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14/f/nebraska

ok i live in a pretty calm town, and i have been to PLENTY of parties before of people in my class.None of them have been with any alcohol or even spin the bottle. wel i just got invited to a party that is going to have alcohol. all my friends are going, and all excited about it being their first time. The thing is, i am not very comfortable being around alcohol. like i dont know, i just dont like it, it just seems to ruin a lot of peoples lives, especailly when we are only 14. i REALLYY want to go, but i REALYY dont want to drink. but i still want to be cool. waht should i do?

If you're going to feel uncomfortable then don't go. Make up an excuse and tell them you're busy. Say that you have to do something important with your family, or your mother/father will not let you.

You don't have to go to seem "cool." Honestly, if you miss out on this one party or a few more like this it is not going to ruin your reputation.

And if you really want to go, then just don't drink.

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in the song what does she mean when she says
"my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard and theyre like it's better than yours damn right, its better than yours damn right, i could teach you but id have to charge"


i have heard so many different things and i just wanted to know exactly what it meant.

She's saying that her boobs are better than yours. And that she brings all the boys to her/the yard. And that she could teach you how to shake your own boobs but she would have to charge.

-- Pretty much exactly what the person said belown me.

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I was over at this one guys house i have commented him on myspace and stuff. I grabbed a tissue and got up to throw it away..I was at his house last night and I grabbed a tissue and went to the kitchen to throw it away..I was in the kitchen with him alone and I was like wheres your garbage? And he pointed over to where it was with this big smile on his face [he was standing in the way with the fridge open so he closed it and smiled at me to let me pass through]. I threw out that tissue and I went to walk away and he grabbed strawberries out of the fridge he was like hey you want a strawberry? And he opened them for me and held them out to me. I was like sure and I grabbed one and then i was like thank you and smiled at him he was all smiling at me oh and prior to that he wispered something to his friend...

my big question is do you think he was trying to flirt with me?

do you think he's interested?

what should i do now?

No.

He was not flirting with you. There's a possibililty, but probably not. All he did was ask you if you wanted a strawberry and smile. Also, guys always wisper things to their friends.

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i love bands like. family force 5. rediscover. and panic! at the disco.
can someone please name some more bands like that?

panic! at the disco is not techno. But if you would like bands like p!atd then you'd probably like
- boys like girls
- taking back sunday
- fall out boy
- a change of pace
- academy is
- allister
- all time low
- amber pacific
- brand new
- motioncity soundtrack
- plain white t's
- the red jumpsuit apparatus (rja)
Not all of these are exactly like p!atd but they're close and still good.

If you want techno, these artists are great. ( the best music ever made! )
-dj skeptyk (skeptic)
-dj cammy
-dj caffeine
-elize
-cascada
-tila tequila

I hope these all work, and if you need anymore, just ask.

-Ariell (14-f)

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My best friend fucked my brother when i asked her not to. Do i have a right to be mad at her? Or am i over reacting?

Yes, you have a right to be mad at her. You told her not to, and she still did. No, you're not overreacting.

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does it hurt?

It can hurt, if it's done uncorrectly, or the guy is too rough.

But, mostly it's enjoyable.

- Ariell. (14-f)

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Hi, I am looking for a new camera. My mom said she would get me one next month during that tax free weekend, and it'd be like an early christmas/birthday present. Her friend also works at walmart [where i plan to buy] so i do get a 10% discount that day as well. I was wondering if any people had any experience with any of these:

KODAK:http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=5715925
SONY: http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=5614751
CANON: http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=5774338


They all have 10 mp, except sony, it says it has 12.1 mp but i didnt think that was possible. I just want to know which is the better brand, i dont want a bad camera.

Any other suggestions? I'd like it to be not too expensive.

Thanks a bunch.

Sony is the best brand.
Cannon is second best.
Kodak is one of the cheaper brands.

I had a Sony camera, and I loved it!
So I'd get that one.

