Gender: Female
Location: New Jersey
Age: 16
Member Since: February 18, 2007
Answers: 53
Last Update: May 16, 2007
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allright, my friend likes this kid, lets call him bob? allright, well she sits next to him in science and she likes him. She told me she did a wheil ago, but then she told me a couple months later that she didnt. I was afriad to get close to him because i was afriad that he was going to start liking me. But after she told me she didnt like him anymore, i got closer to him. We where just on a trip for school and we spent the entier time together. We laughed so much and i dont think either of us was not smiling the entier day. Now that night my friend told me that she still had a massive crush on him, she was just upset because they were going no where in the friendshipn when she told me she didnt. Now i like bob. I'm not going to not like him because she likes him, but what do i do if he ends up liking me, because i'm pretty sure he does.When we were on that trip we were inceperable. I dont know what to do about my friend. She knows that we are close, but she doesnt think i like him, because she does, basiclly because his bestfriend likes me too, and she thinks that sence we are best friends itd be cool if our boyfriends were bestfriends lol. so yeah the other boy that likes me, we have chemistry but not like me and bob... god, i dont know what to do im so confused. I mean i like the other boy too, but like me and bob are just so close. and another thing, if i were to go out with bob, i dont think our relasonship would stay the same, im sure it wouldnt, and i dont want the to happen. so would it be better if i were to just attempt to not like him anymore? cause i dont want to give up the friendship we have. (link)
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First off you can't choose who you like, it's just something that happens. Secondly if you don't want to have a relationship with bob because you think it will ruin the existing one, don't rush into anything. Take time to think it through completely before jumping into something you aren't ready for. As for your friend, I have the same problem, I just hid my feelings. That may not work for you since the kid seems to like you back more than the kid likes me back, but talk to bob online and at school more, get to know him and let him get to know you. Eventually your friend will figure out that you guys are suppose to be together, don't a) rub it in her face and b) be mean about it because she will be a little hurt. Also this other kid, if you think it would be cool for best friends to couple with other best friends, its not that awesome, because there are different interests. If you don't like bob's friend, let him down easy. Also, bob is in the same position as you, if he does in fact like you. He has to deal with his friend if he admits to liking you as do you with your friend. My advice is to take things slowly and to talk to your friend and bob. Let them both know how you feel. Good luck :)
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I am 19 years old and a college sophomore. I am 5'7" and extremely athletic. Because of sports and probably a naturally fast metabolism I get hungry for an incredible amount of food. I eat 6000 to 7000 calories a day. My friends often tease me about this. They don't mean anything by it but it sometimes bothers me when other people are around. It bothers me more when I hang around new people. How should I handle it when we eat lunch somewhere and everyone is full except me? I sometimes get hungry at unusual times and if I don't get enough to eat I can get extremely hungry when no one else is. Many people tell me to have a doctor check me for this or that. I have been to the doctor and I find this rather annoying. It is especially awkward if I get very hungry when I am at a friends house. No one will want to go out and my friend says "get whatever you want from the kitchen". I often find this awkward because no matter how understanding they are I feel funny cleaning out my friend's fridge. Last Saturday I met a friend for lunch after 4 hours of swim practice. We had a small lunch and went to her apartment. After a couple of hours I was very very hungry. I ate a cup-o-noodles and 2 sandwiches and a banana while she made me some falafels. I finished the falafels and started making another sandwich. My friend started raving "are you STILL HUNGRY!!?? - how can you eat so much? - where does it go!? - you have to tell me where it goes!!" I have no answer. I'm just hungry. I'm sorry. Actually I finished the sandwich, some chicken salad and 2 more bananas while my friend continued her questions. The fact that I had a 30 minute run before breakfast and 4 hours of swimming after that doesn't figure in to her thinking. This kind of thing makes me feel awkward and when it is in a group or with strangers I don't know how to handle it. I want to hear any advice on how to make things smooth and not feel awkward.
