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The problem with lumberjacks.
So I have this extremely annoying friend. She always gets into other people's business and just creates more problems. She thinks she is cool and awesome but she's not. She is annoying and pushy. Whenever we whisper something into each others ears she goes insane and asks a hundred times "were you talking about me?" She never shuts up. I really want to ditch her but I feel bad. Like I was extremely close to her in fourth grade but nows she just a nusicance. How can I nicely tell her to leave me and my other friends alone for a while?
P.S- to explain the title she always wears a sweater with a print the lumberjacks wear so my friends call her "Lumberjack Audrey" and "Lumberjack Girl."
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You can't just tell a kid that you're going to ditch her, so be subtle. I, too, am trying to get a breather from this one friend of mine because he is also being a little bitch. You have to remember that she is a friend and that you can't be mean. Just don't call her or invite her to hang out with you for awhile. Don't initiate anything. When she calls, just push the "IGNORE" button on your phone. See, you know you may want to still be friends with her again eventually, so don't burn bridges. For now, just don't treat her like you guys are bff or she will be more inclined to follow you. Just minimize the amount of time you are stuck around her and this will minimize the degree to which she pisses you off.
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Sounds like your friend had self esteem issues.
Just tell her straight what she does that bothers you. Be polite, but be frank. See how she reacts. She may ease up. If not, then just nicely tell her no. But don't ignore her, or try to dodge her. It seems rude and sneaky. Honesty is the best way to go.
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well i think if she is REALLY REALLY bothering you that you should tell her that you're getting annoyd with her(softly and in a calm way if you can). After that, i'm not entirerly sure this is a hard question, but say that she should try and make new friends OR you could secretly hook her up with one of your friends that are like her. try...sorry tell me if i helped!
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I have a friend like that. Well if she ever invited you over tell her your busy, you can ignore her and be polite at the same time. Just ignore her. She'll get th epoint and think that you guys want to leave her alone.
PS- I didn't get the lumberjack thingie so i cant help ya with that one.
Hope my advice helped.
oxoxo
XSmartieX
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