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I am 15 years old. And I know that I shouldn't be worrying about this, but is it ok to expect to find a guy whose a virgin and wait with me until marriage? Or is that something that I likely won't find today? I'll rate, thank you.

i know a lot of guys that are waiting for marriage or at least until they are old enough to deal with the consequences. if that is what you want, make that an expectation. if they are not a virgin but want to wait with you, i guess that is acceptable too..

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i like most of delia's clothes (mainly their screen tees and such). what are some other stores that carry modest clothing that is cute and sort of the same style? i'm not looking for "preppy" stores like abercrombie, hollister, or ae.

forever 21, charlotte russe, pacsun...

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How do you wash mascara off of your eyes? I dont know how to do it and it is really annoying becuase then I get eye problems. Thanks ♥

lotion works good too...it makes for eye make up slip right off.

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Here's the DL.
I went to this wild party,
got really wasted,
hooked up with this guy that goes to my school,
and now everyone at school knows.
But see, that wouldn't be bad,
if only the kid were cute/funny/popular/etc.
He's the exact opposite.
He's ugly/creepy/weird/dork/no friends/etc.
I'm embarassed, but how should I play off the situation?

when someone says dudeee i heard about you and that weird kid be like "yeah hahaha after [huge number] beers, he was lookin' fiiiine!" people will shut up if you just tell them you were wasted.

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i got jergans natural glow a few months ago, and i used it every night for about a week on my legs but i saw absolutly no results. i was just wondering if anyone else had this problem. should i try using it again? thanks xo

i think you need a darker shade because that stuff works... well for me anyway. maybe you need a different product all together.

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im 14/f and i was asked to prom by my boyfriend of a few months (2-3). he goes to a different school and they only have a junior prom so what im asking is do you people think 14 is too young for prom. i have to say im a mature 14 and my bf thinks so and thats why he likes me besides numerous other reasons.we wouldnt have sex or go to parties afterward so is just prom too young for a 14year old????? my parents know and are ok with me going but i still dont know..
thanx a bunch

ahhh! lucky! definatly go to prom if you get invited!

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what is the range of normal weight for a 14 year old, around 5'2''? dont give me am-i-fat.com or a doctors opinion i want your opinion of what looks good =] thanks i will give 5s!

120-125...that's what I used to be back then & I was happy with it.

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ok im 13/f and one of my friends have been "messing around" lately but i wont have sex with him without a condom. the problem is my mother stil thinks im a virgin. i dont know how to get birth control or condoms without my mom finding out. in the area i live in there is only 2 small gas stations around which both carry condoms but i have a feeling my mom would find out about me buying them, i wouldnt be so worried about her finding out if the guy was 16. i have had sex with him before and ended up missing my period for 2 months! are there any ideas on how to get protection?
please help soon! i rate well!

I think you should make the guy get them. after all, if he wants it, he should! if he can drive, maybe no one will find out if he goes far away enough.

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my boyfriend proposed to me last week... and i want to say yes ... but something doesnt seem right...
Like there are times when if we dissagree on a subject he will yell and scream ... even if he's completley wrong ...
Hes alaways accusing me of being unfaithful... and I never would do anything like that ...

if i don't want to have sex somehow he always guilts me into it ...
and he's even hit me a few times ...

I just want to know how i can bring these up to him without making him angry ... because i do love him ... im just sligltly bothered by these things ...

Katie

you deserve a much better man than that. MUCH better. he has no right to hit you. if he hits you now, he will hit you later and in front of your children. even if he apologizes, don't marry him. you can move on. you are worth so much more.

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Okay so I am 14/f and will be graduating from 8th grade this year. The only thing is i do not want to go to my graduation because i dont want to have to walk infront of all the people, this is because I have Cerebral Palsy. It is a disorder that cause tight hamstings and makes me walk ver different from others. I am very self consious of this. I want to be a part of graduation but walking on stage and down an aisile(sp?) really acres me. I know that other should not judge me but. I just really dont know what to do any advice would help.I also have a big problem with stage fright and public things such as this ..if that means anything.

if you classmates know that you have this, they will probably expect it and won't really give it any attention. trust me, for 8th grade graduation, everyone just wants to get out of there... the tension is only there till its over then everyone goes their own ways and couldn't care less. you could talk to a teacher and see how they can change things to help you.