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Haha I eat a lot too. It's nothing to be ashamed of, although I also feel awkward eating a lot infront of people I don't really know. If i know I'm really hungry and around new people about to eat dinner or something I just say... oh by the way I eat a lot. They usually laugh and then if they comment later on how much I eat I just say.. well I warned you and I can't help it I'm hungry. Its one thing to eat a lot and be a couch potato and gain pounds each day, but since your athletic and I'm guessing have a huge metabolism, most people would look at how much you are eating and be jealous of the fact you can do it and they can't. Believe me I know what I'm talking about, one time I went out to breakfast with my friends and got this breakfast sampler... two eggs, two pancakes, two bacon, two sausages, two hams, and some of that potato stuff. And before I ate I was like omg I'm so hungry. I ate the whole thing where my friends could barely finish half of their plates (they got the same thing). They just laughed and said... wow you really were hungry. Yea every once in a while they'll bring it up like I can't believe you ate that much and I'll go, well I'm a growing girl or what can I say I was hungry. Don't feel awkward, love the fact that you can eat so much and not gain a lot of weight, those who comment on it don't matter because they are just jealous. Wow that was long.. hoped this helped :)
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Ok here is the thing there is this smoken hot girl on my soccer, she is a year older then though. Ok she shows some intrest on msn coversations im the golie on our team in practise she always comes to shot on me she wants to be the back up golie on our team. She always watchs me when im playing a diffrent position. She helps me up when fall down our something. We both like the same things im intemadadted by her, can you give me some tips on how to turn our freindship into a real relationshipp. (link)
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First of all start talking to her... get to know her a little more and let her get to know you. By talking to her you are 1) going to become less intimidated by this girl and 2) a relationship may develope. Also, if she is already in a kinda sorta relationship, I would just try to be friends now and wait a while until things clear up before "making your move". And the whole, "she helps you up when you fall down" does not neccessarily mean she likes you... it just means you guys are good teammates... but that does not mean that you guys can't have a relationship. Well I hope all goes well, need any more help just leave some questions in my inbox. Oh and don't rush things, some things take time before something special comes out of it.
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can hickeys cause cancer? (link)
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hickeys are bruises... you can't get cancer from bruises. You get cancer from your cells dividing too much.. something complicated.. but thats what I think. NO
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hey i'm like almost a straight A kid but this term im having a slight problem remembering things and paying attention.
When the teacher talks and I look at her, somehow i look like THROUGH her and through things..
And i don't know why but I keep forgetting things, i tried writting on stuff to remember but it won't work. Is that being stupid or something? Maybe go to liek a mental place because my brain is shutting down?
sometimes i think that our brain is like a computer and information is limited and when you take up all that space, you'll start forgetting things or things you remmbered will be removed and that's why old people like forget things when they're old.
but i'm 14! (link)
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Haha you don't need to go to a "mental place" this happens to me all the time. I'll put something down and then five minutes later go crazy looking for it. It is just because you have a lot on your mind. Maybe you are busy with school or sports or friends, whatever it is, you are probably stressed and that is causing your mind to wander from the teacher's lecture. I recently.. well I don't remember if it was recently or like three monthes ago, lost one of my special rings. Now it's gone. During that time, midterms were going on so me losing the ring corresponds with the mind draining tests given in January. Just don't stress out over little things, keep writing things down, ask to see someone's notes if you spaced out during a class period and you need to see what you learned, and go in for extra help if you don't get it. It will only get easier, the stress will start to go away with the end of school, so don't worry, you aren't aging or anything, its natural.. even if it sucks. Haha well good luck and if you need any more advice feel free to ask.
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alright so me and my friend are in a huge fight.i mean we used to be best friends and then all of the sudden she just started hating me because apparently i am a "whore" because a couple weeks ago i couldnt really make up my mind about this guy i liked. and now she is just being really rude to me and wont talk to me, and when i tryed to appologize for anything i had did she just got mad and started yelling at me.
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I would find other people to hang out with for the time being. If you've tried to appologize, what more could you do if she refuses to accept? There are two things she could do, 1) she could come to her senses, forgive you, admit she was wrong, and you guys could go on as friends. 2) she could stay mad at you for a while and in that case, she isn't a friend worth keeping. Give her time to "think/cool down" sometimes people just need a little space and let her take it from there. If she is a true friend, she will come back to you. :) been in the same situation and my friend needed space so hopefully it will work for you too
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So i went on the website mobile17 to make my own ringtone, and they sent the link to my phone and everything, and when i went to the link it said "this site cannot be accessed by this browswer" or whatever. i have t-zones on my tmobile phone..is there any way to get the ringtones? or is it impossible because i cant go on actual websites? (link)
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This happened to me. Make sure that the phone you choose on the website is your make and model... if there is a similar one to the one that you picked pick that one and try again. It didn't work the first time taht I tried it but after I changed my phone model its been working fine. If that made no sense to you, just ask me to explain and I'll be glad to help.;
Okay let me try to explain it better.