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i have 2 questions.. my boyfriend just ordered a penis pump online .. hes 7" .. was it worth it;; or is that a pretty small penis? .. next question, is there such thing as pills that make cum taste goooood??

Actually, he is above average. The average size for a penis at erect is 5 to 6 inches. So, he doesn't need the pump.

I'm not sure about pills making cum taste good, I've never heard of it.

- Ariell. 14/f

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i'm going to six flags this weekend.

but i'm on a diet, so there's going to be ALOT of junkfood there.

what can i eat, and what should i not eat?

we're staying in a hotel too, and probably eating out once or twice.

At Six Flags they have a lot of different types of restaurants. Most of the restaurants have salads, so I'd reccomend that. Or you can eat a piece of grilled chicken if they serve that, with some veggies.

But, don't eat dessert . So, you should be fine if you just try to eat salads, soup, or grilled chicken and veggies.

Just when you get there, get their guide, and look at the restaurants they have. And maybe you can ask someone who works there what they serve at each restaurant, and/or ask them if they serve salads (healthy foods.)

-Ariell. ( 14/f )

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OK So, me and my friend were discussing this and i just wanted some other opinions. If your a virgin, and you got raped, would you still be a virgin? Cause it's not really your choice and stuff, it's a forced thing.

Thanks.

No, you're not a virgin. Even if sex is forced, you're still not a virgin.

That's like saying " I had sex with someone I didn't want to, but hey I'm still a virgin. Since, I didn't like the person, it doesn't count. "

Sex is sex, even if it's forced.

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My bff parties sometimes. She is a very good student, so are the people she parties with. Sometimes she has these "parties" at her house with just maybe no more than 15 people, all good friends. She is eighteen.

I am sixteen, and although I've never been to any of her parties, I want to try it. I've never been drunk in my life. If I do go to a party, it will be a very safe environment. I am planning on getting a little drunk, but I am not going to drive (I will sleep over at her house), I will not try drugs (and no drugs will be present, none of her friends do them).

Should I do it? I am a very uptight person, so I think it will be nice for me to just let loose and have fun. I am not planning it to become a habit (partying), but I definitely want to try it.

What do you think? I will be one hundred percent safe there.

How do people act when they're drunk? How many beers does it take to get drunk? I am not planning to get drunk drunk, but just a little bit drunk.

Well, I think it is your chose. But, if you want to loosen up, then go for it.

Getting drunk depends on your body weight. If you are a small person around 100 pounds you are going to get drunk a lot faster than if you were around 120 pounds. Unless your body has become accustumed to it, not in your case though, this is mostly for guys.

But, for most girls it usually takes 1 beer to make them become a little tipsy, but 1.5 or 2 beers to become a little drunk. If you want to become tipsy/ alittle drunk but don't want beer, take 1 or 2 shots of hard alcohol. If they have that there. Ex. Vodka, Whisky, Rum, ect. (Vodka is the best tasting. )

If you don't want to get drunk, stay away from the Hard Alcohol! It gets you done A LOT faster than beer.

I'm going to take a guess and say that you will probably not like beer. Most girls don't, this again you have to be accustumed to. For some people the taste just grows on them.

So have fun and be safe about it!

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Alright, my bf doesn't want me to come with to pick up his best friend at the airport because he says it's his friend and I don't even know him. But what's the big deal? He makes a big deal about it and I just want to come with my bf.

What do you guys think about it?

I think you're making a big deal out of this. He's right, it's his friend and you don't know him.

Would you like it if he came with when you were going to pick up one of your best girl friend ? Wouldn't you want to catch up with her on you're own, and do your fun girly stuff ?

I'm sure that's just what he wants. To catch up with his guy friend who he hasn't seen in a while, and do some fun guy stuf together.

Don't worry about it, you're probably going to see his friend sooner or later. But give your boyfriend some space.

Hope I helped!

