about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

Hey how do i get a pic onto my column? I'm pretty sure I know where to put it... but I don't know where to get the url from the pic i want

thanks

you can go to www.tinypictures.com and broswe 4 the picture you want and thingupload it and then it give you aURL code that you can use for your advice column. hope this helps.
*Stephanie~*

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How do you make layouts, like for xangas?
What programs do you use and stuff? If there are programs can you tell me which ones they are, thanks.

http://www.blogring.net/index.php?showtopic=3258

you just need to get the codes for the colors which is the link here>>>>> http://howto.livejournal.com/28475.html


it doesnt matter what website that you get the color codes for because they all go by the same codes. hope this helps. if you need anything else for anga i would be glad to help you out just drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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my hair has been falling out like crazy but its not normal falling out i mean its a lot of hair but i dont know why and i dont know if i should tell my mom

16/f

thanks

no that isnt normal i think you should tell your mom and i dont know if you use gekl or not but if you do it is bad for your hair thatis what my salon told me.. andwaching you hair out everyday issnt good for your hair either because your hair need its own newtrians(sp) to grow.hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Tonight my guy friend is bringing his friends from another school to this community festival. They are really hot, and I'd like to get to know them. What things should I say or do to get their attention? Should I go with a casual look (jeans and a black cami) or should I wear short shorts with a tight top?

well u dont want them to think your a hoe so just wear like some jeans and like a tight top not to revealing. then with the guys just talk themand flirt a lot with them. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Can you fall in love with someone even though you hardly know them?? I've liked this kid for like 4 years..and i hardly know him.

~I'm not sure

i think you can i mean everyone thinks of love differentally and no one things the same idea of it..
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm 13 yrs. old....I've never made out with any one.....Well lets cut to the chase I've never had a boyfriend at all....I've had alot of crushes but never an actual boyfriend....is that good or bad?

nope it is normal.. plus you shouldnt have a boyfriend at 13 that is a little too yong. soryy but have you thought of how you going to have a realtionship with a guy if he cant drive and you cant either. well dont worry about you stil got 1...2...3..4.5.6.7..8 a lot more years to go to find a boyfriend but right now just enjoy life..
*~Stephanie~*

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how can u tell a friend u don't want 2 be her friend anymore without hurtin her feelings ok my so called best friend wouldn't come 2 my b-day party becuause 3 of my other friendz who she hates came she told me this and i told her 2 ignor them but she still wouldnt come and also she is a back stabber one day i was over her house and we were about 2 go outside and have a snowball fight and her couison called and she went to the mall with her couison and just blew me off and her couisin hates me me and her have been friends since kindergarten pleze help


thnx:-)

since you have been friend with her for so long maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel and tell her about everything you told us like aout ur b-day and the mall thing. i think if you guys have been friends for so long then you guys can make it through this but if it doesnt work maybe dont stope talking to her 4ever just leave her alone for a couple of days and let her come to you. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it possible for your cherry to be popped while a guy is fingering you?...thx

yes it can be popped.
*~Stephanie~*

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I Need To Kno... Should I Go Blonde Or Stay Brunnette?? Here Is The Blonde I Want-------->> Help Me Please!!

stay brunette and get blonde highlights if you want you can go blonde highlights from the front and stay completely brunette in the back that is what i got except mine has blonde and red. hope this helps
*~Stephanie~*

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heey love

i hoestly agree with the 3 other people that answered your question. you shouldnt give it up to him...i mean it will get addicitve and what your friend where right about the playa thing.. see if he keeps his word and keeeps intocuh with you. i mean you dont have to break up but i think if you guys both love each other strongly then i think you guys can make it work out. .right now i am in a long disntance realtionship with a guy and he lives about 2 1/2 hours away but he comes and sees me every weekend and we talk all the time.. if you guys cant make it then listen to your friends and try going out with other guys. there are a lot of ghuys out there. i undestand that you love him and even though there are many fish in the sea he will always be your nemo. i wish you the best of luck to you and your boyfriend.
*~Stephanie~*

