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my boyfriend is extremely stiff.. like i don't really think he knows how to be a boyfriend ;] lol it's really cute because it's hard for him to even talk to me.. and he's 16 .. so i'm planning on trying to loosen him up a little bit.. i mean it's really sad. yesterday he gave my mom a handshake and i was like "mom, you got more action from him then i did!" like he doesn't know what to do when he's around me.. so my question is.. is do you have any ideas on what i can do to make him loosen up a little bit ;] 5 for a thought =]

that'll definately go away when you guys are around each other more. when he starts feeling more comfortable with you, he'll let loose. it might take a bit, but i guess that's understandable. start by being open with him & see how he feels & his thoughts about conversations er feelings you guys share. basically if you're open with him & friendly obviously, he'll do the same. if you've tried that er you've been doing that for awhile, talk to him about it. explain that you're his gf & you want him to be more open & you want him to do whatever he wants.

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so on like myspace i got this riddle and it buggin me cuz i cant find the answer!
I already googled it!!:-p YEP!! sooo

I turn polar bears white
and I will make you cry.
I make guys have to pee
and girls comb their hair.
I make celebrities look stupid
and normal people look like celebrities.
I turn pancakes brown
and make your champane bubble.
If you sqeeze me, I'll pop.
If you look at me, you'll pop.

SO does anyone know the answer!! i really wanna no the right answer! like i hear it was water! but that doesnt make sice!

so i've you know the answer please explain!!
thanks and i right fives for anyone who will take the time and help!!!

thankssss

my bf & his friend said its 'time'. i guess that sort've makes sense.

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Ok so my msn said it didn't have no new e-mails like 3 days in a row and I was puzzled so I was going to send a e-mail to my aunt and BOOM..there are 99% full! And now anytime i get mail it doesn't show! Do I need to somehow download msn again or can i fix it and if i can fix it how?

my netscape email messed up somehow. it wasn't exactly like that, but i got a new account. either keep trying to fix it er try getting a new account. you might wanna try DLing it again but it might do the same thing.

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4 some reason everyone thinks I'm a baby. I don't really get it. I'm in high school, I drive, I have my own responsibilities. But today this lady actually came up to me while I was doing my nails to tell me that I was an itty bitty baby. Is it just me or is something going on here? I wouldn't be asking if it happened more than once. But is there a reason that everyone is telling me this? Its just really really weird. Thanks.

don't even listen to random people. that's weird that she said that. maybe she thinks you act immaturely?? idk. don't put too much thought into it. it isn't really a big deal.

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I am 14 years old and have attended religious classes most o fmy life. I am a very religious person inside, if u knew me you may not guess that unless you were truly my friend. I am always the kind of person that gets caught when a big group of people get into trouble; i have just come to the conclusion that is my luck. 2 weeks ago my class was passing around a note as a joke. the note used some voulgar language, and i will admit i wrote the "F" word as a joke to my good friend Cailey because we joke around like that. The note got left in the class and now the DRE religous director Mrs toto found the note. She is super mean! and never gives anyone a chance to explain their case. My family has been going through a lot of stress and the last thing my mom needs is this. I never lie and am always honest with my mother. The first i did when i found out i was introuble for the note was tell my mother exatly what i did. She is not so upset with me (to an extent) but its more of the fact she is overwhelmed with stuff going on in our personal lives, as is myself. What should to get mother in a good mood, and ask forgiveness of mrs toto?

everyone makes mistakes. i mean really, how many stories have you heard about priests, members of the church, molesting kids?? exactly, a lot. basically what im saying is this doesn't have any affect of what kind've person you are er anything. besides, everyone makes mistakes. try talking to your mother about it. she knows you better than mrs toto. appologize to mrs toto. everything should work out fine. you can't really make your mother be in a better mood, but if you try helping out, such as chores, then she'll probably brighten up.

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i'm pregnate and i'm balimic what will that do to my baby i can't stop cause every time i keep food in my body i feel guilty about it so don't tell me to stop unless you have a good reason why
thanx

if you don't feed the baby it will die. would you rather be skinny er have your baby die?? obviously you wanna keep your baby. you're going to gain weight anyway because the baby is inside of you. after its born, then go back on a diet er w/e. basically, if you don't feed yourself you're killing your baby.

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Okey, I've tried working out, eating healthy and even counting every single calorie, and it STILL hasnt wokred! So please, don't give me the doctor-answer. Spare me the "healthy-talk".

If I skip dinner, and eat as much lunch as I do now, no more, no less..will I lose weight?

Just a simple yes or now, not "eating helthy, skip the sweets, try the gym" because I've foine that already. I've even tried making myself throw up, but my mother caught me.

