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i think my friends a slut
ok i have this friend and she's really fun to hangout with but when theres guys involved she ignores me and she did stuff with this guy she doesnt even like i mean is she desperate or something or what cause i dont like her when she's like that and she's been talking to this guy i like and i dont want her to start likeing him because i know she has a better chance then i do cause he's kinda popular and i'm so not she's really pretty and skinny and i'm fat and ugly and me and this guy have talked at school and now it's summer so i was gonna add him but i'm kinda afraid to becuase his freinds are really rude and i dont like any of his friend except one guy whom i had a crush on
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First off you need to boost your self esteem. Don't say your ugly and fat. Guys like girls that like themselfs too.
Second. Just go for it. I'm not sure what your talking about by adding him (like myspace? haha) But just keep talking to him and build up a better friendship. who knows what will happen ;)
And for your friend. Deffinatly don't keep it from her. Just tell her you really like this guy and is she is really your best friend then she will let you have him. Plus maybe she can give you some tips for talking to him and stuff, thats what friends are for.
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ya your friend is not a slut shes kinda skanky but you should tottaly go for the guy and if thing dont work out at first dont get upset just find sum things about your friend and tell the guy and build up a friendship with him then if he still is not in to you move on and let your skanky friend have him cause he only talks to her cause he thinks shes easy so if you do want her to back off of him tell her parents/gardiens what shes doing im sure the might care and if they dont then theres somthing wrong cause i made stupid mistakes like hers once and all my friends stoped talking to me since we were in 5 grade then when we graduated middle school they finally started talking to me just cause they were kinda jealouse actually there sitting wirte here with me and i dont want your friend to make the same mistake as i did.
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Your life needs a makeover. There's 3 parts to your problem: your friend, the guy, and you. So I'm gonna break this into 3 parts to make it easier for you.
Your friend:
You need a new friend. Don't keep a friend who you think is a slut. If you really think that, then you're not her friend anyway. Friends respect each other and you don't respect her (she probably doesn't respect you either). You seem to be envious of her and think she's better than you. That's not good. You need a good friend who lifts you up and makes you feel good about life. That's what friends are for.
The guy:
Nice guys don't have rude guys for friends. If his friends are rude, then he's rude and you just don't know about it yet. This guy doesn't seem like the right guy for you either. Maybe he's popular, good looking, cool, etc. but there's more to life than that. Wouldn't you rather have a nice guy who kept good people for friends - people that treat others with respect, regardless of how they look? Don't sell yourself so short. Just because you're in high school doesn't mean you have to act like it.
You:
You need an attitude adjustment. You call yourself ugly and fat, which are horrible names. I'm sure you really think you are those things too (which makes it even sadder), but you need to change the way you view yourself. If you think so little of yourself, how can you expect anyone else to treat you differently? You need to learn to love yourself and develop some healthy self esteem. Start focusing on the positive things and learn to associate yourself with those qualities.
If there are some things you dislike about yourself, work on a constructive plan to change those things. Take action. Don't just sit back and feel sorry for yourself. Life does not guarantee you a group of friends and/or a prince charming, so you have to learn to love yourself enough to not have to depend on others. It's a lot of work, but it's worth it and YOU'RE worth it. If I were you, I'd work on ridding my life of the people who bring me down and replace them with people who lift me up.
The only way you can do that is to know how to lift yourself up first. So stop worrying about your friend and this guy and focus on yourself. It's time you made some changes - make some positive changes.
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