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ok so im 16/f and i have to make up a hip hop dance for my dance class and i dont know what songs to do! i already have loose control and hollaback girl but i need more ideas so my group can choose what song we want to do! please help!

lean wit it, rock wit it.

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one of my abercrombie skirts keep shrinking,and when I mean shrinking i mean getting shorter. The skirt isnt hemmed at the bottom. Any suggestions on washing it?

well you could hand wash it or sew the bottom so it only frays to a certain point and doesnt disappear.

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My boyfriend drinks. That I dont care about. Just as long as he is responsible. Well he goes out with a friend of ours and drink this his friend's freinds. It really kind of bothers me because they are girls. I have talked to him about it, and he has reassured me that he won't do anything to threaten us as a couple. But our mutual friend, whom he drinks with, says that he can't control himself. But, This friend is known to tell lies. What should I do? I don't trust the girls he drinks with. I trust him. They drink like 2-3 times a week.

that is tricky but sometimes drinking doesn't mean they're gonna do anything. go along with him next time. if its really akward and no one is talking, that's probably a sign that yeah, they go crazy usually and since you are there, they cant do that and that's why its so akward. so i think go along would be the only way to really find out what goes down.

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Okay, EVERYTIME i try to download a text-document, like any document with anything written in it like a project, or just anythings..it wont work. It'll open..but just be a bunch of weird symbols and letters. What's wrong? What do I need to download?

I'm getting really frustrated here >.< computers really arent my thing.

i think you might have a different program installed than the one you are trying to download. that could mean that instead of having microsoft word, you have microsoft works word processor. check to see if that's it. that's what happened to me so try it.

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i would like to know what is in for guys to wear.

semi baggy jeans, polos, fitted tees, hoodies..

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14/f...ok so i like this guy named Adam. We were at this party and we were playing truth or dare and I was dared to kiss him on the lips. I was like "no", or "i dont want to" or "why didnt you guys have to do this?" but i was obviously just pretending. So i eventually did it but both of our eyes were open and he didnt even kiss bak. His lips didnt even move. He didn't say anything really not anything bad or good just nothing. Do you think that he likes me or is totally just not interested.
ps. he is REALLY REALLY shy and doesn't really "FLIRT" with me but we talk a lot.

i think by saying "no i dont want to" he thought you didn't like him and didn't want to do anything that would make him look stupid or that he likes you when you say that you don't like him. next time don't make such a fuss about it. that's a shy guy for ya.

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I am going to my 8th grade dinner dance and its supposed to be totally formal but not like im going to the prom and im so picky and i dont want to spend too much money where should i go what should i wear?

that's how mine was. Instead of a long formal prom dress, try a tea-length or mid calf length dress. mine was a halter type dress that was tea lenght and i got it in the misses section at macy's. (juniors were prom type.) it was like $50? try deb, body central, charlotte russe and most department stores. have fun!

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Hello. I am just your average christian that is trying to get out of "wordly" music into something more inspartional. My favorites right now are Casting Crowns, Tim Hughes, Chris Tomlin, and Building 429. Any others would be great. I rate and give feedback :D

mercy me is pretty cool!

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I dont date very often and I am afraid to do stuff with guys. A friend of mine suggested that I try self pleasuring myself. Is that alright? And if it is how do you self pleasure yourself?

www.clitical.com

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Heyy. I'm running for Sophmore Class Officer. Last year, I bored the class to death with my speech. Anyone have any funny things or anything I can add in it?

awww! i think you should kinda make fun of the last speech in this one. "well i was going to write a long speece and bore you all to death but that's not what i'm about..." you can write like a thing with your name..
[i.e.]
E - experience with whatever..
M - more events
I - I'm here to serve you
L - listening skills...
Y - you should vote for me
something like that would be short, sweet and to the point. good luck!

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