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Heyy my names Jessica, but most people call me Jess. Im 17 and its my senior year! I love to have fun. I'm always laughing, mainly at myself. When i first meet people i tend to be shy and i hate it, but once you know me you realize how outgoing and crazy i am. I don't swear cause i don't find a reason to. I hate crying, so i never do. I love watching movies. I listen to music everyday. My iPod is always with me. My friends and family mean everything to me.

Ive been on this site for three years now and im in love. I like to give people my advice. I can relate to a lot of things because i've been threw a lot of things in my life. Feel free to drop anything my my inbox or you can e-mail me.

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okay, i really want to get extensions because i'm really tired of having medium length hair. i want my long hair back. but. my hair takes FOREVER to grow. it's been five months, and it's still the same length. i just wanted to know if extensions are worth it. the money, the work, etc. should i get them, or should i just wait for my hair to grow on its own?
i'd like personal opinions, or experiences [if you have extensions].
please & thankyou.

I dont know alot about extensions but i think they would be cute. I know some people who got them and they look really good. But on the other hand you might wanna look up on them like howlong they last and how you take care of them before you go to get them.

Jess

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Hi i was wondering how to go up to a girl like in the mall.like what to say.and how to find out if their single or not..please help me
thanks =)

haha i say go with what the person below me said.

im a girl and if i guy came up to me and said that i would deffinatly get to know him. It is corny but funny, and most girls like a sense of humor and someone who is confident enough to go up and talk to them.

Jess

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ok i have a nasssty whitehead on my nose...ew.
how can i get rid of it. im up for like creams or home remedies..any reccomendations.
thanks

put toothpaste on it overnight.

jess

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i want to do something really memorable with my girl friends this summer. i have a lot of guy friends too and despite that they're my friends the guys just normally cause stress so i want something to do with my girls. there's about 5 of us and i want like a girls night out sort of thing, or something to do during the day, doesn't matter. i want it to be something that we dont normally do. we're 15 some 16 and we normally go to the movies or the mall or to somebody's house. so any ideas? thanks a bunch

Have a party! Invite all of your girl friends and guy friends. Have a bonfire. If you have a pool thats good to, order some pizzas or something. anything fun. that what my friends do all summer. Or take a trip to the beach, go to a drive in movie there really fun. Go mini golfing or bowling. Just do anything to get out of the house.

jess

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does anyone know any RnB and slow jam song about girl broke up with a guy? list a lot as you can thank you =]

say goodbye by chris brown.
thats all i know. haha

Jess

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theres these two songs i hear frequently on the radio one goes like this

1. cause let me remind you we'll always have each othhhhhhha

thats all i remember and hte other song goes like this

2. we'll carry on, we'll carry on, we'll carry...

- what are the song names and artists of these two songs

thank you!!

welcome to the black parade by my chemical romance

almost positive its that.


jess

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Hey, I was wondering where i could look for the sims pets game online, to check it out, see how it works, what kind of stuff is on it...for gamecube before i buy it. thanks!

there is nothing where you could try it free but if you google it im sure you would get some websites that have reveiws and says how it works.

like this:
http://www.amazon.com/Electronic-Arts-Sims-2-Pets/dp/B000GOXVYM/ref=pd_bbs_sr_4/104-9938932-4643134?ie=UTF8&s=videogames&qid=1182302230&sr=8-4
it tells what people thoughtof the game at the bottom of the page.

Jess

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My best friend and I are extremely close, we can talk about anything. our friendship is alot deeper than most friends. but anyways, her mom has breast cancer and she just found out. she talks about it to me alot, but most of the time i just say "im sorry" or something vague like that. usually we help out eachother through tough times like tht but this is so major, i have no clue wat to say when i talk to her abotu it. wat things are good to say that will make her feel better but not make her cry. thank u :)

well most of the time people just need someone to talk to they don't really look for a response they just need to get their feelings out. Even though she probably knows just tell her that you'll be there. And that anything she needs you will help, that she can have someone to come talk to. Thats really all you can do.

jess

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16/F.I always feel shy to use public toilet. I feel somebody would heard the noise (Pissing & farting)and this make me embarassed. So I keep holding urine for many hours and give pain to my self. In my home I never use common toilet due to same fear.
Please help.

peeing is a normal thing everyone has to do it. Nobody is gonna start hating you or thinking different of you because they heard you pee. Just do it. Or try and go when nobody else is in there.

