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Meeting someone Hi i was wondering how to go up to a girl like in the mall.like what to say.and how to find out if their single or not..please help me
thanks =)
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Maybe it's just because I'm older, but if a guy approached me in the mall it'd give me the creeps. Unless you're talking about talking to a girl who works at the mall and then asking for it, you shouldn't just approach random girls and ask for their numbers. The mall is our church. We go there for one thing and one thing only - to worship the act of shopping.
I know this might not be exactly what you want to hear, but it's the truth. I don't want you to get hurt or be let down, so I'm trying to help you avoid any situation where a girl might find your actions bizarre or strange. You might consider striking up a conversation with a girl at a music store or at the food court. As long as it's genuine and doesn't feel forced, you'll be good to go.
You can slowly approach asking for the number if everything is going well and after enough time has passed. It'll be tricky though. If it's too soon or the conversation is too awkward, you'll either be turned down and humiliated or get the green light from some obsessive needy girl who'll be standing outside your window at night watching you play video games.
...Not that I have any experience doing that or anything. ]
be like hey you look really nice,, [ something complimenting themm, girls love love love complements ] then ask if their single and then ask if it would be ok if you had their number ]
yeah i agree with the other advicenator about the polar bear. ha ha!! if someone used that on me, i would definitely get to know them.
I've heard these pick-up lines but i'm not sure if they're good or not. Just popped into my mind.
you say "excuse me... can you tell me where I am?" she responds... then you say "oh, I thought I was in heaven because you look like an angel to me"
another one is-
go up to her and say "have I seen you before?" she responds "no" and you say "i think I have, next to the word KA-BLAM in the dictionary."
lol sorry if they're bad.
-volleyball2150 ]
haha i say go with what the person below me said.
im a girl and if i guy came up to me and said that i would deffinatly get to know him. It is corny but funny, and most girls like a sense of humor and someone who is confident enough to go up and talk to them.
Jess<3 ]
Go up to a girl you think is cute & say "Hey, how much does a polar bear weigh?" When she says "I don't know." You respond with "Enough to break the ice. Hi, I'm [your name here]!"
Then keep talking. It's corny, but it's cute & it'll probably get a laugh out of her. If you keep talking, you just might get her number & then you can call her & talk to her then. ]
USE A NON-SEXUAL PICKUP LINE =)
One that compliments the girl in a cute way^_^
Who cares if its corny, its something that gives you a purpose to go up to teh girl and break the ice. I personally, woulda dated any guy who used a pickup line on me =) Not anymore due to the fact I have a boyfriend but yeahh.
DO IT DO IT!
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