So please answer truthfully, will it..or will it not? And please know what you are talking about.

that doesn't help at all. like skipping any meals won't help you lose weight. it puts your body into 'starvation mode' which basically means it keeps up all the calories you had that day & doesn't burn them off. soo you either gain weight er stay the same weight. none of it is good. eat all 3 meals, eat healthy snacks (fruits, veggies, crackers), drink plenty of water & run. that's about it.

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Is there any way to convert music from windows media player to iTunes? thanks.

if the files are saved, you can right click on them & open them with itunes. if not, then you have to use windows media player. they're probably in 'MY DOCUMENTS' er whatever you saved them in.

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i dont have flat abs.. so if i were to just go on a diet and not eat as many fatty foods and not do crunches would that help? because whenever i do crunches it never shows improvement.. even for like a month

they help, but it takes awhile for the results to show. try running. it really does help. it doesn't have to be a lot either. juss like 10-30 minutes a day depending if you're athletic er not.

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i wanna go to the movies but i don't know what movie i should see anyone have some ideas? thanx

here are a few that are out-

-benchwarmers
this looks hilarious. if you liked napoleon dynamite er any baseball movies, you'll probably like this one.

-ice age 2
if you liked ice age, obviously you'd probably wanna see this one.

-take the lead
its a dancing movie & looks pretty neat.

-inside man
this is more of a drama. denzel washington is in it though haha =)

-atl
this is with TI the rapper

-lucky number slevin
no idea. its a suspense movie though.

-failure to launch
this movie looks cute. its with sarah jessica parker & matthew mcconaughney.

-v for vendetta
im not exactly sure what its about but its an adventure movie so yeah.

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how old should i be to have sex in your opinion (f)?

i don't think there's an exact age. i think you should be mature, ready, know the guy well, & know that you both love each other. in my opinion, i think it should be after marriage, but if you guys are 18 & know you wanna get married, then it isn't a big deal. whenever you both are ready. also protection is something the person should think about.

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What's a blogring?

a blogring is a group of people that join because they like the same thing. example, if you like football er w/e, there would be a blogring called 'football' er something like that & people join it that football er whatever the blogring is.

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Okat so i haave like a lot of problems and i need your help.

First one- I was at a school dance. my parents are rlly protective if i dance with people n stuff..well theres this boy, lets say Kyle, and he snuck in to our dance. he is in 10 th grade. he skipped 2grades though so heshould be in 8th. well, he asked me to dance so i said yes. n we danced for what, 30 seconds? n my friends all saw me. n i guess one of them got in the car and was like OMG my friend *me* danced with this rlly hot 10th grader. her mom spazzed out and called my mom. i said i didnt because rlly, what is 30 seconds? n now my mom n dad believe me.. but i talked to my friend who told her mom n i told her to lie to her mom.. n now her mom is like well all these chaperones saw me. i mean seriously, how could like 5 chaperones see me in 30 seconds.. come on! do u think her mom will call mine again?

Second Problem- So at my birthday party a couple of weeks ago, 4 girls were completely being mean and just hung out in my closet like the WHOLE time bad mouthing me and the other 3 girls. before my party, the 4 girls hated eachother.. n now they r having a party tonight... n they didnt even BOTHER inviting me.. n they talk about it in front of me too...

sorry this was so long. i am just sooo stressed out n i rlly didnt know who to go to..=[

dancing?? that really isn't a big deal at all. plus its a school dance. it's not like you were gonna do anything more than that. i doubt they'd say anything because its juss dancing. the girls that did that, forget them. they obviously aren't your friends if they did that.

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OH MY GOD! my aim is being so weird! it gave me this smiley central thing and i couldn't get it to go away, so i deleted my aim and redownloaded it. and it gave me this aim triton thing .. i hate it so much! does anyone know how i can download the regular version of aim? thanks soooo muchh =]

www.download.com

that website has a bunch of things you can DL. go to the search bar & type in AIM 5.93861 er whatever one you want. you might wanna try juss 5.9 though.

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so my ipod music thing stopped working so i uninstalled the entire thing (including quicktime player etc.) and now it wont reinstall what do i do? i followed all of the instuctions and either it says its installed (but really isnt) or it only half installs and it wont work right? any suggestions? i really need a way to get music on my ipod (but from limewire not itunes)

ok well your ipod, it only works with itunes. go to START, CONTROL PANNEL, ADD/REMOVE PROGRAMS. all your programs are listed in there so if it's there it'll say it & if it isn't then you uninstalled it. i'm not sure if its your computer er your ipod stuff. try going to www.apple.com & going to FAQS er call them up & ask em about it.

