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Its all about LOVE..........right???
ok i just now started going out with this guy,kevin yesterday but we do not connect you kno its like we are shy all the time or somthing we barley talk i need some help 2 get lose around him soo we can act like boy friend and girlfriend i need sum help on how a girlfriend is suppose 2 act this is only my second boyfriend but i want 2 get it right this time because i really like him i dont want us 2 break up because of lack of communication and intrest
plez help me
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okay i've been through this sweetiee you need to make a move i know your probably shy try getting close to him ask him questions abt himself try to find hings in common and say i'm your girl friend and i want time with my boy friend. Hope that helps =)
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Hey there,
I went thru kinda the same thing with my gf in Residence, it was my first gf, not her first relationship, but i kno what ur goin thru. Just give it time. I think i was almost dumped in the first week or so cuz i was too shy to even kiss her, and i was 18 for gods sake(obviously a virgin) But she stuck it out and itll be a full year together next month, much of it long distance. So it can be done, just let your comfort zone grow each day and itll be great.
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You should bring up a conversation with him, sit next to him at lunch, share your food with him, call him or have him call you, anything u can do to make it less alkward to talk to him.
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It's a brand new relationship, of course it's going to start out a little awkard maybe and shy. It might be like for a couple days or so, depends on how quick you get started on talking. Just think of him as a friend and what you guys would talk about whenver you talk to him. Just because he's your boyfriend, it's not like there's some different special way you have to talk to them. So just start a random conversation about anything that happened to you today or you saw or you learned, and ask him about him. Then maybe just start hugging him and holding hands with him and sooner or later it'll all be less shy and more common. :] Also just give him compliments, make him feel special, sit close to him, just show him you like him and just flirt and everything! I hope I helped.
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Well, since you two just started going out, it's going to be a little hard at first, all relationships are like that. You start out shy and after about a week, you start talking more. Just try talking to him and being yourself. Maybe try calling him or have him call you. As for acting like a girlfriend, just act like yourself. Laugh at his jokes, tell him you love him, maybe put your head on his shoulder. Trust me darling, it will start feeling a lot less awkward after a little while. It just takes some getting used to. I hope I helped!
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