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I like my best friend
I really like my best friend. The only problem is that he has a girlfriend. He has been dating her for awhile and really likes her. But he will say things like, "If I ever break up with my girlfriend I'll go out with you." It seems that he is joking but then I'll have some mutal friends saying that we would make a cute couple and that we should go out. He acts like he likes me but i dont know if that is because we are such close friends or what. I want to tell him but I dont want to ruin our friendship and I dont want to break up his relationship. So, should I tell him I like him or should I not say anything? HELP!
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Again, I'm also going through the same thing. I suggest actually telling him how you feel, cuz he'll probably understand. But he might not exactly break up with his girlfriend just yet. When he says that if he & her break up, he'll go out with you, he's probably talking about in the not-so-near future. So you should probably tell him, just don't expect anything. Let me know how ot goes..hope I helped!!
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i am in this exact same problem. my guy friend said that when his relationship is over that he will be there for me if i wanted to go out with him. our relationship is a little more complicated but anyway, i liked him for a really long time and was devestated when he got a girlfriend. i told him that i used to like him but forced myself to get over him because i didn't want to ruin his friendship. i lied, i still liked him when i said that. i also told him that sometimes, despite that i've accepted the fact that he has a girlfriend, the feelings just come up again. he was alright with it and i actually think it made us better friends because he knows that i trust him and he trusts me. so my point is that you should find a way to tell him you like him without saying that you want him. because if you're a good friend to him which im guessing you are you'll be able to understand that he is in a relationship which he is enjoying. tell him that you had to tell him you liked him just to get it off your chest even thought you know nothing is likely to happen anytime soon. let me know how it goes, this question was so strange to read, i felt like i wrote it.
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it sounds like to me right now isnt the best time to tell him! mabie like a couple weeks after hes single and if he takes things seriously.
--ashley
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