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im currently at about 140. if i do 200 jumping jacks and 100 sit ups every night, what's a resonable amount of weight i can lose in about a month, maybe two? plus im drinking a lot of water all during the day. any tips?

thanks, 5's for all.

those work over a long period of time. they take awhile to see results, not saying that they aren't there, but you can't see them. i would suggest running. juss plain running. it really helps. i haven't ran for awhile & i juss started back up this week & i lost 3 lbs already. keep drinking water though.

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I know this ex-colleague of mine but not really that close to him. I think i have a crush on him but i dont really know if he likes me at all.

He's confident, witty and a workaholic.

However, he gets shy/uncomfortable, when i ask him simple personal questions for eg: Do you go for swimming. I think he has a problem of talking about himself to new people or just not that friendly.

So one day, i gave him some sweets via his secretary (i didnt really know him that well at that time in office) and he was quite startled and stared at me and waited for me to say something when i bumped at him at the doorway.
He had those puppy eyes..but didnt say word!.
I pretended not to appear interested in him becos i was too shy.!

Later, i sent him email and was able to chat with him about work..and he responded quite well except that when i asked him for lunch, he just disappeared and dint reply yes/no.,,which was kind of weird. Cos he could have said no.

I managed to obtain his cellphone and he replies all my sms except the ones on personal questions.

I called him once but he was so weird and acted like a total stranger to me.

So how do i even talk to him tru the phone as a friend, if he's that shy since i dont see him anymore in office?

How do i get him to even talk to me like a normal friend?

Would appreciate your advice.

i think it might be a work thing. he might feel uncomfortable, because you worked together & what not. he could possibly like you, only because if he had no feelings towards you whatsoever, he wouldn't be as shy/nervous. you juss need to help him open up. start by saying personal stuff about yourself. like "i like swimming, do you? what do you like about it?" etc etc. if you try this a few times & he still doesn't say anything, you can either confront him about it er let it go. you can't really make him do anything he doesn't want to. if you really want him as a friend, confront him. start by saying "hey i noticed you're a bit shy & i was wondering if its because..blah blah". that's the only thing you can really do with this. if you guys keep trying to talk at least, he'll probably feel a lot more comfortable with you & what you guys talk about. if not, you can't do much about it.

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heyy.. once again thanks so much im trying to do that now but ill let you know how it goes

my sn is--
Ksoccergurlie12

thanks again *xoxo

oh no problem. if you have any other questions lemme know cause i can help with that.

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I'm a 16/m and hope you can help because you seem to give really good advice.This is kinda long so I have no idea if you will read it, but hopefully you'll take the time to. Well I guess I'll start when me and my ex went out. I liked her all through 9th grade but I had just started going out with this girl when my ex dumped her bf and told people she liked me. I won't get into my first relationship, but skip over to the last month of summer. I had broken up with the girl I was seeing at the end of 9th grade. I was still depressed over it. Then one day I was sitting on the computer and started to talk to Jeneen(my future ex). I remembered how much I liked her and asked if she wanted to come over sometime. And to my surprise she said yes. She came over and it was a little awkward until she was standing in my living room completely glued to the tv. I stood up, grabbed her hips, and pulled her towards me and kissed her. Haha she didn't even turn around until the least second. Then from the rest of the day on, just non stop kissing. I stopped to look her in the eye and asked, "So it's safe to say you like me?"

She said, "I don't know. Do you like me?" I said, "Yeah of course." She said, "I like you too." Then I asked her out and we were going out. I won't get into detail about things that happend when we were going, but things were perfect.(to me they are at least) We both loved each other in no time and spent so much time together. She gave her virginity to me. But then she was acting strange the least week we were together. She was kind of distant, and she kept talking about this girl we both knew and saying how she told her she liked me and felt so sad. I was like and you're gonna dump me to make her feel better!? Then it happend.

I was over my friends when she did it online. I was mad and kept saying whatever and her friend IMed me and said I was being a jerk. So much happend after we broke up, but I'll make it as short as possible. I was acting crazy when we broke up. I wrote her a note asking her back out, and she wrote one back saying sorry and we should wait. I didn't want to wait though. I asked her to hang out and she said yes, but ditched me twice. Then one day she was finally on my bus so I of course sat with her and asked if we were hanging out today. She said she felt sick. I acted mad and guilted her to come over.

It was awkward until I got up in my living room and hugged her as hard as I could. We went back into my bedroom and it was like we never broke up so I asked her back out. She surprisingly said no. I was shocked and I broke down and cried in front of her. She hugged me and kept kissing me. Then she went home. She ditched me 6 more times after that day. It was also the last day we ever kissed. After around a 1 1/2 months of being broken up I then got involved with her bestfriend behind her back. During the 1 1/2 months I was a wreck. I called her all the time to like negotiate going back out. She told me she still loved me which then turned to I Still like you which turned to I dont know if I still like you.

