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having second thoughts about my guy.... i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months and i recently gave him a handjob...ever since i did that it seems i'm getting different feelings for him...idk why..is this normal? does it mean anything? what should i do about it? please help im so confused...i like(d) ? him soo much...
16/f
oh and we've never had sex or went any farther.
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Don't worry about it. When girls get sexual with guys, a hormone is released that makes them feel as though they are more attached than they really are. It's completely normal.
Just take it slow, think things out and don't let your hormones overtake your good sense.
=) hope my biological explanation helped. ]
Guys are sometimes weird after they have had sex with a girl. I'll bet his problem lies in the fact that he wants you to do more, but is uncomfortable saying anything.
He might also feel that since you didn't go farther, that you are not attracted to him.
The best advice I can give you though, is to be open with him and tell him how you feel he's been acting. I'll bet that if you do that , he will open up to you.
My advice is also to not let him push you into going further until you are ready.
Good Luck. ]
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