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how can u tell a friend u don't want 2 be her friend anymore without hurtin her feelings ok my so called best friend wouldn't come 2 my b-day party becuause 3 of my other friendz who she hates came she told me this and i told her 2 ignor them but she still wouldnt come and also she is a back stabber one day i was over her house and we were about 2 go outside and have a snowball fight and her couison called and she went to the mall with her couison and just blew me off and her couisin hates me me and her have been friends since kindergarten pleze help
thnx:-)
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There really is no way to gently end a friendship. If talking to her about her behavior has changed nothing and you really want to be rid of her you will have to get mean. Be sure it is really something you want first, because there is no going back. :)
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Don't ever give up on a friendship. The one way you may be able to deal with this is try and stop hanging out with her as much...let her go her own ways...but never tell her the friendship is over. IF you do that you will only give yourself an enemy. If one day down the road you see her ,you dont want to be known as the girl who ended the friendship...it would be better for a natural fall out to occur where you both just subtley stopped hanging out or being close because of the changes time had instore for you both. DO NOT END THE FRIENDSHIP.
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I recommend writing her a letter, because the way you write, I seriously doubt she could comprehend it. That way when she tries starts talking to you about it, you can get to play everyones favorite role - the indignant bitch.
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since you have been friend with her for so long maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel and tell her about everything you told us like aout ur b-day and the mall thing. i think if you guys have been friends for so long then you guys can make it through this but if it doesnt work maybe dont stope talking to her 4ever just leave her alone for a couple of days and let her come to you. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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ok if you and her have been friends that long you should try and keep it up, just talk to her and tell her what is bothering you, honesty is always the way to go, sit down with her and in a really calm non offensive voice just tell her that it bothered you when she blew you off and stuff, if you have this talk you might get into a fight but it should blow over and you two will become better friends
good luck
<3 donny
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