So I got involved with her friend who was so nice to me. I didn't do it for revenge. I just needed someone to replace jeneen. Jeneen found out and a huge thing was made out of it. She completely changed her tune. "You never loved me! You're the biggest ****" and blah blah blah. So things fell through with her friend after a few weeks. I immediatly realized I still liked my ex. We were friends at this point so I called her with intention on telling her.

She was out with friends when I called her. I told her and she was like, "Oh well if you want you can call me when I'm home." I got to say I didn't mind that answer. So 2 hours later I signed online and she IMs me saying how she made out with this senior kid. I called her and was like you can't be serious. Turns out she had been drinking. The next morning when I checked my away message I had 10 IMs from her telling me how sorry she was. We talked and I asked if she still liked me and she said, "I don't know." So I asked her to hang out way too much and called her too much. Her friend(the one I was with) yelled at me.

"Why do you act like she likes you!? SHE DOESN'T" I already knew she didn't, but I was trying to make her like me. We hung out once after a wicked long time of asking. She brought another friend when I made it clear I wanted to chill alone. I even tried to kiss her that night, but she just sat there. This happend around the end of january. Needless to say the night didn't go as planned. So back to present. It's been six months. I went to parties at jeneen's with my bestfriend paul who was starting to like her friend (the one I was with). So I went, but everytime I watched her gradually get closer to this ugly kid who stayed back named kevin. It killed me because they were soon cuddling and making out, but like an idiot I went every weekend. She is now going out with this kevin kid officially.

I sent her a long note telling her how much I still loved her, I couldnt stand the thought of her with someone else, I just want her to be happy so be happy with whatever she does, to be with kevin if it makes her happy, and I have to distance myself from her. She told me she got it and it was very nice and thank you. I said theres nothing to thank I just wanted to say it. She said, "Well it was really nice and I liked it so thank you." I said welcome and then she asked how I was doing. I lied and said alright and she said she was glad.

I havn't talked to her since. Been about a week. I still love her so much. Everyone tells me that the kevin kid a geek and that it will NEVER last, but I have trouble believing them. I see them in the halls all the time and they don't seem to be a good couple, but I also saw how they were out of school... She's also in my gym class. Today was our first day and I steered clear of her. I have no clue as what to do. I love her and she now knows. I feel a little better with each passing day, but then theres days I feel terrible. What should I do? Maybe just suggestion or ideas? I still love her so much and having little interest in anyone else around me. Please help in any way possible with any kind of advice.

sorry about the late response. schools been crazy lately.

you can't juss lose feelings for people you love, & that's probably difficult. it seems like she did like you, but she's only watching out for herself. i could be wrong, but i'm a girl, & i'm friends with girls, & to me it seems like she likes you when its convienent for HER. meaning she can flip flop back & forth & doesn't really watch out for YOU. this could totally do damage to your feelings & even hers. obviously you shouldn't break things up with them. since she knows how you feel from the note & everything, it's all in her hands. it'll probably be difficult leaving things go & letting her decide, but you should. she has a bf & knows how you feel so she can decide how she feels towards her current bf & you. you are still in HS so there's plenty of time. juss because she has bfs right now er throughout HS, doesn't mean there's no room for you. maybe all she needs is some space. i'd suggest talking about it with her first to let her know you still care about her, love her, but since she has a bf you don't want to disrespect him. if you really can't take it, maybe talk to him about it. a lot of guys, even maybe most, would date girls if theyre some-what attractive & if that girl likes them, not juss cause they like er even love that girl. basically what i'm saying is he might not have any real feelings towards her, but they're dating because he doesn't want some other gf er he likes her as a friend even. sounds weird, but i heard a lot of cases like that. juss remember, these type of relationships are completely normal & they tend to swing back & forth. if you guys are meant to be together you will be. it might take time. you should try some-what moving on. i don't mean totally, but get out, meet new people, hang out with friends, etc. juss so that by some weird chance she doesn't want to go back out, then you're okay & better than before. it does seems like she likes you to a point, so maybe you guys can become friends & that can grow. juss give her time & see how things work out. if she wants to be your friend, that's fine. you should hang out with her so you guys can even become closer & work from there.

sorry it was a bit long. thanks for leaving it in my inbox & if you have anything else to ask juss lemme know.

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ok lately ive been getting these REALLY REALLY bad pains on my right side, right under the end of my rib cage. What could this be? could it just be cramps? I havent gotten my period for the first tim yet so could that be it? Please help...i rate high. ♥

a lot of girls that are about to get their period have weird side effects & random pains like that. some get them in their stomach by their ribs, near their belly button, in their arm pit, boobs, etc. talk to your mom, a family member, a friend, the nurse at school, etc. it probably is juss cramps, but to make sure you should tell someone about it.

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