Grrrr... this makes me so mad... My sister is tottaly whipped by her boyfriend she is 19 and has a 1 year old daughter. Okay I am bi polar and have a lot of depression and I was talking to my sis about that and her boyfriend butted in and said he didn't give a crap and that I was spoiled and just wanted attention... well anyways my niece has like set rules in that house becasue of Nathan and my sis Listens to him.. she can't have her TV on when she goes to bed and he said is it just me or is 3 bottles during the night enough and my sis said ok we won't give her that much.. I mean casue my niece wakes up and thats how she gets back to sleep. She needs to get back together with her babys father... I am getting so sick of her new boyfriend and don't get me wrong my sister loves her baby to death but this guy has got to go he is turning my sis against me.. Please help... she hung up on me and won't even talk to me... What should I do?? Sorry so long
karenR answered Friday March 4 2005, 8:53 am: sisters boyfriend-
WOW, where do I start!
1)you can't unfortunatley do much about sisters boyfriend.Anything bad you say to her about him will most likely piss her off, so, don't go there.
2)Try talking to your sis about your problems when you have her to yourself. No boyfriend around.Maybe she would give you a little "girl" time. Have you asked? Try it and see.Your problem is not her boyfriends buisness anyway.
3)unfortunatley again,you can't tell your sis how to raise baby OR who she should be with.I agree that it sounds like some changes would be good for her but that is her decision to make.
Just stand by because she may get sick of this guy in her own time. I know it's hard but time does change things.Most of all-learn from her mistakes okay? Hope this helped, Please feel free to ask follow up question if I missed something. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
wAnTiNgHiM4EvEr answered Thursday March 3 2005, 6:23 pm: You should first talk to your parents about this whole situation, and try to get them to talk to your sister about how she's treating you. And then once you get on better track with your sis, you can mention how horrible her boyfriend is being.
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AskNick answered Thursday March 3 2005, 2:14 pm: Well first of all you should talk to your mom about this and if that does not work you need to talk to your sister about the way you feel and the views that you have about her boyfriend maybe you could talk to your nieces real father and he could help you to tackle this problem.
i wish you good luck and hope this advice has helped you..... [ AskNick's advice column | Ask AskNick A Question ]
XxJeSSeGeRbiLxX answered Thursday March 3 2005, 1:07 pm: just go to her house or somthin and talk to her. her boyfriend is a real ass. maybe u should kill him. lol im jokin dont do that, but you need to have a talk with both of them or talk to her when he's not around. [ XxJeSSeGeRbiLxX's advice column | Ask XxJeSSeGeRbiLxX A Question ]
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