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Hello. I'm 14 years old and I have never gotten drunk or high. Most of the girls that I know all go out partying with boys, and I feel like such a loser because I don't do anything and they have all these guy friends and I have maybe like 3 really good guy friends who I hang out with. Is this normal? I mean how old were you people when you first got drunk? I know I'm so gay for writing this, but it really bothers me. I'm really afraid of being like 17 and staying in every weekend reading a book by myself because I have no friends. omg i know how gay this sounds i'm sorry!

When I first got drunk I was 13. Me and my friends started partying REALLY early, since we knew a lot of older people. At the age of 13, I was partying with people from the ages of 11-18. I've never gotten high, or tooken drugs and I probably never will.

There's nothing wrong with staying in on a saturday reading a book, but I think you should become more social. Don't go out every weekend, but have fun.

You can still go out and have fun and drink, but do it in moderation. It's not everything it's cracked up to be. It's a lot of fun while it lasts, but you have the after morning hangover. Also, you do a lot of stupid things while you are drunk.

Drinking at a young age causes your liver to become damaged at a much faster rate then if you were older. And getting high fries brain cells, and many other things.

So, therefore you don't need to get drunk or high to be " cool " or " have fun. "

Do what you want to do.

Hope I helped!

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okay. well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 3 monthes now. and i kinfof want to do more than makeout but imm scared if i talk to him about it seriously he'll think im a slut and break up with me. and if i say it jokingly he obviously wont take it seriously. helpp.

Just talk to him. You two have been going out for 3 months. He is not going to think you're a slut. Honestly, just be like sit him down and talk to him about it. If you're inder 13 though, people would consider you a slut. So, do what'd you like to and make sure you don't force him.

If you need anymore help and if you need to know how to do these things go to www.sextutor.com

Hope I helped & Good Luck!

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I want to buy bracelets and necklaces for the new school year.
Can someone give me examples of stores that sell cute and not too expensive jewelry?

There's stores like:
- Macy's
- Charlette Russe (sp?)
- Rave

sorry, i can't think of anything else.

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how long does it have to be?
like if i dye my hair.. then want to put a temporary color in it? like a streak or 5? how long should i wait

You don't have to wait, you can get it don't the same day. Which I would reccomend. Or you can wait as long as you'd like to.

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If you had to choose between CosmoGirl and seventeen magazine...which one would you choose? and WHY?

I want to prescribe to 1 of them, but I really like them both. Help?? I need opinions!

if you have other favorites, please tell me! But if it HAD to be between those 2, which 1 would you choose and why? thank you very much!

sorry if this isnt exactly "advice", it's more of an opinion type question.

I LOVE 17! So I'd choose that one, because its more what I like. It has amazing stories- break up & embarrassing stories. Also, it has those quizzes which I love. So I'd choose that one. It has good fashion tips too.

People's also good.

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the h&m store site is not really working for me. theres no store near me so im asking you guys if the clothes there are expensive? what are the price ranges and is it worth the drive? i like stores like forever 21, delias, wet seal..

H&M is not expensive. I personally, don't find anything cute there, but my friends do. Just like the girl said below, it is a hit and miss store.

If you like Forever 21, Delias, and Wet Seal, you will probably like H&M too. But, I think those stores have cuter clothes than H&M.

Hope I helped & Good Luck with finding cute clothes! :)

* If you need any help finding cute outfits, I'll be glad to give you links! *

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So my name is Rebecca. People always ask me which name i prefer so what do you guys tyhink is the best?

1. Rebecca
2. Becky
3. Becs
4. Becca

I like Becca the best. Becky always seemed like a nerdy name to me lol.

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I have a painful bump that just appeared today on my bottom part of my eye like a little under where you would put eyeliner. It hurts if i touch it feels like a bruise but i know its not because its a bump idk what it is do you have any ideas? Its red its not itchy its just a bump and it hurts.

You probably have a Sty (sp?)

If it looks like a bubble kind of, or a dot, that's red-ish, than it probably is.

Sorry, I'm not sure how to get rid of it. But don't use eye make up. If you do it could irritate it, and I'm told it is contagious.

This can be caused by make-up also.

Hope I helped & Good Luck!

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