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-Joelle
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ok i have this guy friend who broke up with my his girlfriend, she broke up with him in myspace message and he loves her LIKE REALLY REALLY WHOLE LOT and and i really feel sorry for him and i dont know what to say to him does anyone know how to cheer my guy friend who is like my brother? they went out for like 6 months and he sacrificed a lot for her and i feel really bad and does anyone know what to say? not like youll find someone else or something thanky you (link)
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All you can really do is offer him comfort and a lsitening ear to whatever his aching heart wants to say. I mean yea you can always say the "you'll find someone better" "it was her loss anyway" and things like that, which help too, a little. but sometimes people just need someone to talk to. a shoulder to cry on. someone to grieve with them. grieving is a necessary step in getting over hardships, and even though its not very fun, it helps a lot in the end. So just make sure he knows that you're there for him if he ever needs to talk, or anything. And make sure he knows that u won't laugh at him if he's sensitive right now or even if he cries. Guys have a hard time admiting when there's something wrong with them or they're hurting. So just let him know that you're there, and everything that he's going through is normal for him to feel and it will pass soon.
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so i really like this guy, lets call him A, well i like A and i have liked him for the past 2 years. last year we became really good friends, i guess you could say. he was a sweetheart and he always listened and we joked around and he would always say hi in the halls and stuff. well this year, freshman year of high school, we had no classes together and the summer kinda made us slip away i guess. he was still nice i guess but recently i heard that he was really out of control with drugs and he is kind of a man whore. well basically i still do like him but i dont know what to do, especially i wanna help him because i really dont want him to OD and die. so i'd really appreciate your help.
thanks! btw im 15/f (link)
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Ok sorry I couldn't find any other way to answer you again, but i have my old answer saved incase u want it or anything. So you don't ever see him around anywhere? Hmm well if u don't have him in any classes, try to talk to him other eays. Myspace maybe? If u have one. OR instant messanger.. just anyway to keep in contact.
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i liked this guy for a long time until i found out he called me and a friend annoying then i stopped liking him. i found out that he has a girlfriend and i can't stop thinking about him and i miss him and sometimes i hate him sometimes i adore him. am i really over him? what is causing these changes of feelings for him? how can i get over him and get him out of my head? (link)
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i understand how you feel completely. you see, i don't think you ever stopped liking this boy. you were just hurt that he called you and your friend annoying and therefore, you wanted to stop liking him because of it. i've done that many times..haha. it sucks when someone you have feelings for, expresses to you that they don't feel the same way. especially if its not directly to you. but now that he's out of reach for you, taken that is, your feelings have come up again because now you don't even have an option to be with him anymore. and its' painful.. i know. and i know its frusterating to have the flipflopping feelings. one minute you hate his guts, and then the next minute if you see him or anything, bam! you just think he's rhe cutest thing again and you can\'t get him out of you head. but the only thing you can really do to get him out of your head is to try to move on. that won't be easy, but if he's taken already, then you certainly dont' just wanna sit around and be miserable! plus, if you start showing interest in other guys, then hey, maybe it'll make him realize that you doing that actually makes him feel jealous and that he possibly does have feelings for you.. and if not, then trust me, it'll still make you feel a whole lot better about yerself and your situation. take it from a girl whose been there more times then she can count, its not worth the pain to wait for a guy who thinks yer not worth the time. move on as much as you can, just try it. maybe even just flirt around if you can, just try anything to get your mind off that other guy and just see where that takes you. i\'m here if you need more advice anytime! :)
-joelle
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