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I hooked up with this guy, and now I'm embarassed!
Here's the DL.
I went to this wild party,
got really wasted,
hooked up with this guy that goes to my school,
and now everyone at school knows.
But see, that wouldn't be bad,
if only the kid were cute/funny/popular/etc.
He's the exact opposite.
He's ugly/creepy/weird/dork/no friends/etc.
I'm embarassed, but how should I play off the situation?
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Don't let on that it bothers you. The more people realize that it bothers you the more they will make fun of you. People love to see people react and make them feel bad. I wish that wasn't so, but it is. Especially when you are still in school. Obviously in your wasted stupor you let your guard down and you were able to see an inner beauty in him that you hadn't let yourself see before. Just keep that thought in the back of your mind in your daily life when you run across someone that you think is different and weird. You will have a much more interesting and diverse life if you do. But, remember if someone is weird to the point that you feel uncomfortable and there is something off about them? Listen to that feeling and get away as fast as you can. Your inner self is trying to tell you something. As far as your nerdy friend? Don't worry; I'm not trying to talk you into connecting with him. Just think of it as a lesson to show that there is something unique and beautiful in everyone. NEVER be ashamed of something you may do. Life is and will be full of things you wish you had done differently. Simply take each action and result as a lesson. When something turns out differently than you had wanted simply look at the situation and see the different angles and what you can do differently next time so you don't repeat the results. If it happens the way you want...well, it's a no brainer. You'll repeat that one.
Now, how do you handle the situation? Well, as I said before, act like it was no big deal. If someone makes a rude remark to you about it simply say something like, don't knock it if you haven't tried it and laugh it off. After a while they will see that you are being good-natured about it and laughing right along with them, this will deflate the whole thing. It won't be any fun for them anymore if they can't get a reaction from you.
A little advise. Try to only drink to the point of happiness and fun. Never past memory blockage or self control. I think you know your limit now, just don't go past it. Also, be careful who you let get you a drink. There is that date rape drug out there that knocks you out and someone can take advantage of you. Be careful and have fun!!!!!!
Namaste!
LULABELLE
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when someone says dudeee i heard about you and that weird kid be like "yeah hahaha after [huge number] beers, he was lookin' fiiiine!" people will shut up if you just tell them you were wasted. <3
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hey. my advice would be to break up with him. why would you waste your time with someone that you have no feelings for. just tell everyone that you werent thinking before you acted. i think that everyone will understand. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥
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Just tell the guy and everybody else the truth. If you tell him that you don't like him and what really happened at the party he will forget about you. THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE!!
Good Luck
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Don't judge someone before you know them. I bet he's a really nice guy. And shit happens. Just blow off what people say. It's not a big deal, although it may seem that way.
Just next time, don't go to wild parties, don't get drunk, and don't hook up w. someone from school.
It's simple, really.
♥TiNA
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