When you register and make a login name you have to pick the model of your phone. (Like a picture of the phone that is your phone). Make sure that the phone you chose here is the same phone that you have. I used this site and by accidentally chose the wrong model of phone and the same message you got came to my phone. Go back and see if you can find the phone you have. Hope this explanation is much more detailed. Oh and when you go back just see if you chose something that looked like your phone but isn't... i actually had to choose something close to my phone, but a different color (mine is black/grey and the phone on the website i had to choose to make it work was white). Good luck. If you can't find a phone that would match yours, check your settings are correct. If all these things are in order, sometimes phones don't always work so maybe it won't work for you... idk.. hope this helps more!
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At school we play volleyball. I love to play and i am going to try out for to team in high school. but at school every one yells at me when i go for the ball. they dau that i am not staying in my spot. However, they are not going for the ball so if i dont the other team will win. what should i do?
Belinda
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Are you playing in gym? I have friends that we played in a tournament for the school (to raise money) and two people jumped infront of everybody and it was basically a two man show. It really pissed off everyone on my team because we didn't get to play and this was suppose to be a fun thing. Maybe the people are getting annoyed because they just want to have fun and don't really care about winning or loosing. Also, if you are playing on a private team, you have to learn how to trust that your teammates will get the ball when it goes to them and worry about your own spot because the most embarrassing thing is when you leave your spot to jump in on someone's and the ball ends up getting hit to your spot where you should be. My advice, if it's gym, you just play intense, but don't go overboard, let everyone have a chance at the ball. I don't think this is what you wanted to hear, but that's my advice.
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I guess this would go under fitness?
But at soccer pract. we were doing sucides and sprints and crap and we'd have a few secons to rest inbetween and i was bent over (because i was tired) and my friend said to keep my head above my heart, and then today we did the same thing and my coach said to keep standing up straigh and don't put out heads down. so i was wonder if you do bend over after running what will happen? will you just get dizzy and faint? (link)
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Hah I play soccer too and coaches always tell me this. They say you should stand up straight and keep your arms over your head to "open your air-passages" I am guessing what the means is that it helps the flow of air in your body so you won't be out of breath for too long and you won't faint or get dizzy from the lack of oxygen in the air. I think we are doing fitness tonight at my practice... haha can't wait :) Hope I helped.
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i was seeing someone over the summer- but his worst enemy fancied me.
his "worst enemy" was/is a stoner, and a lot of people inclding my best mate told me that the guy i was seeing was one aswell. when i asked him about it he promised me he wasnt and i believed him, but i now know this is because he was under the impression that i would ditch him if i knew he was (i suspect).
in september, he dumped me and he was suddenly best mates with the guy who was once his "worst enemy" . he has since let me know hes a stoner in more ways than one and i really dont understand whether hes trying to prove a point or something but its really p*ssing me off
i wouldnt even be bothered if he told me he was a stoner in the first place, its just the fact that he lied about it and i even believed him over my best mate
gggrrrr
am i stupid or am i right to be mad? (link)
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You have all the right in the world to be mad. Relationships should be built on trust, if you can't trust the person you are with, or be honest with them, then the relationship will go no where. You trusted him and he broke this trust. I think you should be mad at him. He doesn't deserve to be in a relationship if he can't be honest with the person he is in it with. Well, I hope all goes well.
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Does anybody know the name of the band that does the song One ticket? Is it one like white double or something??????
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One ticket to the party???
Its by White Devil
Here are the lyrics:
http://artists.letssingit.com/lyrics-one-ticket-to-the-party-6dpg9hm
hoped this helped you
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which island did anyone like better oahu or kaua'i. for my family. im 13/f, brother 15/m, mom 49/f, dad 49/m. im goin for photagraphy and exotic food, my brother is goin for pina coladas and girls lol, my mom and dad for sunsets and luau's. im planning it and i cant use a travel agent just books and other stuff. so... any help please thanks (link)
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I went to kaua'i and I really loved the island. I have never been to oahu so I can't do a compare and contrast kind of thing, but I would love to go back to kaua'i. My family went to a luau and we found a canyon that was beautiful and picture perfect beaches. I'm sure wherever you go you'll find what you are looking for.
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i got a bad hair cut
its short
and i have bangs
since my hair is short
my hair is all f***ckedd up
because its wavy and now
its wavy and poofy
i hate it.
please please please help.
im so vain and now i feel soooo ugly. (link)
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First of all, its hair, and its going to grow back. Maybe you can wear your hair straight (buy a cheap straightener) for the time being. Don't listen to anyone else about what they think about yuor haircut, that's something I've learned from my own experience. Experiment and find other ways to wear your hair while your waiting for it to grow out. Good luck, and I'm sorry I can't be more help. Of you and you can stop the poof with some products in stores, like Frizz-ease serum, hair spray, certain shampoos and conditioners.
