|
ok.this is a pretty long story so sorry.
heres the basic information
Theres this guy named daniel,we first met at the mall. and then i found out that he went to my school and stuff. so we started talking more and more on aim. and we became like the best of friends ever. and i could already tell from there that i completely was going to be in love with him. because little things would get us both completely jealous. so we just started hagning out more and more. and every time we got a little but more flirty. and it was fun and all. but then like. i told him how i felt about him and it turned out he felt the same. then from there we were unseperable. but its weird we both knew we were completely in love with each other. but we just remained the greatest friends. he was soo adorable. he would do anything to make me happy. then soon i really dont know what happened. one night he askeed me who i liked. bc in my profile it had said "single, but completely in love with him" so of course i thought he was kidding bc the only person i told i love you to was him. so i just thought he wanted to be like reasured that i liked him. so then i said i tell you everyday who i love..its you. and hes like i love you too. and i would do anything for you. and you treat me really good and i just want to make you happy. so i thought ok maybe hes going to ask me out. and then all of a sudden he just says. but i dont think it will work out. i know. complete shocker. but he was like i love our friendship we have and i dont know what i would do if we broke up. so i think we should remain great friends. of course hearing that. i was hurt. cause as many times as he told me he loved me. i guess he really didnt mean it like i did. but i cryed alot then. cause i knew things werent going to be the same. and i couldnt believe he actually told me i love you but we need to be friends. but heres the point. now we barely talk, and when we do he just teases me. and i use to think it was cute. now its just completely annoying. and he just doesnt get it that i dont like it.and its defintaly not the same anymore. were not as good friends as before. and i want to change that completely. i want him to be able to talk to me about everything again, and be the one he can joke with, and stuff. i love him to death. as friends of course. and i really need his friendship. but he just seems to not give it to me. and i really need help to get him back as being at least a regualr friend again. anything will help.rank 5 for any advice<3
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
well i know this is hard, but you need to tell him that you are over him. even if your not. at least that gets the weirdness out of the way so you guys can be friends again. if he doesnt want to be more than friends you need to move on and find someone else to like. it might take a while but at least you'll have him as a friend. - - hope i helped <3 michelle
]
the teasing is his way of flirting with you. if you still have feelings for him, tell him. it sounds like yall would make a great couple. i feel for you and am really sorry. just tell him that you still have feelings and if he doesnt want a relationship that friends would be good also. i really hope i helped you! good luck! <3 <3 <3 <3
]
i would say not to worry about it so much. he'll come around sooner or later. or just try to hang out with him more. and just try to remind him of the old times. i really dont know what else to tell you though. good luck! hope i helped.
Dez <3
]
Wow so he just led you on..and then told you that it'd be better if you guys were friends?
..Tough..
-Tell him you really don't like it when he teases you..If you don't tell him, he will never know..so he will continue doing it.
-Tell him the truth---tell him you want things to be the way they were like before.
-Ask him to hang out more often..(with other friends, of course..so it doesn't become awkward (sp?))
-Tell him exactly what you're telling everyone on this website...He's not psychic..He won't know how you feel until you TELL HIM.
-Maybe when you guys become closer friends again, there might be chance that he may reconsider what he said..maybe he'll want to be with you later on?..Who knows?
Hmm..ok Hope I helped..and if you need anything else, drop one in my inbox.
]
awwwwww that is SO sweet. I think what I would do is just start out how you did in the beginning..like I mean start talking to him more and become friends if it is still possible. If its notttt possible for you two to become friends again and if you really can't talk to him like if he won't talk to you or anything, have one of his best friends tell him how you feel about him and convince him to become friends with you again. Or tell him that you don't want to not be friends, and that you want to hang out more and more! ALSO if that works out, take it on from there and maybe you can start flirting with him again. Then you can win him back. This is just what I would do but I hope it helps a lot..if you need anything else on this just ask!<33
]
More Questions: |