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Really this is awkward for me. alot.
Like i dont even know hwo to word this, its just some thing ive wondered.
But Do you girls ever release discharge while being fingered. and doesnt the guy find that gross to the extreme. Why doesnt a guy find it gross to finger a girl just is a little... i dont know.. "gooey?". ANd how many of you girls release dischage? Is it alot? Does it effect your sexual relationships? ANd do guys ever finger a girl and think, EW MY FINGERS SMELL AWKWARD. Yes this is really embarrasing, and awkward, but i would really like anserws seriously.

1. yes girls relese discarge its normal and its not that grose i mean it wont be squirting out everywhere but your finger will get wet
2.all vaginas relese discharge like all the time
3.all areas down there smell okward what do you expect lavender? i mean ya your fingers gunna smell like a vagina all vaginas smell that way
its perfectly normal
4.most guys find the wetness soothing
hope i helped
--ashley
dont be imbaressed =]

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im in the 8th grade and there is this really sexy beyond sexy guy i like but hes in the 6th grade. im pretty short and hes taller then me so thats good. what i want to know is it okay to date someone that young?i know people say age doesnt matter but give your honest opinion!

r ya frekin serious, comon live a lil, just cause hes in 6th and your in 8th? GO FOR IT get him before anyone else steals him haha
its fine!!
you dont find that many sexy 6th graders at my middle school
if anyone makes fun of you for going out with a 6th grader there immaute dont listen to him just say "yea well hes hotter than your boifrend"
=]
best of luck
--ashley

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does anyone know any programs that you can download for free not a free trial thats almost as good as photoshop? thankss

i love irfanview
www.irfanview.com

its like beginer level photshop confuses me! haha

--ashley

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alright so me and my friend are in a huge fight.i mean we used to be best friends and then all of the sudden she just started hating me because apparently i am a "whore" because a couple weeks ago i couldnt really make up my mind about this guy i liked. and now she is just being really rude to me and wont talk to me, and when i tryed to appologize for anything i had did she just got mad and started yelling at me.
any advice?

honestly if shes going to judge you like that and be really immutre them why try to be freinds? she obvesly blew it. i mean your way too muture for her and you deserve better =]
in my opion i would say forget about her cause you prob. have many freinds that luv you the dont call you a whore haha
good luck
--ashley

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I have to do a huge project on basically what I want to be when I'm older and I have NO idea.

I mean I'm interested in owning my own fashion botique but that doesn't seem original at all and it doesn't spark my interest as much as it should.

So does anyone have any ideas?

heres some original ideas! classy

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I really like my best friend. The only problem is that he has a girlfriend. He has been dating her for awhile and really likes her. But he will say things like, "If I ever break up with my girlfriend I'll go out with you." It seems that he is joking but then I'll have some mutal friends saying that we would make a cute couple and that we should go out. He acts like he likes me but i dont know if that is because we are such close friends or what. I want to tell him but I dont want to ruin our friendship and I dont want to break up his relationship. So, should I tell him I like him or should I not say anything? HELP!

it sounds like to me right now isnt the best time to tell him! mabie like a couple weeks after hes single and if he takes things seriously.
--ashley

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haha i didnt know where to put this topic.
http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b268/Durene/me.jpg

your pretty!!
=]
but i would get your weave done to look more real cause you have a perfect face so the hair makes you look like a barbie doll lol its really shiney =]
but im really jellous of your skin its spotless
feel confident about your self you dont need to ask anyone if your pretty or not you should know the moment you look in the mirror! nice smile
--ashley
by the way i like the bed comfter haha artsey

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What are some web-sites you can make like your pictures on top of eachother, or do like poloroid pictures, and make your pictures just like cool looking? Without having to download something, like just a website. Thanks. : )

im not sure about that but i know a really cool software that you can download, its really easy and it doesnt make ur comp. slow its called irfanview u can also change sizes of piks, colors, can add special effects. really awesome i know your gunna have to down load it but it only takes 3 min at the most and its a well known software so theres no scams or viruses
srry but i dont think there is any websites
if you want to check out irfanview...
http://www.irfanview.com/
mabie www.lunapic.com will help you not sure about the special effects thouh
hope i helped =]
--ashley

