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I've been searching for ages for a dress for 8th grade graduation. I don't want to involve my parents in the actual dress buying, so I'm on my own in paying for it. I'd love to find something under 50$, but i might be able to go over that. I'd rather not buy online, because that'd involve my mom more than i'd like, but i think I'll have to. My question is that is there any good stores around Lexington, ky that sells awesome dresses?
Thanks!
Macy's, Dillard's, DEB, body central, charlotte russe.
Is it possible to get a profile using AIM express?
nope. sorry.
does anyone remember a country song that came out a few years ago..it was an older guy singing with a younger girl..and i remember the words were something like tell the sun to stop shining..something about how their lives wouldn't be complete without eachother.
thx!
my best guess is mockingbird with toby keith and his daughter.
my hands are always icy cold,and i know that its not normal.what should i do about it?
honestly, mine always are too. my mom's were like that until she was well into her 40's and not they are really hot all the time. i think it's pretty normal but if you are really worried, go to the doctor.
I have been using Duac Topical Cream on my face...it was prescribed by my dermatologist and has 5% Benzoyl Peroxide and 1% Tri-something (lol...dont remember the spelling)...anyways, it has a 60 day expiration date, and is quite expensive. I was wondering, does anyone use this? If so, is that expiration date a must to be followed? Also, does that expiration mean when you bought it from the store? I am confused!
next time, ask your derm for 2 smaller tubes. that usually helps with the money thing. right now, call your derm and ask them. they can probably give you a better answer than anyone on here.
Could someone tell me the best thing to use to whiten my teeth. Brushing with whitening toothpaste doesnt satisfy me and i want some thing quick and easy. I have already tried Crest Night Effects Whitening Gel and its really messy and hard to apply. Is there anything easier to apply that i could get at walmart? I have thought about the whitening strips but i am unsure. Thanks in Advance!
I used crest white strips june last year and my teeth still look white...really white. definatly use them!
I'm in New York right now and my boyfriend and I want to see a Broadway musical. Has anyone seen the musical "Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet Street"? If so, could you tell me if it's good? There's a revival of it with Patti LuPone on Broadway right now
I've heard it's amazing! I would see it!
okay hi! i am not new to this site but i have not been on in a long time. i was just wondering how to put in a tampon? i have been struggling with the decision to use one or not and my mom told me that i should. i am just to scared to ask her how to put it in and everything. can you give me a website or something that can explain this process to me..thank u very much. i look forward to your answers.
well the May issue of seventeen has a step by step guide on page 70 so buy that. personally, i think it's better to have a paper instead of a website since you'llk be doing this in the bathroom, not in front of your computer.
Hey,
I am going to Florida for spring break, which is in two weeks.
So, I went to the mall today to go shopping for my vacation. I went to go and buy a bikini,and I knew it would be hard to find one because I have a very large chest.
Well, I went to four different stores, and could not find a single one that fit me...
Does anyone know any stores that would have stuff for girls with a big chest...?
And I would like a bikini, not a one piece...
Thank you...
i think that if you just have a big chest, you should get a regular juniors bottom and maybe try a ladies-misses top. they usually make them bigger and you can mix and match. I'm sure victoria's secret probably has some too.
I need some ideas on how to save my money! everytime i get money i spend it right away and cant save anything for my life (like today i wasted $80 on a bathing suit and spent $175 total) ive tried locking up my money but i always find excuses on why i need to get it out. like ill borow money from my sister and then ill have to go and get her mine or ill get grounded. also i cant get a bank account yet (its just not worth it when i dont have an income) and i cant give it to my parents because they have been known to steal money off of me. Any ideas? im desperate! or tips are good too!
its just a matter of having self control. ways to not spend money are: don't go shopping of anywhere you can buy things, only go somehwere when you NEED something and plan how much you want to spend on that, only keep a certain amount with you/in your wallet...keep the rest in a drawer and dont take any out unless you need it. i used to have this problem and those things worked for me so try it and i think they will work for you!
Where are some good places to scope out some Vintage clothing and jewelry? Not the new fake stuff, but the real thing.
15/f
you can get vintage at a local vintage store, thrift stores or an older relative's closet. if you are digging through a relatives' stuff, make sure it's ok with them before you take anything!
ok i take modern, and as you may or may not know, its basically ballet without any shoes. I have a problem though. I cant turn because my feet always get stuck. Ive tried putting powder on them before i leave my house but it doesnt work. How can i make my feet tougher and easier to turn on? thanks
-a desperate dancer
are you allowed to have shoes ever? i would use the lyrical shoes...the ones that look like flip flops kinda (i forget their official name!). those are easy to turn in. also, you could power them at the studio or where you dance because byt the time you get there, it'll wear off. good luck!
What is a legit soprano?
I've never heard the term before but i think it someone who is a true soprano without training (or with, i dunno). that's my best guess.
Ok i went to that website for back rounds but then what do i click on and how do i get the url for it? Thanks so much .
ok so you look at the code. somewhere (usually towards the beginning) it will say backround whatever and you go to where it say backround image or backround URL. then its usually in parentheses and you copy that url. hope that helps!
Were did you find your backround for your advice column? Are there any web sites were i can find one? Thanks!
i got mine off of whateverlife.com. they are layouts for myspace and they have a url backround. i just took the url and made it my backround.
What does it mean when a guy says he loves you but is not in love with you?
what does it mean? it means that he is using you, abusing your trust, using "love" to manipulate you.
anything else, leave it in the inbox!
Ok i had a question about fingering.... ok is there a differnece between fingering and feeling up?? is feeling up like feeling up your shirt and feeling you breasts and idsnt fingering like up your skirt and all???
Thanks
yeah it's a big difference.
feeling up is above the waist.
fingering is below the waist.
i REALLY don't get this. there are [a lot of] people out there who cut, and say it's addicting. but doesn't it HURT? why would you want to do something again that hurt you? i heard that "it takes away the hurt from the inside" but i still don't get why people do it. it kina bothers me.. 13/f in case it matters.
my health teacher explained it this way: if you are like really sad and everything, having something LITTERALLY, it will take your mind off of it. like it you are sick and feeling crappy...you focus on that. but when you get a shot, you forget all that and focus on your arm that hurts. weird, but i hope this helps you understand it better.
i just got a new pair of vans shoes. they are like stripes slip ons. they look kinda bad on me cuz i have really big feet. i dont no if i should keep them or return them. they are comfy and if i do keep them im not going to wear them to school. what would i wear them for? and what should i do?
wear them with pants... that way you can't tell the size of your feet and you are comfortable.
I'm writing my friend a letter about why she should not smoke weed. She wants to try it because her best friend at another school got high. What should my letter say?
NOTE: I want to avoid the following things...
1. Sounding like a parent
2. Sounding like a Hallmark card
3. iF YoU TyPE LyKe ThIs then don't answer my question or give me advice
4. I want to make her THINK sincerely
this has happened to me with several friends. i'm lucky that non of them have gotten addicted or caught...yet.
some things to tell her are:
*that you really care about her and you don't want anything to happen to her.
*she'll smell bad
*if she sings, tell her it will ruin her voice.
* if she plays a sport, remind her that physicals check for drug use..
those are just a few things..