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dumped for weed?
i was seeing someone over the summer- but his worst enemy fancied me.
his "worst enemy" was/is a stoner, and a lot of people inclding my best mate told me that the guy i was seeing was one aswell. when i asked him about it he promised me he wasnt and i believed him, but i now know this is because he was under the impression that i would ditch him if i knew he was (i suspect).
in september, he dumped me and he was suddenly best mates with the guy who was once his "worst enemy" . he has since let me know hes a stoner in more ways than one and i really dont understand whether hes trying to prove a point or something but its really p*ssing me off
i wouldnt even be bothered if he told me he was a stoner in the first place, its just the fact that he lied about it and i even believed him over my best mate
gggrrrr
am i stupid or am i right to be mad?
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I'd be pissed too. Instead of just telling you the truth, he lied to you. What an idiot.
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this is someone you apparently care about so of course you have the right to be mad and confused. I mean he could have consulted you about being a stoner and since you truely care about him you would understand and i am sure you feel like he completely shut you out. A relationship is brought to hell when stuff is kept from the other person, it is especially hard when the one you love is addicted to drugs(ive been in a realtionship like this) and in all acuality they choose them over you. Drugs are usually ALWAYS number one. So no you are not stupid for being mad and if it makes you feel better you should talk to him about it to get this off your chest.
GOOD LUCK,
Brittni
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You have all the right in the world to be mad. Relationships should be built on trust, if you can't trust the person you are with, or be honest with them, then the relationship will go no where. You trusted him and he broke this trust. I think you should be mad at him. He doesn't deserve to be in a relationship if he can't be honest with the person he is in it with. Well, I hope all goes well.
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