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How do i get over him..
How do you get over someone that you lost your virginity to but you have to live with and theres no way around it? (((WE ARENT RELATED OR ANY NASTY INCEST SHIT LIKE THAT))) Basically i fell inlove with this guy we have had sex but hes a man whore and he doesnt love me he was just using me. So like how do i get over him?
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Gettting over someone is always hard and ecspecially with someone who you lost something so special to. It sucks when you cant get over somone but you have to try and everyday youll think about him less. If he was using you hes not worth your time and someone who doesnt care about you isnt worth you caring about =]
at the end of the day hes just a guy and just keep being yourself and youll get over it in time
hope it all goes ok
kim
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just get on wth your life, i no its hard but it'll get easier trust me,then u can fine a guy who does love u and isnt gonna use u
shandz xx
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I know it hurts when a man uses you and there is no quick fix to get over that.
The best thing you can do is to just get on with your life dont let this man ruin it for you.
You have lost your virginity and there is nothing you can do to to get that back but learn from this not to make the same mistake again.
Save yourself for someone who you really care about and who feels the same way back, at least that way you know that they will not be using you for sex.
Many young women go through the exact same thing and wind up regretting it, i know i did! but since then i have learned to be true to myself, get on with life and not dwell and most importantly never to let a man get what he wants. xxx
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Just think about it this way, he used you, he never loved you nor liked you he just wanted to get laid. therefore it should be easy to get over him.
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I'm sorry, but love doesn't only work when you want it to. If you fell in love with him and didn't live with him, I would say avoid him, but since you do, it's a different situation. I'm sure you feel hurt, but the best thing to do is to remind yourself that you're better off without him. If he's a manwhore, it's better to get yourself detached from him while you can and aren't put in a relationship with a guy you know will cheat. Hang out with your friends, take some time for yourself, and remember: You don't need him, he's missed out. =) I'm sorry about your situation and I hope I helped.
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Well, i know how you feel because i was in a situation like this. What you should do is GET RID OF ALL CONTACT THAT YOU HAVE WITH HIM. You cant talk to him, because you will just fall for it all over again. Try not to think of him. Do things to keep your mind off of him. Anything, just try to have fun. Hang out with friends more, family ANYTHING you can do to not think of this guy. Now, its gunna be VERY hard..im not gunna lie. Just keep telling yourself you will be better off in the end. Your getting somewhere because your asking for help, so thats a good thing. Just try really hard not to think about him. If you want anymore advice just send it to me in my inbox && i will try my best =]
Good luck
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Wow..that really sucks. i'm really sorry..you know i think the easiest way to get over a dumbass is to basically meet new guys and start hanging out with your friends more. I know exactly what your thinking like..theres no one else you know..but i think i speak for all the ladies that guys can be dumb fucks and there's just no way around it..If you meet new guys and start hanging out with your friends more you'll think less about him i promise..I hope i helped
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