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OK, i am 14, and just going into highschool.I am going to an all girls school. I have never been boycrazy, i havent even gone out with a boy or anything. I do have a lot of friends who are guys. I really want a boyfriend, but going to an all girls highschool will make it harder. I am also an EXTREME tomboy, and i'm not really fat, just bulky and muscular. How do i get guys to like me? And what can i do to get a bf when im going to an all girls school? help me, i rate high!!

i dont think it matters what school you go to i mean you can go to the mall and meet soem guys.. you noe.. dont always be so uptight and worried i mean you need to let loosen up sooner or later.dont worry they are a lot of guys out there. but what you need to do is be at the right place at the right time. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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what does it mean when you get 3 D's on your report card?? .... did i pass??? please help and i need a serious answer!! i rate high!!!!! please!

well i dont know about your school and what the requirements are but if you didnt pass they should have sent you a letter in the mail telling you didnt pass. i mean my best friend got 3 f's and she past the 8th grade but i noe that in highschool some highschools take C's as a passig grade and not an d's. but you should worry because you didnt pass they would have already told you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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O.K. I have been on my period since the middle of sixth grade and I'm now in eighth grade. I have skipped a lot of periods in the past and I was wondering if that has anything to do with having kids. Will I still be able to have kids and is this serious? Now, my period has been going for a MONTH! Is that normal for a 13 year old girl, even if I started almost three years ago?
Signed,
Kayla

umm no it isnt normal. it is normal to skip a couple onths but it isnt normal to have it going a whole month.. talk to your parents preferable you mom about this and tell her what is happenig. you should go to the doctor asap. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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When I try to upload my profile picture on Advicenators, this message comes up:

You tried to upload a picture, but it was greater than 15K in filesize so it wasn't uploaded.

..What do I do??

i use photobucket.com i upload my picture and it gives you a url and you can also make it smaller or you can also go to tinypics.com and it will shrink your picture. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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my best friend told me he wants to hook up with me durring the fire works at the carvial in our town. he's older than me, and i really dont mind that. i just want to know what else we could do while we're " watching " the fireworks

hold hands, make out that would be actually be fun making out while watchin the fireworks..lol.. talking and i dont know what else. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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when i see like sex seens in movies and what not i get this weird feeling in my vagina...what is this? thanks

that means your getting horny
*~Stephanie~*

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The only reason i'm up now is because i can never fall asleep! if u help me with this i will give u a five!
i think this is urgent so please answer asap!

ok well this work for my dad and i tryed it and it worked. well my dad listens to a tape that tells him what to do over and ovr again. he used it will he was stressed otu and couldnt sleep. well anyways first you lay down on your bed and you put your hands at your side. then you relax calm down. 3rd you clear you mind of everything and try not to think about anything. after you do this you should fall asleep. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey well I'm going to go on a diet and I dont really know what type of foods to get for when I go to the grocery store. Any ideas?

i dont know if this going to help you out with your list but i have learned from experise that it DOESNT matter what you eat it is HOW much of it you eat. i mean you can eat fruits and vegtiables all day but some of those things have sugar, flower and a lot of sugar and flower is bad for you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey i was wondering if it was nomal for me to wt=rite songs at my age we'll just say(11-13) lemme know

yes it is normal. anybody can write at any age. my cousin who is 10 writes music, there is nothing worng with it.
*~Stephanie~*

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There is this boy I really like..He is 2 years older than me...this guy has been known for doing things with other girls .....but I don't think some of it is true....Lately he has talked to me and acted like he liked me so i guess you can say he has flirted with me........but there are 2 people standin in the way ....1)his girlfriend Chrystal 2) His ex-gf and my best friend Bethany......i don't think his relationship with Crystal will last long so ......If they break up should I try to go with him or should I wait on him to ask me??
Signed,,, TrueHope10

well if he is your best friends ex i wouldnt go out with him but that is just me. but anyways if you think this guy is worth more then a friendship then you should wait for him to ask you out because you dont want to ask and he isnt ready to get into another realtionship.but i think after about a month he doesnt ask you out you should do it. but in the mean time try talking to him more, just becoming close friends with him. hope this helps you out. oh yea you should believe everything everyone says but not all of it is true.
*~Stephanie~*

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