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I was thinking earlier in the day about this game I used to play when I was in second grade. There were 4 people at 4 different corners with one in the middle, and the people on the corners would try to switch 3 times to get the one in the middle out and not let them steal a corner.


What was this game called? Thanks.

its called 4 corners, i used to play it all the time!!

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ok i just now started going out with this guy,kevin yesterday but we do not connect you kno its like we are shy all the time or somthing we barley talk i need some help 2 get lose around him soo we can act like boy friend and girlfriend i need sum help on how a girlfriend is suppose 2 act this is only my second boyfriend but i want 2 get it right this time because i really like him i dont want us 2 break up because of lack of communication and intrest

plez help me

You should bring up a conversation with him, sit next to him at lunch, share your food with him, call him or have him call you, anything u can do to make it less alkward to talk to him.

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I am from India. Does that bother you?

Oh, and is bad to play the married game with your pet cat?

No it does not bother me that you are from india. I dont think its bad just unusual, you can still play the married gam with your cat if you really want to.

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Please answer only if you have experince in ballet or know someone who does...
I am a female, age 14, and I weigh 140lbs (about). Do you think I am too fat to do pointe work? Am I too fat to have a partner? What can I do to ensure that I will be able to start pointe in the fall? (I have to please my teacher and it is totally her choice wether or not I can take pointe) Do you think I need to loose weight for this? Thank you so much

Ur not gonna like this...but loose a little weight. Then you'll be just perfect. Work out everyday to get to like 110-115 pounds. Then you'll feel more confortable doing pointe work. Hope i helpeddd

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how do I stop sunburn that itches?

Aloe Vera every day. Get a back scratcher and itch it until it hurts then put aloe on. It helps. It happened to me. hope it heals soon

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I've caught my dad in porn and sex chat rooms so many times. Everytime he talks to me its not the same anymore, we used to be sooo close and now i cant even look him straight in the eye anymore. Hes always out of the house, and my mom works at nightt. I went to his work one day he wasnt there, and then a lot of people called the house asking for him. When he got home I asked him where he was at, he said golfing in the morning with the hugest smerk ever it disgusted me and i wanted to just cry. Then i was like what about later he said he was at work. But those people that called me at like 5pm said he wasnt there. Then he always locks his computer, and one day i caught him using a web cam, then i found lub. and a vibrator. He gets home so late on the nights my mom works. What i want to know is what should i do, cause for all i know he's just a guy looking at porn.

Talk to your dad about it first. Ask him questions such as:

Why are you looking at porn sites?
When did you start looking at porn sites?
Who do you talk to on porn sites?
Where are you on the nights that Mom works?
What are you doing on the porn sites?

He should be able to tell you the truth...if he cant well then give him a little time to think about it. Talk to your mom about it also. You'll feel better.

I guarantee you!

hope i helped :D

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can u give me a speatch on how i wana tell my mate shreya i dnt wana be her friend any more

Tell her,
Shrya, not that your a cool person in all but I just don't really want to be your friend anymore. You are very cool and I hope you undertsand this. just really don't feel comfortable being your friend. I know we have had good times together but its just that....I have better friends...sorry Shreya.

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Alright guys, i'm in track, 8th grade female. I think i have shin splints and i think i like tore something in my ankle.

First off my shins are bruised and they bruise when i run, and they hurt! like when i shave, i go up & down with soap on my shin, but it hurts to bad to do it anymore.

Second I twisted my ankle a month or more ago. When i hold my foot and let at a 90 degree angle, and stretch my foot out to an obtuse angle, it HURTS SO BAD! today during track, well, i almost died.

Should i go to a doctor?
any advice?

Yes, you should definetly see a doctor, then he/she can tell ya whats wrong and if they can give you any antibiotics or something. How do u stretch? Cuz i used to do gymnastics and whenever i stretched wrong i would always get aches.

But yes definely see a doctor as soon as possible, this could be very dangerous!!

Hope I helped! :-D

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So I have this extremely annoying friend. She always gets into other people's business and just creates more problems. She thinks she is cool and awesome but she's not. She is annoying and pushy. Whenever we whisper something into each others ears she goes insane and asks a hundred times "were you talking about me?" She never shuts up. I really want to ditch her but I feel bad. Like I was extremely close to her in fourth grade but nows she just a nusicance. How can I nicely tell her to leave me and my other friends alone for a while?

P.S- to explain the title she always wears a sweater with a print the lumberjacks wear so my friends call her "Lumberjack Audrey" and "Lumberjack Girl."

I have a friend like that. Well if she ever invited you over tell her your busy, you can ignore her and be polite at the same time. Just ignore her. She'll get th epoint and think that you guys want to leave her alone.

PS- I didn't get the lumberjack thingie so i cant help ya with that one.

