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alright so me and my friend are in a huge fight.i mean we used to be best friends and then all of the sudden she just started hating me because apparently i am a "whore" because a couple weeks ago i couldnt really make up my mind about this guy i liked. and now she is just being really rude to me and wont talk to me, and when i tryed to appologize for anything i had did she just got mad and started yelling at me.
any advice?
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If your "best" friend says that about you, she was never your true friend in the first place. Stop apologizing for things you didn't do. If she's going to treat you like that, she doesn't deserve you as a friend. Don't kiss her ass for it and beg for forgiveness because you're better than that. Let her cool off and she just needs to relax. There could be more to the reason that she's angry with you, but just don't say sorry for things that you didn't do. If she's your real friend, she'll come around and realize what she said was wrong.
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honestly if shes going to judge you like that and be really immutre them why try to be freinds? she obvesly blew it. i mean your way too muture for her and you deserve better =]
in my opion i would say forget about her cause you prob. have many freinds that luv you the dont call you a whore haha
good luck
--ashley
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I would find other people to hang out with for the time being. If you've tried to appologize, what more could you do if she refuses to accept? There are two things she could do, 1) she could come to her senses, forgive you, admit she was wrong, and you guys could go on as friends. 2) she could stay mad at you for a while and in that case, she isn't a friend worth keeping. Give her time to "think/cool down" sometimes people just need a little space and let her take it from there. If she is a true friend, she will come back to you. :) been in the same situation and my friend needed space so hopefully it will work for you too
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i think she's jealous because you have guys to choose from.
you need to ignore her for a while. you even apologized and she got MAD. how lame is that? you've done your part, but she obvilously wants you to grovel for forgiveness. just ignore her, she'll get tired of trying to be hateful to a person whose non-reactant to it, and cave in.
it always works. ;]
AND if you're nice to her, she'll hate it. :D its glorious.
good luck!
-amy.
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