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Personal Sex Question
Ok this is kind of a personal question but here it goes:
My current boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half now. And everytime we sleep together, I can never get an orgasm! At first i thought it could be because he wasnt good in bed but his past gf's has both said that he is amazing in bed! And i enjoy everytime we have sex. Im 17 and I havent ever been able to get an orgasm from sex. Is something wrong with me??
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First of all, just because the other girls say he is good in bed doesn't mean that he would be to you. Everyone has their personal preferences, and what works for one person might not for another. That's not to say that he's necessarily bad in bed, but just keep it in mind for the future.
It is extremely common for women not to orgasm during sex. This is because most sexual pleasure comes from the clitoris rather than the vaginal walls, but the clitoris is not stimulated near as much during sex. Most girls find they can orgasm much easier from fingering or oral sex.
There are also mental factors. Some people are just not in the right mindset or relaxed enough...they might simply think too much about it. It helps me to be on top and to be fantasizing. Most girls have an easier time cumming while on top. Some women go until late adulthood without ever having an orgasm, alone or otherwise. You'll get the hang of it, though, as you experience new people and new things. Masturbation is good for this though because then you know what you like and in turn can communicate that to your partner. As you get more and more experienced, you'll find what works for you. Good luck!
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You're fine. Many women have problems orgasming. You may try doing something more exciting, or perhaps fantasizing while having sex, or masturbating. It will take some effort, but there is nothing wrong with you.
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This actually is very normal sweetie.. Its very hard for a female to reach the climax of an orgasm..I suggest other positions..Maybe you being on top?? because you can be in control && do what makes you feel good..Also he`ll most likely last longer..
Also while him doing what he does maybe rub your clitoris i know weird to say but that gives a female an orgasm usually faster..Also oral sex will help you reach the climax of an orgasm..
Don`t feel ashamed or anything..
Hope i helped..♥Dez
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No, nothing is wrong with you. I use to be the same way. I mean it's like you enjoy it but he finishes before you or you just never make it. You can either tell him and see if you can find something that pleasures the both of you. Or maybe even consult a doctor because it might be something medical. Good Luck!
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