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any good ideas or tips for getting up early in the morning and like getting a decent amount of sleep. like for me its so hard to get up because well im not a morning person but also because im up so late every night (so many things to do) i wake up late which throws me off tracks and like all that stuff.
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Well I am just like this, some tips that help me when I know its going to be hard to get up in the morning because of a late night...
-Put an alarm clock on the other side of the room, put it on a loud setting so you have to get up to turn it off.
-When you wake up, and turn off your alarm (if you use one) turn on a light in your room so you can't fall back asleep.
-Take naps whenever you can so you can feel energized.
-Don't eat/drink a lot of caffine before going to bed because this would make it harder for you to go to sleep.
Hope these tips helped.
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black female/15
What makes relaxed hair curly not nappy but curly and wavy, besides braiding it and then taking the braids out.??? (link)
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What I do is use styling mousse on wet hair. I scrunch my hair with the mousse and then put Frizz-Ease serum to prevent from frizzing later on. Than sometimes I put my hair in a bun and sleep on it and my hair comes out curly. You most likely don't have to put your hair in a bun because I haven't done that in a long time and I still get curly hair from the scrunching.
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What are some good things to do when your babysitting a little kid about 6 years old with autism? Thanks! =D (link)
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It depends on the kid. I have a cousin with autism and she really likes to go on the computer and play games online (which you could play with the kid you babysit with and help them when they can't do something) or she really likes to watch movies. Also, coloring is always something almost every kid loves to do. I know this probably doesn't help that much, but all kids with autism are generally different so they don't have the same needs as others. Maybe you could call their parents and ask them of some activites the kid would want to do, you may feel stupid asking them, but I bet the parents would be more than happy to tell you. Good luck. Hoped this helped a little bit.
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hi! okay so i saw this movie. i cant remember what this qoute its from...
YOU ALWAYS SAiD HOW LUCKY YOU WERE
TO BE FRiENDS WiTH US
BUT iT WAS US BABY ;; WE WERE THE LUCKY ONESā„
yeah idk, do you know? (link)
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I looked it up and it said that Maureen from the RENT cast said that quote.
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I straighten my hair almost every day, because it is like just a little wavy, but its usually not even waves if that makes any sense haha. anyways, i straighten in really good in the mornings, and by the time i get to school its all a little wavy again. it isnt the straightener, its like just my hair or something. any ideas on what to do to make it stay straight the whole day (or atleast through like 1st period!) thanks! (link)
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Spray a little hairspray on a brush and then brush your hair. This is help your hair stay straight! I also use frizz-control shampoo and conditioner by Sunsilk... and it helps keep my hair down the whole day. Make sure your straightener is on a high enough setting because I know my hair is wavy too and if I don't put it on a high setting, it won't stay straight for the day. Hope this helps.
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i sweat a lot. even when im not hot. and also i am hot very often, which causes me to sweat even more. my doctor said it just ties in with stress, and with my "sleeping disorder" and is like just all stress and crap. but its not. and they're not doing anything about it because my blood test is fine. i can never wear long sleeves or jackets for a long time unless its really cold. its embarrasing and i dont want to put a jacket over to cover the marks, because then i will just sweat more! i get like hotflashes, like im pregnant or something lol. and i sometimes get so hot that i feel dizzy and like i might faint. any advice on not sweating so much..and maybe any advice on how to keep cool or something? i really appreciate anyones thoughts and ideas!! (link)
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I had this same problem up to about a week ago. I used to sweat and it was really embarrassing so I know how you feel. Go to your doctor and get the prescription antiperspirant called DrySol. It worked so well on my I haven't sweat since I put it on.
Things to do and not to do while using it.
-were deoderant because it does not cover up "smell"
-don't put on when you just shave (very bad)
-don't put on twice two days in a row (I got burned, like sunburn on my armpits it stung for days!)
-Use it at night and let it dry before putting a shirt on
-Wash off in morning with soap before putting deoderant on
I hope this helps. I highly recommed DrysoL!
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I want to get my boyfriend just a little something that says "I'm thinking of you." I don't want to get him anything huge and he's not a card or candy person. Any suggestions? (link)
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Get him a framed picture of the two of you. Maybe on the outside of the frame, you could add little things to remind him of all the good times you've had together. I have heard a lot of people say that their boyfriend found a picture of the two of them together was one of the greatest gifts because he could remember how you look even after a long time apart... not that you would be apart long I'm just making a point. So I hope all goes well.
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