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Ugh i thought i was over him!
i liked this guy for a long time until i found out he called me and a friend annoying then i stopped liking him. i found out that he has a girlfriend and i can't stop thinking about him and i miss him and sometimes i hate him sometimes i adore him. am i really over him? what is causing these changes of feelings for him? how can i get over him and get him out of my head?
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i understand how you feel completely. you see, i don't think you ever stopped liking this boy. you were just hurt that he called you and your friend annoying and therefore, you wanted to stop liking him because of it. i've done that many times..haha. it sucks when someone you have feelings for, expresses to you that they don't feel the same way. especially if its not directly to you. but now that he's out of reach for you, taken that is, your feelings have come up again because now you don't even have an option to be with him anymore. and its' painful.. i know. and i know its frusterating to have the flipflopping feelings. one minute you hate his guts, and then the next minute if you see him or anything, bam! you just think he's rhe cutest thing again and you can't get him out of you head. but the only thing you can really do to get him out of your head is to try to move on. that won't be easy, but if he's taken already, then you certainly dont' just wanna sit around and be miserable! plus, if you start showing interest in other guys, then hey, maybe it'll make him realize that you doing that actually makes him feel jealous and that he possibly does have feelings for you.. and if not, then trust me, it'll still make you feel a whole lot better about yerself and your situation. take it from a girl whose been there more times then she can count, its not worth the pain to wait for a guy who thinks yer not worth the time. move on as much as you can, just try it. maybe even just flirt around if you can, just try anything to get your mind off that other guy and just see where that takes you. i'm here if you need more advice anytime! :)
-joelle
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