dad! Am I being stupid going out with him or is it like a bad ideas or something? I have these feelings like he is going to leave me, but I thought that maybe that is just because my dad "left" me...I don't know...I'm confusing...I know! But I would really like any help I can get!thanks!

Yeah..it's totally fine if you want a guy who has traits like your dad. You probably want somebody to protect you and make you feel loved...just like your dad used to. And NO..you are not stupid just because you want to go out with him.

If you need any more advice, feel free to drop one in my inbox.

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ok.this is a pretty long story so sorry.
heres the basic information
Theres this guy named daniel,we first met at the mall. and then i found out that he went to my school and stuff. so we started talking more and more on aim. and we became like the best of friends ever. and i could already tell from there that i completely was going to be in love with him. because little things would get us both completely jealous. so we just started hagning out more and more. and every time we got a little but more flirty. and it was fun and all. but then like. i told him how i felt about him and it turned out he felt the same. then from there we were unseperable. but its weird we both knew we were completely in love with each other. but we just remained the greatest friends. he was soo adorable. he would do anything to make me happy. then soon i really dont know what happened. one night he askeed me who i liked. bc in my profile it had said "single, but completely in love with him" so of course i thought he was kidding bc the only person i told i love you to was him. so i just thought he wanted to be like reasured that i liked him. so then i said i tell you everyday who i love..its you. and hes like i love you too. and i would do anything for you. and you treat me really good and i just want to make you happy. so i thought ok maybe hes going to ask me out. and then all of a sudden he just says. but i dont think it will work out. i know. complete shocker. but he was like i love our friendship we have and i dont know what i would do if we broke up. so i think we should remain great friends. of course hearing that. i was hurt. cause as many times as he told me he loved me. i guess he really didnt mean it like i did. but i cryed alot then. cause i knew things werent going to be the same. and i couldnt believe he actually told me i love you but we need to be friends. but heres the point. now we barely talk, and when we do he just teases me. and i use to think it was cute. now its just completely annoying. and he just doesnt get it that i dont like it.and its defintaly not the same anymore. were not as good friends as before. and i want to change that completely. i want him to be able to talk to me about everything again, and be the one he can joke with, and stuff. i love him to death. as friends of course. and i really need his friendship. but he just seems to not give it to me. and i really need help to get him back as being at least a regualr friend again. anything will help.rank 5 for any advice

Wow so he just led you on..and then told you that it'd be better if you guys were friends?
..Tough..
-Tell him you really don't like it when he teases you..If you don't tell him, he will never know..so he will continue doing it.
-Tell him the truth---tell him you want things to be the way they were like before.
-Ask him to hang out more often..(with other friends, of course..so it doesn't become awkward (sp?))
-Tell him exactly what you're telling everyone on this website...He's not psychic..He won't know how you feel until you TELL HIM.
-Maybe when you guys become closer friends again, there might be chance that he may reconsider what he said..maybe he'll want to be with you later on?..Who knows?

Hmm..ok Hope I helped..and if you need anything else, drop one in my inbox.

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I once had this body spray that smelled like flowers. It was called "flower power" by the Smiley Calgon collection. They discontinued it and now Im left trying to find a new perfume/body spray. If anyone could tell me of a flowery scent they know of that'd be great. I rate.

Bath&Body Works have some yummy fruity body sprays!

Victoria Secret is good also..I have these AMAZING body sprays called Secret Crush and also Romantic Wish!

Also, Fantasy by Britney Spears is THE BEST! I love it!!!

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OKAY... please do not anwser this question unless you are 100% sure

Can you get pregnant if you havent had you period yet?!?!

Yes, you can..I learned this in health last year ;)

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I want to find cute edgy clothes or any type of affordable clothes that I can buy online.
Please give me some websites that would work and that i could shop from.
Thanks

www.forever21.com

They have the cutest yet, affordable clothes!

www.oldnavy.com
TRY SALES:::
www.hollisterco.com ((I recommend!))
and I don't shop here but I think Aeropostale is having an ALL 50% OFF SALE..
www.aeropostale.com

Hope I helped!

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Hey everyone. Well for New Years me and my one friend want to get drunk. Well, not drunk with alcohol but like maybe a caffeine high...play it safe. What are some drinks that have a lot of caffeine in them or any other drinks that get you really hyper...almost as if you were truley drunk. haha Thanks for the advice!

Any Energy drinks:: ex: Red Bull
ICE TEA!!!
Any kind of soda..esp caffeinated ones: ex: Dr. Pepper, Cola
Coffee
Candy&Sweets

ANYTHING THAT IS SWEET!

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Does anyone know a specific place where you can buy grey leggings? Websites would help me out a great deal. I know they had them at Abercrombie kids but they're backordered. At A&F they don't carry grey. Help?

They have them at Hollister!..I think they're out (of the grey) or whatever on the website (they still have brown) but I'm pretty sure I saw some at the store (idk about where you live though).

Also, try ebay..someone might be selling them there?

Abercrombie&Fitch has some in Dark Grey!

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Hope I helped!

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Hey. Well, I'm going shopping this Wednesday, and I was wondering if stores like Forever 21, Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister, Victoria's Secret, Nordstrom, Aeropostale, Charlotte Russe, etc. have sales by then because of after Christmas or upcoming New Years, etc. Thanks!

Yeah, they probably should have sales..but by the time you get there, most of the good stuff will be gone..:(

Check on their websites to see what the clearance items are::

www.forever21.com
www.abercrombie.com
www.hollisterco.com
www.victoriassecret.com
www.nordstroms.com
www.aeropostale.com
www.charlotterusse.com


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your hands on me. i'm pressing hard against your jeans. your tongue in my mouth, trying to keep the words from coming out

BRIGHT EYES- Lover I Don't Have To Love

I googled it...easy.

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what does URL mean? what is it?

It stands for Uniform Resource Locator, the global address of documents and other resources on the World Wide Web.

ex: www.advicenators.com

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How do you get a picture URL? (that's from a file, not the net) HELP! HURRY!

Go to www.tinypic.com

Host your picture..it will give you the URL.

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