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Grrrr... this makes me so mad... My sister is tottaly whipped by her boyfriend she is 19 and has a 1 year old daughter. Okay I am bi polar and have a lot of depression and I was talking to my sis about that and her boyfriend butted in and said he didn't give a crap and that I was spoiled and just wanted attention... well anyways my niece has like set rules in that house becasue of Nathan and my sis Listens to him.. she can't have her TV on when she goes to bed and he said is it just me or is 3 bottles during the night enough and my sis said ok we won't give her that much.. I mean casue my niece wakes up and thats how she gets back to sleep. She needs to get back together with her babys father... I am getting so sick of her new boyfriend and don't get me wrong my sister loves her baby to death but this guy has got to go he is turning my sis against me.. Please help... she hung up on me and won't even talk to me... What should I do?? Sorry so long

wow u wrote this question a long time ago =] i just wanted to say that
--ashley

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When i've worn tampons, and i go to change it ill take it out and when i go to put another one in it hurts because its dry i guess. What can i do?

try leaving it in a lil longer so its more wet and slides out a lil easer. thats all i can think of =] if it hurts when takeing it out then it is too dry so leave it in for another hour or two (depends on how heavy the flow is) but then it will we more wet to slip out easer.
--ashley

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19/F
Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
Help?

blake! follow your heart, i know nate is good in bed and pleasruble but balke is perfecto!
--ashkey

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all the sadness turns to rage'til everything's bloodstained.I will not be the victim.I will not play your games.it makes me sick to my stomach I'll turn it around and you will fear my fucking face



what song is this?

born from misery
=]
==ashley

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Hi ladies, I'm really curious to get the perspective of women on penis size. I measured mine hard and found that it was 3.7 inches long, 0.8 inches wide and 0.4 inches thick with a measured circumference of 2.7 inches. Is that normal, small or big. Also I have major right curve in my penis that's shaped like a u-turn. I mean it curves directly to the right and points at my right arm, not straight at all. Is that normal and if I jerk off with the left hand will that straighten it. My last 3 girlfriends said my penis was pathetic and they would get more pleasure from a toothpick. I assume that means that I'm skinny, but I don't know. Please write back with answers as I would love to know where I stand with other men. One more thing. Does anyone else have trouble with regular condoms. Every package i buy seems to be too big. I put them on hard and they just slide right off. They feel like there about 3 inches too long and way to big around. I don't even need to stretch them out to put my penis in them erect. I'm not buying the magnums either. I'm just getting the regular average ones. I'm open to suggestions.

LMFAO ummm real funny that made my dayyyy
ur funny

buta if this is a serious quesion...how old are you 4?

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alright so there is this guy
we've been on and off since july.
but we broke up about amonth ago..
and started seeing other people.
well i dumped the guy i was with
but my ex it still iwth his girlfriend
but the thing is..
i still love him.
like really l-o-v-e.
and he says he still has feelings for me,
and that we'll just break up again.
but i want more than anything to make it work
how can i show him that if i have one more chance,
considering i've given him like 5
that it'll be worth it?

please help ; im sick of crying =/

people say hate is a strong word
but then, so is love
&& people throw it around like its
[ m e a n i n g l e s s ]

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I just found out that britney shaved all her hair out. I couldn't believe it.
Why did she do it?. What's going on with her?

she was in rehab about drugs....
and she denied the whole drug issue and they were going to give her a drug test by a strand of her hair.
so she shaved it for many reasons!
-drug test
-starting fresh
-more that we dont knoww

but i absulutly LOVE it! its so bold i think she should keep it, but not baled but just really short like boi short
--ashley

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I really want to get a small heart tattooed on the middle of my wrist. (Random -- but there's a story with it and such.) The thing is, I know tattoos are already painful to begin with (I've never gotten one before though), and there's that really pokey bone right where I want the tattoo to go. So basically it will hurt like hell. Has anyone else gotten a tattoo on their wrist like that before and how bad does it hurt?? Thanks!