Hope my advice helped.

oxoxo
XSmartieX

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Ok so im 17/f and my mums friend left a message on my phone and i must have told my mum that her friend phoned my fone and then deleted the message and forgot all about it!!Thing is i said to my mums friend ohh no i never got a message because i was ill and i forgot that i gave the message to my mum so i started getting upset about it and crying because i was ill and with her keep shouting accusing me of lieing when i was not it really got to me how shes so loud and in ur face. I got my mum to tell her that i gave the message the thing is she really gets on my nerves shes so demanding and sometimes i feel like shes pulling me away from my mum, What shall i do now i was in the wrong because i got annoyed on the phone to my mums friend and i was like I never got your message for gods sake bla bla can someone please advice me on what i should do??? thank u.

I think you should just talk CALMY to your mom's friend and your mom. Hopefully you can work it out. It was a confusing question so Im trying my best.

Good Luck!

xoxo
XSmartieX

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Could you play ponda replay for me pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeease?!?


Where? On my advice column? You cant if thats what ur talking about.

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hi, im almost 16 and ive never been kissed and never had a boyfriend...is this as bad as it seems?...and not jus girls points of veiw plz. ive had chances but never made anything of them...am i that big of a loser, i think that im attractive and im smart and a good person so whats wrong?will rate high!!!!all 5's

OMG! You dont have to have a boyfriend to complete your life. No its not bad and you shouldn't feel like a loser. Your time will come. DOnt just say yes to a boy if you just wanna have a boyfriend. Thats wrong. Just do what ur heart says when a boy asks you out. Ur time will come. Dont worry!

Rate please

I hope this helped!

~XSmartieX

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what do you do when something is annoying the heck out of you, when you can't get something out of your mind, when you keep going back and thinking about the same thing all the time without realizing it til it's too late. Why can't I just stop? I don't want to think about this.

I feel there's something wrong with me.

Its called depression or anxiety. I have a trick. Wel do something fun sich as watch a funny move or talk to ur parents about it. They'll tell you some other good ways. You can email me or IM me anytime. Come visit me on my advice column.

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Emily

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I have a problem with bad breath. I've suffered from it since I've been a child. It's so embarrasing. When I'm at work I ALWAYS have to chew on minty flavored gum because I don't want to scare away customers.
What happens when I run out of gum? I have to make a speach tonight at my toastmasters club. Does anyone have any home rememedies of how to cure bad breath? And please don't tell me to brush my teeth and tongue and floss, because that nevr works.

ell usually bad breath accures from little thingon ur tounge. ( srry if im grossing you out..lol) Anyways, get a togne scraper and scrape until there is clear snotty liquid on the scraper.

Hope this helped

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XSmartieX

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Okay I don't know if this is sex or something but like i've been getting this white snotty stuff in my underwear. I don't know what it is or what it's from. I'm 13/f to if that will help.

Its discharge. You get it when ur about to get ur period.

snotty? very nice word to dexcribe...lol

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XSmartieX

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im having a party and i have 6 people i definetly want to invite, but i am only allowed 5, what should i do? also, none of the 6 know each other...HELP! SOON! PLEASE!

Well if they dont know eachother then still invite them...dont let them ruin ur party just because they dont get along or dont know eachother. Well my friend had a party and she didn't want to invite her other friend because she wouldn't get along with anybody so she made that person a deal....the deal was that she would save a special weekend for Just them to hang out. I hope this advice helped

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Emily

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ok so I really like this boy at my school..
ok everyone does but he flirts with every girl I know! and ok one day he was looking cute and you know I kinda sorta..smiled at him! he smiled back! I was so amazed then at the end of the day we had sex in the back of the aditrorium. I know But he was just to hott. then my dad started to ask me quetions and I'm not a good lier. I think he is finding out about me and what happened!
what should I do!!!!

Tell him the truth. U'll get caight and get urself into more trouble if u dont tell him.

PS. Rate Please because i was the only one who tried to answer this ?

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okae guys .. i get these little pimples over just out of no where .. its not bad or anything but i was just wondering if there was some HOMEMADE stuff that i could use .. i don't want something fancy just something that will help my pimples go away .. thankss!!!

Well this is kinda a longer way but it works...Ok take a shower TWICE a day (morning and night) And wash all over ur face for about 7-10 minutes. Then in about 1-2 days the pimple should be gone.

Rate please because i was the only one who tried to answer this question.

Email me or AIM me if ya have any more probs.

XSmartieX

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What are some ways that i can earn some cash?? (NO not babysitting, i am SO bad at that!! i ahve nevr been around kids so they are like aliens to me)

Chores!

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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

I so agree with you. People should be serious because someone might believe them and get into trouble so i agree with you. I try to give god dvice and actually this person who asked a question needed more advice so he AIMed me and told me. You can visit my advice column and look for name under this question its XSmartieX. You can AIM me anytime or email me. All the info is on the advice column.

Hope this helped
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