Jess

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ok. so i have psoriasis whicj is just severe dry skin. my doctor told me to go tanning so i did. i went in a booth for he first two times and then switched to a bed last night. i was only in there for ten minutes and i got totally burned. i can't even move w/o it hurting. what should i do?

use lotsss of aloe.
then you will just have to wait for it to go away.

Ive only got a sunburn once but hot showers made mine feel batter.

Jess

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I want to do blue or red highlights in my hair, but i want them to look like the start in the the middle, like fadding to getiing darker like this:

http://www.teenidols4you.com/picture.html?g=Actors&pe=ashley_tisdale&foto=554&act=527&mv=366&pic=63953

and this

http://www.teenidols4you.com/picture.html?g=Actors&pe=ashley_tisdale&foto=554&act=527&mv=366&pic=63951

and a video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ucCCpk7-eWU&mode=related&search=

I like the highlights on the side sorta fadding out like that, if anyone knows how to do that, that would be a TON of help, THANKS!

my best advice would be take those picture to a hair salon and have them do it. They wont mess up.

jess

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I have a boyfriend that's 18 who turns 19 in August.And I'm 16 and I turn 17 in October.Would it work out if I was going in Highschool and he went to college in the area.Or do you think he would get tired of me and get someone better who's in college or whatever.Or even I would find someone in highschool.I just want some opinions if you don't mind.

Hmm becuase its only been 2 months idk how it would go .I know my friend who is going to college is going out with someone who's 16 but they have been together almost a year so they are planning on staying together. butt i also know my vousin was going out with someone going to college and when she left they broke up. It kinda depends on him. In college there will be a lot of parties and stuff probably and the distance he just might not wanna be with you anymore. You will just have to wait and see.

Jess

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So I really want to get my tongue pierced but my dad says no absolutely not. How can i change his mind so he'll let me?

ugh I'm going threw the same problem. Changing parents mind is hard. Mine finally told me i can when im 18, but thats like 2 years away. Try telling him you will get the money yourself so he doent have to pay. DONT Use the excuse 'everyone has it though' or something like that, bad idea. Dont beg either. Just calmly talk it out with him.

Jess

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i'm a teenage girl.
So there's someone who I want to hook up with, and he can drive, i can't yet... I just don't know where is a good location to do it.

We might not go all the way, but definately at least to 3rd. (it depends on how it goes and how i feel then)

So please don't say anything like "oh don't do it".

I just need to know where. And it couldn't be in either of our houses b/c my parents would find out.

Well you wanna find a place thats alone, doing it in front of people is trashy. I would have to say a car even if you cant drive. Its the only other private place other then a room. I guess if you went to a empty park or the beach or something.

jess

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ok i have this friend and she's really fun to hangout with but when theres guys involved she ignores me and she did stuff with this guy she doesnt even like i mean is she desperate or something or what cause i dont like her when she's like that and she's been talking to this guy i like and i dont want her to start likeing him because i know she has a better chance then i do cause he's kinda popular and i'm so not she's really pretty and skinny and i'm fat and ugly and me and this guy have talked at school and now it's summer so i was gonna add him but i'm kinda afraid to becuase his freinds are really rude and i dont like any of his friend except one guy whom i had a crush on

First off you need to boost your self esteem. Don't say your ugly and fat. Guys like girls that like themselfs too.

Second. Just go for it. I'm not sure what your talking about by adding him (like myspace? haha) But just keep talking to him and build up a better friendship. who knows what will happen ;)

And for your friend. Deffinatly don't keep it from her. Just tell her you really like this guy and is she is really your best friend then she will let you have him. Plus maybe she can give you some tips for talking to him and stuff, thats what friends are for.

