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Oh man.. Sorry dont know what topic.
Okat so i haave like a lot of problems and i need your help.
First one- I was at a school dance. my parents are rlly protective if i dance with people n stuff..well theres this boy, lets say Kyle, and he snuck in to our dance. he is in 10 th grade. he skipped 2grades though so heshould be in 8th. well, he asked me to dance so i said yes. n we danced for what, 30 seconds? n my friends all saw me. n i guess one of them got in the car and was like OMG my friend *me* danced with this rlly hot 10th grader. her mom spazzed out and called my mom. i said i didnt because rlly, what is 30 seconds? n now my mom n dad believe me.. but i talked to my friend who told her mom n i told her to lie to her mom.. n now her mom is like well all these chaperones saw me. i mean seriously, how could like 5 chaperones see me in 30 seconds.. come on! do u think her mom will call mine again?
Second Problem- So at my birthday party a couple of weeks ago, 4 girls were completely being mean and just hung out in my closet like the WHOLE time bad mouthing me and the other 3 girls. before my party, the 4 girls hated eachother.. n now they r having a party tonight... n they didnt even BOTHER inviting me.. n they talk about it in front of me too...
sorry this was so long. i am just sooo stressed out n i rlly didnt know who to go to..=[
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1. Tell your parents the truth. Write them a note. Tell them exactly what happened. Even maybe include things like, he skipped two grades and it was only 30 seconds. Its probally not the whole fact tht you actually danced, but they might be affraid if you do tht in public, what are you doing out of people's eyes. I'm not saying what you did was bad, actually its cool. lol.
note, when writing the note, use the word 'i' alot, not you. It'll help. Don't blame them. Say you understand why their feeling this way and stuff.
2. They are gay.
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1. Like you said, you were only dancing for 30 seconds! Who cares if your friends mom calls your parents again, she should mind her own business and also your parents believe you so theres no need to worry.
2. You dont need those girls. They have no life and they wasted there whole time at your party bad mouthing you? pathetic. Who cares if they didnt invite you, would you want to be invited after they did that to you? Forget about them. They have no life. hah!
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1. your friends mom should mind her own buisness. it's dancing. what does she want you to do, sit there? pshtt. no. have fun, and explain to your parents that you can dance & have fun too. your friends mother is probably just jealous it wasn't her daughter. =)
2. girls are the biggest bitches ever. all they like to do is use people. you can do better then whoever they are, and just don't even let them bother you. next time you have a party or whatever don't even invite them. i'm sure they'll get mad, and be like oh well. =] hah.
i hope you're problems are better.
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1. your friend's mum should really mind her own business. What do they think happens at a "dance"? Clue's in the title. So you danced with a boy your age-big deal. Unfortunately when you hit your age parents tend to get freaked out and blow things way out of proportion because they're basically scared of losing their little girl. Just take baby steps with them and next time come home and tell your mum you talked to a really nice boy and danced a little bit. Confide in her a little bit and show her that you're sensible and know what you're doing.
2. Yep, girl's can be pretty nasty- again, especially in 8th grade. All i can really say is choose your friends carefully, don't waste your time with losers who treat you badly and I promise it gets better as you move up the years! x
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well since your mom and dad believe you, you shouldnt worry that much and if they call just tell them its not that big of a problem and it was only 30 seconds and you didnt do anything else other than that.
for your second problemm.. that really sucks. but maybe you can find some new friends, hang out with them instead of your other 4 friends. they seems kindaaa mean.
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dancing?? that really isn't a big deal at all. plus its a school dance. it's not like you were gonna do anything more than that. i doubt they'd say anything because its juss dancing. the girls that did that, forget them. they obviously aren't your friends if they did that.
-hope that helped!♥
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