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on the verge of being pathetic
hi, im almost 16 and ive never been kissed and never had a boyfriend...is this as bad as it seems?...and not jus girls points of veiw plz. ive had chances but never made anything of them...am i that big of a loser, i think that im attractive and im smart and a good person so whats wrong?will rate high!!!!all 5's
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Oh please don't think you're a loser!!!
I didn't get my first kiss til I was 17 years old and it was two weeks off my 18th birthday!! I'm nearly 21 now and I'm still with the same guy.
Although there is a lot of peer pressure surrounding kissing and sex and relationships, there's nothing wrong with saying 'no' and waiting until it feels right for YOU. After all, would you rather be like the majority of people, who say "I remember my first kiss at a school disco. Neither of us knew what we were doing. It wasn't that nice actually!" or would you rather be able to say it was on a wonderful date, with a guy you really felt something for and it was a kiss that actually meant something?
You only get one first kiss and there is NOTHING wrong with waiting until it will be one that counts an there should be more people out there that realise that.
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there is nothing worng with that. maybe you are being more careful and selective about who you choose to date have you first kiss with and so on. it is easy to get you heart broken so it is good to be choosey. you know? thats how it was for me and it worked out wonderful! hope that helped.
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Don't worry! it's so not strange. some girls just don't like going out with guys. i personally have only had 2 boyfriends in my life because i just don't like boyfriends, it's just a waste of time. and you said you've had chances, me too, it's totally normal, you just don't like dating right now. or you could be shy, who knows? but you're not a loser, it's totally normal!
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You are NOT a loser. I didnt kiss a guy til i was almost 17 and didnt do stuff more than kissing a guy til 18 almost 19. So dont worry, you are not the only one and besides you sound confident with yourself and that is hot to a guy. They will soon find out what they are missing. But coming from me, if you are shy(just like many boys out there) it just takes alittle longer..try asking someone out yourself for a dance or a casual date thing. Thats what i did to get my first two dates for dances at school. It doesnt have to be them asking you out. And soon after that you can easily get a first kiss!!
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Your not a loser! i know a lot of ppl who are your age and older and havent had a bf/gf before. Don't worry you get one!
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You're not a loser! Don't think you're a loser just because you've never been kissed. Most people I talk to say that its actually better to wait for your first kiss to happen, rather then rush it and have it not be special and meaningful. Like you know how kids play spin the bottle and truth or dare, hoping to get their first kiss? Well, I don't really think that's romantic or anything, you know? Being in a relationship is just something that happens between two people that care about eachother, and if it hasn't happened for you yet, then that's still okay. Just wait for a guy you really like, and it'll all be fine.
-mystical_breeze
XOXO
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no, not at all. i think its perfectly normal actually. personally i think thats how most girls should be, saving their first kiss for someone they love instead of kissing everyone they think they "love." and having a boyfriend is nothing important. just because you dont have one doesnt mean your a loser or anything. it just means that you havent found someone thats perfect to you and thats normal. so dont sweat it, i mean if you think your pretty and smart and a good person then thats all that matters. guys will come sooner or later that you will want to waste your first kiss on and your first true boyfriend on =] hope i helped ♥
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Nothing is wrong. Having a boyfriend and kissing comes to everyone at one time or other, some earlier and some later. I've heard of women who are 30 and never had a boyfriend. I think the first kisses that come later are the most special because it wasn't wasted with some little kid that you broke up with after two days. You shouldn't feel like a dork just because it's coming later for you. It's not like "Ok, you have to have kissed and had a steady boyfriend by the time you are 16, or else you are a loser." You don't need to have a boyfriend in order to be cool. And you can only have a first kiss once. 30 years from now, would you rather look upon your first kiss as just some sloppy thing that you shared with some 11 year old that you broke up with in 2 days, or something special in a real relationship? Your time will come, and when it does, guess who's going to feel like a loser? Those girls who had their first kiss as an 11 year old because they wasted their chance.
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nothings wrong with you. Both my brothers havent gotten kissed or had bfs and they're both 18! Somethings wrong with the guys out there not noticing u! My grandma has never been kissed and shes turning 65! Shes been married and never divorced too and she doesnt plan on kissing anyone her whole life! dont sweat it!
they never cared about kissing each other! Where they come from its never the custom to kiss people! When she saw my mom kissing my dad she was completely shocked! Grandpa died and when she noticed ppl in america kissed-especially young people she was in awe-she got married in England and they kiss there, and she was surprised during her wedding she never had to kiss!
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Wow, you're lucky. I didn't even get a chance until I was 18! Don't sweat it. It's good that you're not getting down and dirty with every guy you possibly can. You're saving your first kiss for someone that you love, which is awesome. There are people out there that don't even get their first boyfriends until college. Don't worry so much, your opportunity will come. I hope you feel better and good luck!
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No, that's not bad. You don't need a guy to complete you. I know girls who are older than you and have never been kissed or have had a boyfriend. And that's fine. Most girls just don't want one because they're waiting for the right guy. Mr. Right will come sooner or later, don't worry so much about it. You're not a loser or anything, and it's not bad. So don't worry. He'll come along.
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OMG! You dont have to have a boyfriend to complete your life. No its not bad and you shouldn't feel like a loser. Your time will come. DOnt just say yes to a boy if you just wanna have a boyfriend. Thats wrong. Just do what ur heart says when a boy asks you out. Ur time will come. Dont worry!
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I hope this helped!
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im 16 and ive had boyfriends for short periods of time but never been kissed either... your not a loser
i would say alot of girls havent been kissed they just dont admit it. eventually someone will date you when the time is right!
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Your not a loser!! No way, just some people have their first kisses and boyfriends earlier than others. I have ton's of friends that have never had their first kiss. It's not you, I think you just have higher morals than other's. Actually I admire you for not having a first kiss. It not you at all. Don't worry when the time is right it will happen. Just don't rush it, because when you have your true first kiss your going to feel so incredible. Hope I helped
-Bianca
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Well i don`t think your a loser one bit.. I didn`t have my first boyfriend til i was 15.. And i had plenty of chances as well but i didn`t want alot of guys because they wasn`t what i was lookin for in a boyfriend so they just became friends.. I actually thought the same things you did at the age of 15 but eventually someone came my way that was everything i was lokkin for in a guy.. I don`t know if you have standards or what but if you do then thats very smart and good..Alot of girls that have boyfriends alot are girls that go for anybody who comes their way and gives them a little attention and their the girls that also don`t have a steady relationship and always having a [BROKENHEART]..You don`t want to jump in and out of relationships because i`m sure it gets old.. So i`m going to answer your question now [there is nothing wrong with you just give it time] Also it took a while for me to get my first kiss.. ***YOUR NOT ALONE*** ♥DEz
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No, you're not a loser. I know people who didn't get their first kiss until they were in their twenties and have had one or no boyfriends. It's fine. Different people do these things at different stages, you obviously haven't found someone right to kiss and be with yet. And it's best if you wait until you find someone you really like because it's not special to kiss someone just for the sake of being kissed. My first kiss was with one of my best friends and I wish I'd waited until I was with a boyfriend.
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