its gunna hurt...bad....but its worth it!!

you will be in pain for about a week, but youll have the tattoo for your whole life.

also make SURE you get it done at a VERY profesonal place clean too cause there are so many huge vains there and the skin in thin there so its easy to get ink in your vessels which is deadly if not geting medical attechon. so make sure the tattoo artest is really experninced and sure about what he/shes doing!

goodluck!
--ashley

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where can i buy pepper spray so i can feel safe when im out.

http://www.opamerica.com/product_info.php/products_id/234

i like to carry arround poket knives for protection 2 =]
--ashley

if this doesnt work google peperspray and you can find other sites where you can order online!

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im gettin a tiny dog i need names.i like 'food names' or different names like 'turtle' for a dog i love that name for a dog or any 'unique names' or oppasite like giant for a tiny dog~so any names that are ~food~oppasite~unique~other animals~stuff like that

tomato

mushy

mushroom

if its a small dog name him monster!

if its a big dog name him mini!

armadillio

ant eater!!!!!!!!!!!

panda (cutteee)

fuzzball

eyeball

buger!!

ganster

GmonGie (sp)
(the movie)

Ayame (ah-ya-me) (japanise)

--ashley
congrats on the dogg

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Hey, this is kind of a menial question, so yeah. But uh tonight I got invited to two birthday parties that start around the same time. One, is my best friend "Margaret's" birthday. We're going to Maccaroni Grill and that's it. The other is my friend from tennis, "Lucy". Lucy is pretty popular on the team and I really was happy she invited me and I want to get to know her well and stuff. But, Margaret is my best friend. At first I was like, Ok i'm defidently going to Margaret's. But.. idk. Lucy's party is we're going shopping and then spending the night at a hotel. Both are sweet 16 birthdays. My parents suggested going out to eat with Margaret and then going to spend the night with Lucy. But since me and LUcy aren't like besssttt friends, i dont' want to seem like a lot of trouble since I'm not even one of her good friends. Does that make sense? well, please reply asap! thankks!

oh gosh thats hard! especally if each are sweet16s well least "margaret" is your best firend you defantly dont want to miss hers so i would go out to dinner with her and then ( like ur parents said) then spend the night at "lucys" all is good!! just make sure you get them something out of this world to make up for it ahah

have a great time!
--ashley
also i dought you will be trouble just have fun!

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i have a little situation...my best friend who i've know all my life, shes always been there i really can't remember my life without her in it. and recently we've been working out and trying to get in shape for s.b 07..and anyways i hateee that i'm saying this and thinking this, but like er i sometimes don't wanna go places with her because shes not really like pretty and i hate that i just said that. and i wanna give her a makeover because she could be soo pretty if she only wore cuter clothes for her body did some stuff with her hair, and other stuff. but i don't know what to do. i don't wanna tell her that or anything but i don't know what to do. and i just feel horrible for ever thinking. so ah i don't know what to do!

lol its ok!
try this

play "stranger" say its a game and try diff makeup and let her wear some of your clothes and try to look like a whole new person!! then at the end say

"you look really cute in that top you can borrow it some time!"
also
"omg i just relized you should get your hair done like_____!"
orr
"hey that makeup color looks great on you you should wear it more often!"

you know give her ideas!
or go shoping with her for clothes and tell her to try on some stuff to convince her how good she looks with them!

heres the tip, you dont have to cause problems and tell her about how she needs changes, make her relize it!!

or on holdays buy her diffrent makeups, cute clothes, and mabie take her out to luch and tell her that you think she will really look good in those clothes! say something like
"i loved that top i was gunna get it for me, but when i looked at it it said ur name all over it! =]"

mabie when she starts wearing the cuter clothes people will complement her on them and she will ask you to help her pick out more clothes like it!

goodluck and no hard feelings hey thats what freinds are for!!
--ashley

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