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i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months and i recently gave him a handjob...ever since i did that it seems i'm getting different feelings for him...idk why..is this normal? does it mean anything? what should i do about it? please help im so confused...i like(d) ? him soo much...

16/f

oh and we've never had sex or went any farther. (link)
Don't worry about it. When girls get sexual with guys, a hormone is released that makes them feel as though they are more attached than they really are. It's completely normal.

Just take it slow, think things out and don't let your hormones overtake your good sense.

=) hope my biological explanation helped.


How do you get over someone that you lost your virginity to but you have to live with and theres no way around it? (((WE ARENT RELATED OR ANY NASTY INCEST SHIT LIKE THAT))) Basically i fell inlove with this guy we have had sex but hes a man whore and he doesnt love me he was just using me. So like how do i get over him? (link)
I'm sorry, but love doesn't only work when you want it to. If you fell in love with him and didn't live with him, I would say avoid him, but since you do, it's a different situation. I'm sure you feel hurt, but the best thing to do is to remind yourself that you're better off without him. If he's a manwhore, it's better to get yourself detached from him while you can and aren't put in a relationship with a guy you know will cheat. Hang out with your friends, take some time for yourself, and remember: You don't need him, he's missed out. =) I'm sorry about your situation and I hope I helped.


I have a question. i normally dont ask for advice. but i want to know someones oppinion. are you a slut if you had sex with 2 boys in the same night? (link)
It depends on the circumstances. If they were two random guys, yes. If there was some excuse as to why someone would have sex with 2 different men within the same night, I suppose that depending on what happened could change the opinion. Also, remember, even if it is considered slutty, someone could do a slutty thing, but necessarily be a slut, mistakes happen, we're human. I hope that made sense? Good luck.


okay well you see, me and my boyfriend have been on and off for about a year and a half now. but the thing is, yes we go to the same school even though we're in different grades but we get 10 minute break and lunch together, plus he has to walk by my locker to get to some of his classes. and he hasn't talked to me in about a week and a half now. he just walks right by me and pretends he doesn't see me. then when our two grades have an assembly or something, and we have to sit on different sides of the room, he'll be looking at me throughout the whole thing with sad face on. after about a week of not talking, i finally got fed up and called him ( which suprised me, and prolly him, too becuase he knows how nervous i get to be the first to call or something) so. i told him that I IIIIIIIIIIII was sorry for not talking to him lately, when really it was both of us and he said it was fine and not to worry about it. and he said he loved me when we were about to hang up so i dont know. this has never happpened before so i dont know what to do. i get really nervous if i try to go up and talk to him. he wasn't in school today so idk. i wanna talk to him , but i want HIM to come to ME ( or my locker... when i'm there, or lunch or SOMETHING...ANYTHING) and just talk to me.oh, and this weekend, (friday satruday and sunday) theres a fair coming up so hopefully he's going and then like in like three weeks theres a halloween dance at our school and i really hope we're talking by then :( please, give me some advice on what i should do. you can also IM me on my screen name for myspace, xanga, and advicenators. it is....



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thanksss (link)
Hey. Well, first of all, I think you need to ask him if there's something going on in your relationship that you don't know about. He could be having thoughts of breaking up and trying to ease away from you so its not harder on him. OR since he said I love you, he could have really meant it and be scared. A lot of guys have issues with coming to terms with this feeling, he could be sorting this out for himself. I think that you should, not necessarily call him if you feel uncomfortable, but just grab him in the hall if you see him and ask him to hang out one on one so you can discuss what's been going on. If not, when you get time, just let him know you've been worried about everything and miss talking with him. After all, if you guys have been together this long, you have to have some kind of inkling to what the other is thinking. Good luck, I hope I helped. Also, I imed you so if you need anymore help, feel free to im me back.


I'm having some irritation in my vag and anus, like they are both REALLY itchy all of the time and sometimes after I wipe (when going to the bathroom) there is a little bit of blood. I don't think it's a yeast infection because I'm not seeing any yeast. If it helps I'm 13, have my period, and not sexually active. Thanks!
-Lexi (link)
I know you said that you're not sexually active and even though pubic lice is considered an STD, it is possible that you can pick it from from other people's clothing if you borrow them, towels, bedding, toilets, etc. I would recommend mentioning this to a parent or a doctor and see what they think about it. After all, it's better to go through the embarassment and feel better afterwards than to suffer through the itching! And good luck.




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