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quick questionnn
hey! my name is marissa and i'm 15. i live in michigan. i love to shop, especailly with my BFFs Theresa and Katie. Its so much funn! I love stores like abercombie, hollister, american eagle, forever 21, and hot topic. My mom recently got married. My step-dad, Greg, is such an ass! Before him, my mom would just give me her credit card and I could go to the mall and spend as much as I'd want. Now I have a ton of step-siblings, Timmy, Marie, Amanda, Megan, Michael, Mikayla, Paul, and Danielle. They all live with us. Now, I only get $200 each time i go to the mall! My parents say finances are tighter now that there's more of us! i can't stand it! i wanna just cutt myself!! I dont wanna live anymore! Greg is constantly cheating on my mom and she knows this, and shes ok with it! shes an alcoholic. my dad lives next door. hes married to some guy named Tj, and they have kids: kaity, taylor, michelle, erin, shawn. i have a boyfriend. he means the world to me. i have 2, actually. i lvoe them both the smae. arthur, is 19. hes not in college, so thats not a problem. he works at walgreens, so its not a problem to get condems and stuff. my worry is: is his penis a normal size? my period is irregular. im supposed to get it the first. sometimes, i get it the 31, 2 or sometimes the 30! im so worried. my other boyfriend live in connecticut. help pleaseeeee?!
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Ojayy, first off consider yourself lucky getting 200$ a month. Most kids don't get anything and if they do they have to work. So maybe if you want get a job so you can have your own money.
Your mom is a grown up she is gonna make her own decisions. I know that it might be hard for you but she is gonna do what she wants to do. Maybe he will come around and be a good guy.
You have two boyfriends!? isn't that defeating the purpose of saying that you hate your step dad cause he cheats on your mom? your kinda doing the same thing.
There is really no normal size for a penis but im sure its fine. Periods can cause to be irregular because of stress so thats probably your problem.
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first off, dont cut yourself because you only get $200, most teens your age have to make their own money, and even then can only spend like $10, feel lucky.
let your mom do what she wants, she's teh parent and therefore probably wont take anything you say seriously. most parents dont.
why do you have two boyfrieds? if your complaining that this greg guy is cheating on your mom, your being incredibly hypocritical. YOUR cheating on both your boyfriends too!
and your too young to have sex. sorry to say, your 15..hes 19!
thats illegal!
he can get arrested for sexual abuse on a minor, even if you chose not to press charges the police can still arrest him. then hed have to register as a sex offender everytime he moved and he would have a limited selection of jobs he could get, because pf his past. if you love him you wouldnt put him through that.
and whats the point of dating a guy in conecticut if you live in michigan? long distance relationships dont work out too well for most people.
i personally think your incredibly spoiled. the fact that you complain about only getting $200 is really really disgusting.
but thats my opinoin. idc if you rate me badly. its time to face reality.
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Child, are you on speed?
Just take a deep breath.
First you should probably stop whining over only getting 200.00 to go to the mall. Most people your age don't even get 10 or 20.00 when they go to the mall.
Secondly, whatever goes on within your mother's marriage is her business. You do not need to stress out over her issues.
Does your mom happen to know about your boyfriend(s)? Well, you should probably slow down with arthur. You're too young for sexual relations and arthur's going to wind up in jail on statutory rape charges.
Your period is irregular because you're young and sexually active. If you don't have your period two weeks after it was supposed to come, take a pregnancy test.
You should probably tell your mom or your father you need to start seeing a counselor on a regular basis. Advice from random people over the internet is not going to suffice.
Word of advice: Focus on your studies now and worry about boys later. Down the road you will have regretted becoming sexually active too soon. Furthermore, focus on things you need to worry about and not so much what your mom should be concerned about. If you're always worrying for everyone around you, life will pass you by.
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OH MY GOODNESS
your life is crazy by far
well um for the money thing---get a job? work at those super fun places you like to shop at!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![employee discounts!]
for the stepdad thing --- maybe your mom feels appreciated by him so she doesnt wanna leave him? but tell someone about her alcohol abuse...its not good.
for the my dad and his...husband live next door well maybe hell give you shopping money?? i dont get how your mom wwould marry a gay guy?
now for the penis size thing well...your on your own im not going to go and measure this guys weener.
for the period thing..well are you a virgin? im doubting you are but i have no idea...maybe your stress is cause your period to go wacko?
also i just wanna say if your stepdad is cheating on your mom and you have two boyfriends...whats the difference....
riddelin, child, riddelin
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Ok...? No offence, but you make me think of one of those kids that talks 90 miles a minute without pausing for breath, here.
So, wait a minute here. You want to cut yourself and die because you get $200 to go to the mall every time you go?!? Good, lord, child! When I went to the mall, I was lucky to get $20, let alone $200. Come on, cutting yourself? Not wanting to live anymore? That's going WAY overboard, and you need to open your eyes to that. So on that- wake up and realize how good you have it there on the gravy train, ok?
If your mom is fine with her husband cheating on her, then that is her business and not yours. So on that- don't fret over it.
You worry if your boyfriend's penis size is normal? I don't know. I don't have sex with him. So on that- if his size is fine with you, then what matters if he meets or beats the national average?
I have no clue if you are saying your period is late, or not yet due... So on that- if you become at least 2 weeks late, take a test. You should be ok if you used condoms every time, but there is no fail-safe, so anything is possible.
As for irregular periods, it would help if you stopped stressing over things you shouldn't even be worrying about, or can't change. High stress can cause your periods to be late and/or irregular.
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