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allright, my friend likes this kid, lets call him bob? allright, well she sits next to him in science and she likes him. She told me she did a wheil ago, but then she told me a couple months later that she didnt. I was afriad to get close to him because i was afriad that he was going to start liking me. But after she told me she didnt like him anymore, i got closer to him. We where just on a trip for school and we spent the entier time together. We laughed so much and i dont think either of us was not smiling the entier day. Now that night my friend told me that she still had a massive crush on him, she was just upset because they were going no where in the friendshipn when she told me she didnt. Now i like bob. I'm not going to not like him because she likes him, but what do i do if he ends up liking me, because i'm pretty sure he does.When we were on that trip we were inceperable. I dont know what to do about my friend. She knows that we are close, but she doesnt think i like him, because she does, basiclly because his bestfriend likes me too, and she thinks that sence we are best friends itd be cool if our boyfriends were bestfriends lol. so yeah the other boy that likes me, we have chemistry but not like me and bob... god, i dont know what to do im so confused. I mean i like the other boy too, but like me and bob are just so close. and another thing, if i were to go out with bob, i dont think our relasonship would stay the same, im sure it wouldnt, and i dont want the to happen. so would it be better if i were to just attempt to not like him anymore? cause i dont want to give up the friendship we have.
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Omg.It is confusing isnt it?.For one,I dont think its possible for you to totally stop liking someone just like that.It so takes time,or you find out that hes not who you think he is,which,hopefully,hasnt happened(that totally sucks.).I know,I know,your friend likes him,and has liked him.Its not fair that she flipped like that but it happened,and Im pretty sure you cant change that.But if he likes you(and,sadly he doesnt like your friend),and he asks you out,just either say that you cant,it wouldnt be right(even though you really want to,for your friends sake you would do this.),or you go out and make your friend feel uncomfortable and probably not be friends with you,even though its totally your life,and your friend shouldnt controll it.Idontknow if this helped.
Hope it did.=]]
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First off you can't choose who you like, it's just something that happens. Secondly if you don't want to have a relationship with bob because you think it will ruin the existing one, don't rush into anything. Take time to think it through completely before jumping into something you aren't ready for. As for your friend, I have the same problem, I just hid my feelings. That may not work for you since the kid seems to like you back more than the kid likes me back, but talk to bob online and at school more, get to know him and let him get to know you. Eventually your friend will figure out that you guys are suppose to be together, don't a) rub it in her face and b) be mean about it because she will be a little hurt. Also this other kid, if you think it would be cool for best friends to couple with other best friends, its not that awesome, because there are different interests. If you don't like bob's friend, let him down easy. Also, bob is in the same position as you, if he does in fact like you. He has to deal with his friend if he admits to liking you as do you with your friend. My advice is to take things slowly and to talk to your friend and bob. Let them both know how you feel. Good luck :)
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