Jess

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OK, so this is gonna be long but i`m so sorry but bare with me PLEASE i need help...


so there is this girl, "g" and we became best friends ever since the begining of the year. we were both new and she was still attatched to her other two BESTBEST friends, "E" and "A", so we hung out allll the time! and we went to the mall, EVERYTHING together. however, toawrds the end of the school year, she began ditching US, me and my other best friend "M" for her OTHER friends. we fought and then made up and THEN, yesterday, there was this banquet thing and she went to her friend "A"'s house and didn`t come to the banquet. But that day, when we were like, so youre ditching us for HER and she was like yeah. and i was like ok then youre saying we shuldn`t be friends AT ALL anymore? and she was like yeah.
and we were all WTF.
but today was the last day of school, and we were ok-ish, not bffs.

in two days, i`m having this little get together and i invited her.

but yeah, i still want to be friends with her but shes not coming back to my school next year and shes going to surf camp with two of her friends this year E & A.

PLEASE HELP;
i still wanna hang with her over summer.
thanks

She probably just doesn't care to be friends with you anymore because she isn't gonna come back to your school, but thats pretty harsh. Just wait, see if you goes to your party cause that will she she somewhat cares. Try to talk to her about what happened. If she doesn't wanna be friends then you might just have to let her go. She probably wasnt that good of a friend anyway if she is willing to just give up on you randomly one day.

Jess

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hey! my name is marissa and i'm 15. i live in michigan. i love to shop, especailly with my BFFs Theresa and Katie. Its so much funn! I love stores like abercombie, hollister, american eagle, forever 21, and hot topic. My mom recently got married. My step-dad, Greg, is such an ass! Before him, my mom would just give me her credit card and I could go to the mall and spend as much as I'd want. Now I have a ton of step-siblings, Timmy, Marie, Amanda, Megan, Michael, Mikayla, Paul, and Danielle. They all live with us. Now, I only get $200 each time i go to the mall! My parents say finances are tighter now that there's more of us! i can't stand it! i wanna just cutt myself!! I dont wanna live anymore! Greg is constantly cheating on my mom and she knows this, and shes ok with it! shes an alcoholic. my dad lives next door. hes married to some guy named Tj, and they have kids: kaity, taylor, michelle, erin, shawn. i have a boyfriend. he means the world to me. i have 2, actually. i lvoe them both the smae. arthur, is 19. hes not in college, so thats not a problem. he works at walgreens, so its not a problem to get condems and stuff. my worry is: is his penis a normal size? my period is irregular. im supposed to get it the first. sometimes, i get it the 31, 2 or sometimes the 30! im so worried. my other boyfriend live in connecticut. help pleaseeeee?!

Ojayy, first off consider yourself lucky getting 200$ a month. Most kids don't get anything and if they do they have to work. So maybe if you want get a job so you can have your own money.

Your mom is a grown up she is gonna make her own decisions. I know that it might be hard for you but she is gonna do what she wants to do. Maybe he will come around and be a good guy.

You have two boyfriends!? isn't that defeating the purpose of saying that you hate your step dad cause he cheats on your mom? your kinda doing the same thing.

There is really no normal size for a penis but im sure its fine. Periods can cause to be irregular because of stress so thats probably your problem.

Jess

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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]

Well i cant talk for myself, but my best friend lost hers at 15. She deffinatly regrets it. A lot of crap happened after she did it and she even lost some friend over it. She tells me all the time that she regrets it and she wishes she could take it back.

Jess

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So, I have Final Exams Tomorrow, Thursday, and Friday. I was wondering if there are any tips for studying or anything like that.
Like, what should I eat in the morning, and what are the best ways to study?
Thanks :]

Flash card work really well.
or if you have notes then keep coying them down and saying it outloud while you rewrite them, then it will get stucj in your head.

And you dont wanna cram really late the night before or hours before cause it will just mess you up. Just be confidant, dont say you cant do it.

jess

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I was having sex and the condom broke. I felt something weird and I pulled back and the condom was broken. I took the morning after pill just a couple hours after having sex. I really dont want to be pregnant or get an STD. I'm suppossed to get my period in about two weeks. I really hope I get it. should I be worried that I am pregnant. I am really scared and I cant tell anyone because I am so embaressed that this happened to me. After taking the morning after pill I felt a little nauseas all day but it was gone by the next day but I still dont feel my self maybe its because im nervous . What should I do. Thanks

Well first off you deffinatly need to talk to your boyfriend about it but don't freak him out. You need to stay calm too because worring stress will actually slow down your period from comming so that will make you more scared. You basically just have to wait and find out.

Jess

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